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    • I like my cousin a lot he is my first cousin and I consider us best friends. We have always been close but i actually feel like we would be a good couple. I got catfished by a guy online I was talking to for a year  and found out yesterday . I told him about it cuz i had no one else and he talked to me for like 6 hours over text about it . Shared some deeply personal stories about his heartaches and hookups that ended badly . I dont think He has ever told anyone those and he wasnt going to tell me but then he did he opened up to me for pretty much the first time. He told me 3 personal embarrassing stories . I figured he had relationships but he never talked about them. we shared secrets and it was really nice. Heres the problem i think he also might feel a  attraction too but he would never act on it . I am getting more close to him and it cant go anywhere just like the other online relationship. I am in limbo and the last stop is heartbreak guys . I mean i know i mean a lot to him but I dont know if that could ever be in the romantic way.heres an example :It was valentines day but that dont mean anything as e were going to a movie premiere(he asked me ) that just happened to be that day. (he said he didnt even know it was V day ) We  decided not to and i asked if he still just wanted to hang out so we were just driving around listening to music and were both single and being sarcastic i said " who has a significant other anyways what a loser " just joking around and he said "hey youre my significant other you are significant to me shannon . I just thought  thats a weird thing to say a significant other is a couple in a relationship right ? does he wish we were together ? He has done other things to such as fake mocking me and saying "oh look at me im shannon im so pretty and everyone loves me ". We also talked about moving into together when he makes enough money to buy a house . It feels like were already together but no one wants to be the first to just say it.  Am i crazy or does he like me back ? We joked about it one time actually i was asking if there was anyone single at his work and he said there is but he is kind of a player and a jerk .He then went on to say other than that there is me (meaning him )  and that might be a little bit awkward  we laughed and i said hey i would already  have met your parents and we just laughed about it but he didnt seem grossed out by the idea . He is technically my half cousin because our moms have different dads if that makes a diference lol. I told my mom about the things he says because i tell her everything and she agrees its weird . I liked him in a non friendly way since i was like 17 . I am 24 he is 25 and we still hangout and have this special connection we always got along and he is my best friend honestly and i think we would be great together.I just dont know if we ever can actually be together. I dont know guys its proabably all in my head and im ust romantasizing a friedship because i want it to be real. 
    • I like my cousin a lot he is my first cousin and I consider us best friends. We have always been close but i actually feel like we would be a good couple. I got catfished by a guy online I was talking to for a year  and found out yesterday . I told him about it cuz i had no one else and he talked to me for like 6 hours over text about it . Shared some deeply personal stories about his heartaches and hookups that ended badly . I dont think He has ever told anyone those and he wasnt going to tell me but then he did he opened up to me for pretty much the first time. He told me 3 personal embarrassing stories . I figured he had relationships but he never talked about them. we shared secrets and it was really nice. Heres the problem i think he also might feel a  attraction too but he would never act on it . I am getting more close to him and it cant go anywhere just like the other online relationship. I am in limbo and the last stop is heartbreak guys . I mean i know i mean a lot to him but I dont know if that could ever be in the romantic way.heres an example :It was valentines day but that dont mean anything as e were going to a movie premiere(he asked me ) that just happened to be that day. (he said he didnt even know it was V day ) We  decided not to and i asked if he still just wanted to hang out so we were just driving around listening to music and were both single and being sarcastic i said " who has a significant other anyways what a loser " just joking around and he said "hey youre my significant other you are significant to me shannon . I just thought  thats a weird thing to say a significant other is a couple in a relationship right ? does he wish we were together ? He has done other things to such as fake mocking me and saying "oh look at me im shannon im so pretty and everyone loves me ". We also talked about moving into together when he makes enough money to buy a house . It feels like were already together but no one wants to be the first to just say it.  Am i crazy or does he like me back ? We joked about it one time actually i was asking if there was anyone single at his work and he said there is but he is kind of a player and a jerk .He then went on to say other than that there is me (meaning him )  and that might be a little bit awkward  we laughed and i said hey i would already  have met your parents and we just laughed about it but he didnt seem grossed out by the idea . He is technically my half cousin because our moms have different dads if that makes a diference lol. I told my mom about the things he says because i tell her everything and she agrees its weird . I liked him in a non friendly way since i was like 17 . I am 24 he is 25 and we still hangout and have this special connection we always got along and he is my best friend honestly and i think we would be great together.I just dont know if we ever can actually be together. I dont know guys its proabably all in my head and im ust romantasizing a friedship because i want it to be real. 
    • I'm a 35 year old male and I have kissed 4 of my cousins and each experience was unique but there's one that stands out. My cousin is very attractive and has a great body you can't help but notice.  It's hard really hard not to stare at her at family gatherings.  She is the one that makes you think "if only you weren't my cousin!!" This is the cousin I had a "crush" on as a kid but never told her.  We lived in different states but we have always been really close and flirty with each other and would always tell each other our love stories.  We would only see each other about twice a year but she would tell me that she always dated losers and I would tell her I was a hopeless romantic.  Anyhow I'll get to the point.  We were both 31 and I was staying at her house for a couple of weeks.  One night after a party and everyone left I helped her clean up.  We were still pretty tipsy in the backyard talking as I was finishing a smoke.  She said she was gonna go inside really quick and would be right out.  I waited for about 10 minutes and I figured that she probably fell asleep.  I went inside and as I opened the door to my room she was laying in my bed!! She told me to lay down next to her.  My heart was racing.  She grabbed my hand and as we locked fingers I rubbed my body against hers and I grabbed her face with my other hand and turned her around and gave her a deep gentle kiss!  It was amazing.  I felt goosebumps and we just kept kissing and caressing each other.  I slowly unbuttoned her pants and started rubbing my hands against her smooth arse and over her thong.  She started moaning and for some reason I decided to stop.  I think it might have been because her kids were also in the house but something just didn't feel right.  The next morning it was pretty awkward but nobody mentioned it.  I really enjoyed it and I know we would have had sex if I wouldn't have stopped.  We have not spoken about it ever but I really want to do it again but again for some reason I can't make the move on her.  We have hung out by ourselves and she still acts flirty.  We only usually hang out when she is not dating a loser though. Should I tell her how I feel? Should I remind her of that one night? Also I got 3 more stories with other cousins so let me know if you want to hear them!  Thanks!      
    • Hi, i know this isn't my post but um i kinda need so help. Ok so heres the story, when i was younger me, my aunty and first cousins used to come over all the time to our house, i was extremely close to them. They were like bestfriends to me. Even when i was only young, i ended up having a little kiddy crush on one of my cousins at first(i wont say their real names for privacy reasons but i'll just call them tyler and bradley). So at first, i had a small seen as "innocent crush" on my crush tyler, which was bradley my other cousins older brother. But sadly something bad happened in the family which i wont get into as its about my aunty and stuff and its not my place to say anything but what happened tore not only my family but also but friendship apart, with the whole family. My feelings for tyler during the years apart, faded but only for a short time.. I didnt see them for a good two years maybe even a bit longer then that. But at lot changed within just a short two years. I grew up alot, i was so much more mature. As when i was younger i was quite annoying and weird. So anyways one day, my mum tells me that she had a talk with my aunty and after two years away from my bestfriends (cousins), i could finally see them. At this point i was happy but extremely nervous bc i hadnt seen them both in a long time. I went from seeing them everyday to not having any contact whatsoever with them. So then a few days later, we arrived that their house. It was so arkward at first for a few days but when we actually talked and bonded... I noticed something different. I'd never liked bradley cousin or not, he just wasnt my type in general. Not that he was bad or anything but i was into those more tougher, rebel type boys, as most teenage girls were haha. And let me tell u something about my cousins, well first off tyler was definitely a rebel/bad boy type and bradley was NOT. he was that typical "nerdy" kinda sweet guy (not that theres anything with that, i am a nerd myself i guess i just dont outwardly look like one). Bradley got picked on for his glasses, got called four eyes which when i was younger i secretly thought was funny, but i didnt like the fact that he was bullied for it. Eventually i found it cute, and sweet haha. Anyways, me and bradley became super close, like SUPER close. We were inseparatable. I started slowly developing very very strong feelings for him. At this time tyler though so freaking HOT!, was kinda jerk.. He was a playboy and always had a new chick. My feelings for tyler became dislike very fast. He was mean to me and rude, i was attracted to bad boys not pricks. He was being a prick, nothing attractive about that. So anyways, i fell so deeply in love for the first time actually ever and with my cousin. But... There was a problem... 1: he had a gf.. 2: my family is religeous, never would of accepted it 3: at that time i was only 14 4: he didnt know and i wasnt 100% sure he felt the same way. I truly thought he did... But... I told him... And he didnt... Long story short, i fell for tyler again and he showed me a side of him id never seen before. I didnt wanna fall in love again but i did, and again my heart was broken. Its been years now... I havent spoken to bradley in years and well tyler and i... He ignores me and he has a girlfriend, whom he said he plans on spending his life with.. Bradley and his girlfriend broke up a long time ago though, so he is currently not in a relastionship. One thing that still puzzles me today is that i remember when he was with her, and me meeting her i realised so was almost my twin... She looked like me, only a but taller and maybe a bit skinner, sounds weird but same type of personality as well...  Why would he date someone who was basically so much like me? I even have a recording of him saying he loves me, then when i ask him what he said, he denies it..?  Now... Even still after all this time... I havent moved on fully from both of them. I am still deeply in love with tyler and as for bradley theres still a part of me that will probably love him forever(he was my first love after all). A piece of my heart no matter who i am with in the future or if i am with no one, a small piece of it  will always belong to them my cousins, especially bradley (i still feel like i fell harder for bradley then i did tyler) I still have so many questions, yet no answers. I wanna know why would bradley say he loves me then denies it months later, i wanna know why.  What do u think i should do? I cant get over them, i still think about them constantly... Pls help me  
    • Hey Epshi, thanks for your response. Are you sure ?  Because she stills keeps calling me her brother in texts and over call, whereas i have minimized to almost zero. She is now saying she wants us to be the coolest bro sis ever. So, I have doubts now that she may just see me as a brother for protection. :/
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