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Archana

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #30 on: Mar 22, 2011, 03:49 AM »
Hi
i wanted to know that first cousin marraiges is legal for hindus. i love my father;s brother's son from last 4 years. we both got married in one of the arya samaj mandir in delhi and lived happily but wanted to know that if we want to register our marraige in court then will they approved our registration or not ????? :smiley:

rathnahemanth

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« Reply #31 on: Mar 22, 2011, 01:56 PM »
No babe they won't register your marriage if you say you both are cousins..With the name looks like you are from south india.
You can register without disclosing that you are cousins with the Arya samaj's marriage receipt or showing photographs but it may not help much if anyone complains it about you.If someone complains I am sure you ppl will not be arrested or something so dont worry,its just your marriage becomes void..As long as no one challenges your marriage (I hope if its not parents then this will happen only if either of you are celebrities) you are safe with that registered marriage certificate.Ofcourse none of the papers you guys sign in front of the marriage registrar or the registrar himself may not ask you any questions about your relationship.
 
We got our marriage certificate from Tamilnadu and no one questioned anything about it.When I posed this question to one of the lawyers he said "its not a marriage in the eyes of law but its an arrangement unless either of you challenges it against each other you can move on with your life as husband and wife".
 

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« Reply #32 on: Apr 16, 2011, 01:40 PM »
..................hi neha i also have same problem can u tell me the solution of it...she is my mother's sister's daughter......plzzz help me out....waiting for ur reply.....am from north india....(.rajasthan)
HI,
I am from delhi. I love my father's sister's son. Please help me and tell me whether its legal or not.?? Please help.

dinesh

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #33 on: Jul 31, 2011, 03:12 AM »
hai to all, i' m in love with my first cousin(mother's sister's daughter).Please help me.I was thinking of this wierd idea..My cousin can marry any one of yours and I can marry any one of you.Just you can make ur parents happy and we can be happy too..

any one who like this trade place idea,Think about it and mail to:dineshgmax@gmail.com

Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings ..if you dont like this idea just ignore my msg completely..I am a total freak trying to make my parents happier


drvl

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #34 on: Aug 06, 2011, 05:56 PM »
Same here.
Mother's sister's daughter.
Wat can b dne?
Phew!

sunil

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #35 on: Aug 07, 2011, 04:15 AM »
What if all the cousin couples got together and decided a way forward to make our dreams come true.

Any suggestions, if we could make a social group and decide how to go about marrying.
myself 36yr old srivastava  male from varanasi u.p. having same problem(love with first cousin). I m in condition to either select my parents or my beloved since my parents have denied this relation strictly. i always stick with the feelings of my parents and it is final that i will always go with my parents but its too hard also to leave my beloved.Don't know what to do?

rahul

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #36 on: Aug 23, 2011, 04:55 PM »
Hi,
I am in love with my first cousin (my Father's sister's daughter) and we want to get married but I am confused about the law. Well, I now we will face alot of problems becuse we are hindu and our society and family will never accept this but we can't live without each other and love each other very much. But the main question is. Is it legal or illegal for first cousin to get married.  I did some research and found that according to the Hindu Marriage Act of India "the childern of brother and sister can't marry".  But people in the south India tell it is legal to marry first cousin in India. Also, it is normal and first cousin marry in India everyday. Can you help me with this. What is true and what is false.?
 plz reply me
all of advocates advocate and judges
plz help me soon

ravi

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #37 on: Aug 28, 2011, 09:08 AM »
guys me too facing same provlem.. i am in luv wid my cousin( moms brother s daughter)..we r loving since 5 years... i have many doubts.. is it legal in south india hindu culture? and my parents is also cousins marriage. ie. my father married his elder sisters daughter.. ll they be any problem for our baby? if these two r not a problem v ll some how convince our parents or run and marry.. pls help me out guys..

siddharth srivastav

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« Reply #38 on: Aug 31, 2011, 04:35 AM »
TO VIKAS DAS #4:
m also suffering the same prob...um from kokata...help me out even if u get some legal grounds...
please its urgent need
thanks vikas :cheesy: :

A Sharma

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #39 on: Sep 11, 2011, 07:57 PM »
Hi vikas
can we two help each other. I am hindu brahmin North india

i m also a hindu brahmin n madly in love wid my cousins she loves me too...i agree wid rishi if we do trading dat wud be gud.... what important to me is my love for her and i wanna be wid her forever... i believe on my love doesn matter if i get married wid her or not but we kno we will die without eacvh odr...so plz mail me on loveseeker1488@yahoo.com, or lets make  a solution for our love...n ppl who calls our love incest plz stay away...

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #40 on: Sep 11, 2011, 08:03 PM »
I am a hindu too and I have the same problem..Can we trade places? ha ha ha ..I was thinking of this wierd idea..My cousin can marry yours and I can marry you..and I have aUS visa,after marriage we can trade places ..Just you can make ur parents happy and we can be happy too..

Think about it and mail to rishiiii678@gmail.com

Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings ..if you dont like this idea just ignore my msg completely..I am a total freak trying to make my parents happier

hey i have mailed you..please contact me pleaseeeeeeeeee

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #41 on: Sep 11, 2011, 08:05 PM »
I aggree with Rishi. I am ready to do so. I am north indian, Sharma

I am a hindu too and I have the same problem..Can we trade places? ha ha ha ..I was thinking of this wierd idea..My cousin can marry yours and I can marry you..and I have aUS visa,after marriage we can trade places ..Just you can make ur parents happy and we can be happy too..

Think about it and mail to rishiiii678@gmail.com

Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings ..if you dont like this idea just ignore my msg completely..I am a total freak trying to make my parents happier

hey i'm also sharma... please contact me lets find out the solution and keep our love alive..contact me at loveseeker1488@yahoo.com

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #42 on: Sep 11, 2011, 08:13 PM »
guys i really love my cousin she is my life my everything...she loves me too like anything..its been a five year we r together...we are mature enough to understand the situation thats why we tried to move on but after six months we realised we cant move on...we jus cant live without each other...its a pure love no incest nothing....  now we both are growing up...both of us are 23..she is a doctor and i'm a prostesist working in New jersey...our parents looking for mates for us and we r rejecting every1 till den we can avoid it...but one day will come when we will have to tell dem..i told dem already but they are not accepting.. i'm from rajasthan and i'm brahmin..i told my mom about us but she clearly refused me... i can understand her feelings too but we tried to move on but now if we cant move on so isnt der any solution..i jus know one thing i can be wid her only, it doesn matter if i'll get married to her or not i just wanna be wid her for all d births.. if der is any1 who can help us out please contact me...we all can find out a solution for our loves... mail me at loveseeker1488@yahoo.com

kanchan jangra

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #43 on: Sep 19, 2011, 04:08 PM »
aap sbki baate padi. sb cnfuse he. shocha tha kuchh rasta milega. mgr is baat ki khushi hai ki ese relation me mai akeli nai hoon. haan ek baat or kehna chahti hoon. love. agr ye sachha he to kabhi mehsoos krna ise bolkr. apne andr bhagwan ke jesa ehsaas paaoge. or pyaar ko uski inaayat aashirwaad.  JAB PYAAR BHAGWAAN KA AASHIRWAAD HAI TO PHIR ISME PAAP KESA. or rahi baat logo ki to log kya PURI QAAYNAAT BHI US BHAGWAAN SE BADI NAHI HAI.

agr apka pyaar sacha hai to bhagwaan apke sath he.
(mgr kya itna pkkaa vishwaas kr paoge us pr???????)

amrita

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Re: First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?
« Reply #44 on: Sep 24, 2011, 03:45 AM »
hi
m too in same situation i love my mother's brother's daughter's son
but both mine n his parents r strictly against our marriage dey even said dat dey will challenge our marriage legally if we tried to get married widout their consent
plzzzzzzzzzz anyone plz tell me can we get a legal marriage under special marriage act or any other act

 

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