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Help / Advice / Re: Well, this is it.
« Last post by tesmame on Today at 04:18 AM »i'm interesting to hear what will coming next :) this is like a movie and hopefully you will have a good ending xD
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Our Love Stories (incl TV clips) / Re: My story Pepe
« Last post by bluebear on Jun 18, 2013, 11:30 PM »
Very touching Pepe.
one day, one day!
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Help / Advice / Re: why does life happen?
« Last post by bluebear on Jun 18, 2013, 11:13 PM »Thank you all for the replies!
I have kept my chin up thus far. I will not let this beat me for sure.
I know that one day if it is meant to be it will be. And I try to live in the present.
PEPE- where there is a will there is a way!!! It sounds like you guys are at a boiling point and ready to roll.. hopefully it will all go in your favor.
YTB2HER-It sounds like you got your happily ever after!! I have hope for the future!
I have kept my chin up thus far. I will not let this beat me for sure.
I know that one day if it is meant to be it will be. And I try to live in the present.
PEPE- where there is a will there is a way!!! It sounds like you guys are at a boiling point and ready to roll.. hopefully it will all go in your favor.
YTB2HER-It sounds like you got your happily ever after!! I have hope for the future!
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Help / Advice / Re: New at this......
« Last post by YTB2Her on Jun 18, 2013, 09:29 PM »Here is how it was explained to me: his grandmother is my grandmothers aunt's niece.
Funny thing is, my "so called cousin" and I have liked each other since high school, but because he was two years younger than me I didn't really bother with it.
So unless I'm misreading this, you must come from one heck of a family with a lot of children in each generation.
For your grandparents to be in different generations ("grandmothers aunt's niece") but you're only 2 years apart there's got to be some 20+ years between them.
Notwithstanding that, if that really is the case, it would seem the only way that could possibly work is that you're really only related by marriage.
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Help / Advice / Re: New at this......
« Last post by 2unique on Jun 18, 2013, 03:24 PM »Thanks LadyC. The issue isn't between he and I, more so between my side of the family. They seem to think that related is related. May I mind you, this has happened in the past with the same two sets of family. My sister was dating one of his cousins when the two of them were in high school.......oh, 20 years ago. I'm not backing down from my belief that this relation we supposedly have doesn't matter. It just doesn't make sense. Thanks for the assistance LadyC!!
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Shoot the Breeze / Re: cover up
« Last post by sironeputt on Jun 18, 2013, 03:03 PM »Be TRUE to yourself
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Help / Advice / Re: New at this......
« Last post by LadyC on Jun 18, 2013, 10:55 AM »trying to figure this... and it sounds to me like any kinship would be irrelevant, but i can't swear to that. your grandmother's aunt's niece. let's see if we can figure out what that means LOL. your grandmother's aunt, i THINK, would be your great grandmother's sister. so, your great grandmother's sister had a niece... why would your great grandmother's sister have a niece that your grandmother didn't also have as a niece? unless that niece was only by marriage, meaning the blood relationship would have been with your great grandmother's sister's husband, no to your side of the family. sounds to me like you aren't related at all.
but even if i'm wrong... and if your great grandmother's sister's niece was also your grandmother's niece, that doesn't draw any "cousin line" between the two of you as far as i can tell. granted, it's still early in the morning, and maybe the whole 'grandmother's aunt's niece' is a convoluted and complicated way of saying something that would be much easier described some other way, but off the top of my head i'd say you're probably not related. in ANY case, even if you are related, it's not going to be within any prohibited degrees of kinship, so don't short circuit your brain trying to figure out what isn't an issue :)
but even if i'm wrong... and if your great grandmother's sister's niece was also your grandmother's niece, that doesn't draw any "cousin line" between the two of you as far as i can tell. granted, it's still early in the morning, and maybe the whole 'grandmother's aunt's niece' is a convoluted and complicated way of saying something that would be much easier described some other way, but off the top of my head i'd say you're probably not related. in ANY case, even if you are related, it's not going to be within any prohibited degrees of kinship, so don't short circuit your brain trying to figure out what isn't an issue :)
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Help / Advice / New at this......
« Last post by 2unique on Jun 18, 2013, 10:33 AM »While the genetic chart is interesting, it really doesn't help me understand the relationship I have with my "so called" cousin. Here is how it was explained to me: his grandmother is my grandmothers aunt's niece. Can anybody help me determine exactly what that means? To me it doesn't mean anything because it sounds so far removed that it doesn't even make sense.
Funny thing is, my "so called cousin" and I have liked each other since high school, but because he was two years younger than me I didn't really bother with it. Fast forward to this past Saturday; I saw him after 13 years and age doesn't matter anymore, i still think he's a cutie. He has grown as a man and I like what I see. I knew on yesterday morning that it was a possibility that we were related way down the line, but my aunt confirmed yesterday evening that we are. Neither he or I care about this new found information. We are going forward with this thing and we'll see what happens.
Funny thing is, my "so called cousin" and I have liked each other since high school, but because he was two years younger than me I didn't really bother with it. Fast forward to this past Saturday; I saw him after 13 years and age doesn't matter anymore, i still think he's a cutie. He has grown as a man and I like what I see. I knew on yesterday morning that it was a possibility that we were related way down the line, but my aunt confirmed yesterday evening that we are. Neither he or I care about this new found information. We are going forward with this thing and we'll see what happens.
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Shoot the Breeze / MOHSIN
« Last post by mohsinj677 on Jun 18, 2013, 09:45 AM »
THIS POST IS SO NICE AND GREAT 
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Help / Advice / Re: plz help
« Last post by Hawk on Jun 17, 2013, 11:47 PM »sweetone871,
First off, how old are the two of you, to be contemplating marriage? If you are in your early 20's or beyond, we will try to walk you through it one way. If you are under age, or (for my part) under 20 yrs old or so, we will probably advise you slightly differently. Even if you are 18, and legal, there are things we will tell you to do differently than we would if you were, say, 35 yrs old. Knowaddamean? Legally, there are a few issues you may have to deal with, but economically, I can't think of a better place in the world to be right now than the Dakotas.....
First off, how old are the two of you, to be contemplating marriage? If you are in your early 20's or beyond, we will try to walk you through it one way. If you are under age, or (for my part) under 20 yrs old or so, we will probably advise you slightly differently. Even if you are 18, and legal, there are things we will tell you to do differently than we would if you were, say, 35 yrs old. Knowaddamean? Legally, there are a few issues you may have to deal with, but economically, I can't think of a better place in the world to be right now than the Dakotas.....