the father needs to educate himself thoroughly and be a part of his baby's life
I'm super glad I did my research when I felt feelings grow 4 my my cousin love, I didn't want to kiss/have sex and regret it later on thinking it's wrong, everything we do in life, we need to KNOW what we are doing, if it's RIGHT, your cousin didn't do that, he just acted on his hormones, and didn't think of the "after"
were the words "your getting it on with your cousin without a condom, what will you do if she gets pregnant, just forget about her?" not reverberating in his head...I guess not
was he thinking "I'm getting intimately involved with my cousin, will I do this again, what is the driving mentality that is making me do this in the first place? it just lust? am I just looking at this as a temporary thing, am I only experimenting?
the problem is refusing to think ahead, the consequences, the after effects, the change, the family drama, some people just think of that and say o to hell with it