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  2. Im in deep serious love with my first sister(my father's sister's daughter) so deep that i can't resist it anymore.I just visited her at her town and im back, we had some really really close moments where she too was willingly accepting that thing and said she enjoyed when i hugged her till there was no air between us and i she was also cool when i kept my hand inside her t-shirt.. The only problem is that i don't know how she feels about me and i don't know why she ignored me for 2 days after that we were normal.She has also mentioned quite a few times that she is a bad expresser.What do you guys think she feels and what should i do next🥺

     

    Ps.ive never had this strong of a feeling that has made me so desperate about her... I could spend the whole night looking at her♥️

     

     

  3. Im in deep serious love with my first sister(my father's sister's daughter) so deep that i can't resist it anymore.I just visited her at her town and im back, we had some really really close moments where she too was willingly accepting that thing and said she enjoyed when i hugged her till there was no air between us and i she was also cool when i kept my hand inside her t-shirt.. The only problem is that i don't know how she feels about me and i don't know why she ignored me for 2 days after that we were normal.She has also mentioned quite a few times that she is a bad expresser.What do you guys think she feels and what should i do next🥺

     

    Ps.ive never had this strong of a feeling that has made me so desperate about her... I could spend the whole night looking at her♥️

     

    What should i do now?

     

  4. Yesterday
  5. the thing is, he had the ability to have a genetic specialist on there, and he CHOSE instead to have someone who would give slanted and inaccurate information. that was not by accident. it was totally intentional.
  6. Ahh OpenImbrella! Ok problem solved....
  7. Last week
  8. I was extemely unhappy with Dr.Phil. Long time fan here that no longer watches. In fact I make sure to put it on regular daytime tv to give someone else ratings lol. I feel like he has forgotten his purpose. Now its just about putting people down to get ratings instead of building people up and helping them. I dont think people go into coucling to tear people down. Really sad and it isnt just this couple. She was very manipulative with her wording and numbers. Also he had none of her family on there that accept them just the bitter lady who clearly always has to be right. Oh I wosh he had a genetic specialist on there to shut her arse down. Hopefully people are smart enough to do their own research. Yes using google because thats how we resesrch things these days!
  9. Is the sole reason they dont want you to be together is because youre cousins? Have you explained you share very little dna? Like .5% to 1.5%? If you share any at all? I will say a family member of mine was so upset but we moved forward anyway and eventually they accepted it. The bible doesnt forbid it and there are examples of cousin marriges in the bible. No where in the US is it illegal to even marry a 2nd cousin. Ive seen so many stories of ppl finding out through dna they were 3rd or 4th cousins. Google i married my 3rd cousin and an article will pop up of someone finding out that way. Eduated them the best you can in genetics. Good luck and best wishes!
  10. So they other day i got into an argument with my parents about "when they knew i was with my love (3rd or 4th cousin)" They don't we are still together. They basically said they would have me thrown into an institution for mental help if i did try to be with him and they would shun me. Granted Im 19 and fixing to move out to go to college. My love is in basic training and will be until july. He plans to see me during the time im in school but i'll have to hide it from my parents even though i'll be out on my own making my own decisions. They brought up biblical references and i know that where it talks about who you can and can't marry it's ver specific. Even legally in my state of oklahoma there is nothing against us. They stated they couldn't control who i dated or who was with. But the seem want to control me. I dont want to use them but i'll have to saty in touch with my parents for financial stuff for federal aid. What should i do? His family is fine with us and are happy we are together and they want to see us happy. I do plan to marry him out of state after i graduate but i just need some help and advice on these threats. I told my family it wouldn't happen between me and him to stop the argument and appease them. I don't plan to talk about it or argue with them anymore. If they make jokes about i'll fake laugh about it if you get my point. Any legal help or advice or advice in general would help tremendously. ❤️ Nanner
  11. What is it with you guys that just want to have sex with your cousin!!!! Do you not think enough of these young ladies to either have a REAL relationship with them and treat them as they should be treated or are you just STUPID enough to think that they think you are the BEST thing in the world to come their way??????? Honestly I may be old, but if I were either of your cousins I would kick you to the curb, and be HIGHLY insulted that you think so lowly of me! Maybe it is time to mature in your thinking, it isn't all about you.
  12. If you really want to get over your feelings for your cousin then refrain from doing any of the above mentioned activities!! Neither of which will give you what you seek. Using your cousin to "relieve" your pent up feelings is bad and selfish. If you wish to have a real relationship with her then pursue her honorably and in the same way you would another woman you were interested in.
  13. Im in deep serious love with my first sister(my father's sister's daughter) so deep that i can't resist it anymore.I just visited her at her town and im back, we had some really really close moments where she too was willingly accepting that thing and said she enjoyed when i hugged her till there was no air between us and i she was also cool when i kept my hand inside her t-shirt.. The only problem is that i don't know how she feels about me and i don't know why she ignored me for 2 days after that we were normal.She has also mentioned quite a few times that she is a bad expresser.What do you guys think she feels and what should i do next🥺 Ps.ive never had this strong of a feeling that has made me so desperate about her... I could spend the whole night looking at her♥️
  14. Leowl

    Taboo

    That sounds just awful that people today can voice such hostile negativity. I would say "Just ignore it" but I can imagine that after a while, and after the consistency of that kind of negativity; it just gets you down. So understandably you are struggling lately; I think you've done the right thing by firstly talking about it; that helps; and just to let you know that you are not alone. When life gets me down, or people for that matter, I try to focus on the things that really matter to me; I find that helps too Kinda puts things into perspective. So yeah....talk about it...and focus on whats important to you in life; and if possible; cut the haters loose from your life.
  15. Wow Louisa thank you for sharing, I was browsing this site and I read your story; it was heartbreaking. I just had to sign up and give you some support and say thank you and good on you for sharing It's unfortunate, and I see this a lot these days online, people work up the courage and share something close to their hearts and then the wolves come in to tear that person apart. I just want to say that your story had me in tears and I feel sorry that after sharing you've been forced to defend yourself. It's just plain wrong *Hugs*. Don't pay any attention to them; they've clearly got nothing better to do than pick at people when they are vulnerable and kick them when they're down.
  16. Hey man I’m just like u, but u got it in more!!! Don’t give up and please keep me posted and I also posted my own story!! I really hope things turn out the way u wnat them to be!! Keep me posted
  17. I just wanna let u know I’m 20 and my cousin she’s 25! I know this is going to sound like a very crazy story and looking at the ages I know. Me and my cousin love to mess with each other it’s our thing! As time went I had feelings for her and couldn’t get her out of my mind! We are very very close, she told me about her ex and I was there for her and I told her about my ex and she did the same for me! I know I can’t be with her, which makes me very sad! All I want is to kiss her on the lips or to have sex with her! She’s very beautiful and has a gorgeous body! I just wanna kiss her one time or have sex with her one time so my feelings for her can finally go away! Any advice in how to get her to wanna to that with me? I mean we do flirt with each other sometimes when we joke around with each other like normal couples would do! Btw we are Islam so it’s ok to be with your cousin and stuff! And also she gives amazing advice for me because she is still in college and has a lot of work and she always tells me and she freaks about her test and has the freak out problems and I always calm her down let her know she’s the smartest person I know and she can do it! Please I need help she’s so beautiful and can’t get her out of my mind! If we can’t have sex or kiss, is it possible we can just touch eachother? Thanks.
  18. One person had a major problem but has since...i guess got use to it? We choose not to tell people but I often wonder how the community would react, it almost feels like im holding on to a deep shameful secret if that makes sense. Even though I never have felt ashamed. I didnt think it was looked so down upon. The people that like me now could turn so quick. Idk just thoughts that are now stuck circulating. Romalee your words make so much sense though thank you.
  19. LOL ... so more of the same ... so my response to you would be what I already said to you
  20. Ambra there was no condescending at all. In fact this site has been really helpful to me aside for the two comments from you that served only to criticise and provide no genuine aid in achieving the quality posts you so clearly care about. There is a certain element of working through things to be here in the first place. Certainly no back peddling in fact I’m happy to step up to tell you that you are rude, arrogant and your interpretation seem like a reflections of your own bullying behaviour. Thanks for nothing tough guy 😉
  21. Yeahh i have a secret, i used to peep in her room while she was changing. When she finds out I am peeping started changing in a more seductive manner. I serously like her very much
  22. I am worried that I will somehow destroy my relationship with my parents. That they may look at me with disgust and may never get over it. You're right, the secrecy may get old, or maybe they will figure things out eventually. I'm not really sure what to do but I think for now I want to keep it secret and I know my cousin wants to as well.
  23. Hello, I posted on here couple months back. You don't need to read anything in old thread as it's a new situation now. My 1st cousin (F) and I (M) are in late-20s and known each other most of our lives. I felt some connection with her since first time we met as kids. We got close for couple years, then drifted apart in teenage years rarely talking or even looking at each other. My feelings were there but dormant then in our 20s, we began talking again and getting close over past year or 2. We got closer and my feelings became deeper. Things just took a twist. Last week, she randomly sent me 2 snaps with one snap of her at a restaurant dining table with a guy. I ignored it initially not thinking anything of it then I began wondering. I opened up snap again a hour later to look closely, suddenly feeling sad and brokenhearted when I noticed the two were there alone in a romantic decor. I know, I know - I'm not 'with with' her so why should I expect anything different? I am severely introverted & socially a mess, but I was finally opening up to her (she was first person I ever opened up to but she never opened up to me). I had begun maintaining eye contact with her for entire conversations and we smiled at each other nonstop. My confidence was soaring & she made me a better person. But based on this snap, it seems she doesn't want me in that way. She was talking softly with me, smiling widely, standing close and constant eye contact, but I may have misunderstood everything or she was flirting for attention from me or she does have feelings for me but can't accept them. I just hope it doesn't cause me to return back into my shell. We met several days earlier before the snap, she looked beautiful and it was hard to get my eyes off her. We kept smiling at each other when we talked, and I kept looking at her, secretly studying her face when she wasn't looking. Her breasts seemed to be free and larger/swollen than usual so I kept sneaking in peeks there (probably that time in her cycle). Her hair was in a nice ponytail that made her look younger. She smelled so nice. She was happy, smiling & joking with everyone. I was intoxicated by everything about her. Then on her way out, we looked in each other's eyes for a full second just to say 'bye' - my chest skipped a beat when I saw her eyes were smiling in earnest joy. I felt happy too! Then this snap happened. I'm wondering if she realized what was happening between us and sent that snap to let me know to back off or if I'm imagining things. It could have been a mistake snap certainly not meant for me but her friends. Anyways, she either inadvertently or intentionally snapped me that clip with her and her bf so I now know she is with someone. It was only a 3 second clip, but it took my breath away & I felt down all week. She had never told me about her bf and I don't think she knows I know. She came by a day after the snap. I was heartbroken and couldn't smile or look her in the eyes for our conversation. She asked me several times if everything was okay, but what could I possibly say? I was so sad being a foot away from her a day after finding out she is with someone. I certainly couldn't tell her the truth about why I was sad. I lied to her saying I was just tired. She left my room once she realized she was not going to get anything from me. I have ghosted her over last week since and also over few weeks, I haven't texted her. It's not like she ever initiates texts. 1) I am starting to get over the heartbroken feeling after 5 days, but I am not over it. I don't think I can look her in the eyes or genuinely smile at her again. She will take one good look at me and know something is wrong when she notes I am behaving different around her. I am scrambling trying to figure out how to act or respond when she notices something is off and asks what's wrong. I can't tell her the truth, but I also can't lie to her face without her knowing. How do I hide my feelings and sadness from her? I am TERRIBLE at lying and acting, and I also don't have the guts to be honest about my feelings. I am able to be honest with her about anything but that. 2) Now I am going a bit into weird land. When she says to my siblings she is going here or staying overnight there, I get some crazy thoughts. I automatically start thinking she must be staying with her bf, and they must be doing nasty things together. I automatically picture them doing "things" together in my mind, and I even think about how much fun she must be having staying up all night screaming & moaning with him (I can't help it). I think about being there myself with her. These are some scary disgusting thoughts I. can't. get. out. of. my. head. This is the beginnings of jealousy, and that annoys me. I am not the jealous type and never was. I am so confused about what's happening- I was always calm, relaxed and smooth but I guess she is driving me crazy. What suggestions do you have? I think my best move is to forget her, but I don't know how. We have a lot of similarities and I feel happy around her, but now I also feel brokenhearted. She will be visiting often so I don't have the choice of avoiding her. I am afraid I might be rude to her when she comes by to talk/visit, which is not my nature but I don't know. I like being around her since she makes me so happy, but how can I be friends after so much happened? I can't tell if she knows or even suspects anything. edit: removed some needless info
  24. Reading your last post, it sounds to me like your condescending to us. We know all your points before you made them. Most of us have been here a long time. You got called out on your post and now your back-peddling. Don't come looking for help, when you don't actually want any. And there was nothing humorous about your title. Ambra
  25. Romalee

    Confused

    Regardless of what her reasons are. rational or not, she has spoken that she doesn't want to be in this relationship. You need to honor her wishes. You can tell her about this site and the information, however it is up to her if she wishes to check it out or not. Then you have to back away and let things fall where they may. Don't pressure her, as that is a sure way to push her further away. Best wishes.
  26. Serendipity and Ambra are both correct, the secrecy will get old really quick! I suspect that the family will figure it out quickly, probably before the secrecy gets old! You can go ahead and implement your plan and move in together but don't be surprised of what comes after. Love can't be hidden, especially in the eyes!!! Best wishes.
  27. Romalee

    Taboo

    We are second cousins, married 15 years. No problems with family, except for a few comments in fun. We just don't announce it to the world. It isn't any of business of others unless we want them to know. I'm not sure what you are struggling with, but if you have been married that long, something must be working. Did your families have any problem with your relationship? Personally speaking, you may be borrowing trouble where there is none. Because the Utah couple chose to be so public, doesn't mean you have too. Of course many of those cruel/mean comments that are made toward them are behind the anonymity of the internet and very well might not be so cruel/mean in a face to face situation. Also most of them are not aware of the state laws and biblical recognition of cousin couple relationships. They speak from ignorance of the correct information. Don't let the negativity integrate into your relationship. At the end of the day they get no say in your life. Best wishes as you work through our struggles.
  28. Serendipity, You're right, it's a lot to consider. I doubt my family would take it well. Not because they don't care, more just because of the stigma ("ick" factor) and some other family stuff I don't feel like going into but I can promise you, it's serious. I definitely worry about souring my family relationships. Friends not so much, it's family I worry about. Ambra, Of course I have doubt, and that's why I posted. I worry that somehow we will be found out. Not sure how, but somehow. Or maybe one day, they just stop buying our story. That's my doubt and my fear. We both have a fair bit to lose but I love him so much. Our love is unlike anything I've experienced before. I've never connected with someone so well. He is worth it and I am worth it to him in return. We are both fairly private people, yes. I don't really talk about my love life with friends or even family.
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