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    I was very scared when I found out I was pregnant with my first cousins baby. I was so afraid I would give birth to a baby who had defects. After discussing with my Dr. about why I was concerned about the pregnancy, he told me, I could have a normal & healthy baby like any other woman. He did the normal tests that you get done while being pregnant and everything was fine in my case. I gave birth to a very healthy 8lb 3.5 oz baby boy. To this day, we have a normal, healthy 40 year old. :-) I would suggest you talk with your Dr. first and see what he/she thinks. I am quite sure blood tests can provide the information needed so, you can decide what course of action you and your cousin should take with having a child. Wishing you all the best.
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    We are heading to Arizona tomorrow, weather permitting in Amarillo!! Have a blessed and Happy New Year!! I will check in when I can.
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    Well, my idea of fun is a bit "different": I have filed to be a candidate for a local election! Never, in my wildest dreams, did I ever think of doing that! LOL HUGS
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    We travel with our 5th wheel trailer. Visit places, family and friends on the way to where ever. Have been in Missouri for about 3 weeks. Visited the Clydesdale horse ranch, the WW1 memorial and museum in Kansas City and several other historical places in the area where we are. Heading back to Texas in a couple of days and will be at a lake for some r&r and some fishing!!
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    hi elie if you two have a child together, only the nearest kinship would be applicable. so he (or she) would simply be your child... and your cousin's child. the answer you're looking for would be first cousin twice removed... but like i said, that relationship is not one that would be counted or considered for any purpose other than curiosity's sake. but your child isn't going to be a freak show in a traveling circus, so that's just useless information! if you two get married, his dad will be your father-in-law. the fact that he's also your first cousin once removed is irrelevant. your family dynamic has changed. for the record, i'm also married to my first cousin once removed. his dad is my first cousin. we've been married for 19 years... i never could wrap my head around calling him "dad", so i just call him by his first name. but then again, i never called my in-laws from my previous (unrelated) marriage mom or dad either. your child would only considered the 'grandchild' of your parents and your cousin's. likewise, your child would only be the niece or nephew to any of your siblings or your cousin's... no need to count the generations and try to sort out the degrees of kinship or who is once, twiced, or not-at-all removed. always remember the nearest degree is the only one that counts. so the relational stuff would be exactly as it would be if the father were not related to you at all. hope that helped!
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    When we got married 16 years ago my wife and I decided we would try to do something we've never done, or go somewhere we've never been at least 3-4 times a year. We've taken vacations in D.C. , Idaho, an Alaskan cruise, and many other places.In February we went snowmobiling for the first time. Next weekend we're going to a Celtic festival. And whether we enjoy it or decide "Never again" the point is we are experiencing and sharing it together. There is so much to see and do in this world I'm sure you'll find something you'll both enjoy.
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    Hi Sir Pooch! Sorry for the late reply hehe kala ko po kasi wala ng active dito kaya di ko siya naccheck daily. Napadpad po ako dito kasi curious po ako kung may mga ibang cases katulad ng akin at syempre gusto ko din po ma inspired sa mga sucessful stories nila. Yes sir bale 5 months na po this december. For your 1st question po, nag break po kami kasi napuno na po ako nun eh bale nahuli ko po siya. Nakakita po ako ng photo na halos magkiss na sila nung bakla niyang ka work na napag-awayan na din namin dito at inaway din ako. Haha di ko alam kung ano meron sa kanila pero i don’t care na po haha tapos kasi since almost years na kami nun parang nagtatagal na lang kami kasi nanghihinayang kami na matagal na kami. Madaming beses niya na din po ako pinagsinungalingan at nahuhuli ko po siya na may kalandian minsan ang masakit pa dun may mga asawa na. Kaya ayun nauntog na ako sabi ko tama na. Di naman po ako nagpaligaw agad agad bale parang nirespeto pa din ni L yung fresh ako from break up basta nandyan lang siya di niya ako pinepressure na maging kami. Tsaka ayoko po maging unfair din sa kanya. Mas naging malalim po yun samahan namin mga Late Feb or March na parang nahuhulog na ako sa kanya nanaman kasi napakabait niya talaga as in lalo na saakin kahit dati pa nung childhood/ puppy love days pa lang kaya di po nakakapagtaka na naging kami agad haha ayaw ko na din po siya pakawalan kasi sobrang mahal ko na siya at alam ko ganun din po siya.
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    This is a difficult subject for me to answer without all up in arms because it gets me a little angry, to be honest. Everywhere you have the gay pride flag waving around...and gay marriage, to my knowledge, has never been legal in US history until a few years ago for everywhere. You have pedophilia that's trying to gain acceptance and there are people/groups that will actually defend pedophilia, saying Pedophiles are just like the LGBT in wanting to love who they love...*eyeroll* Then you have cousins....cousin couples were actually in the bible! Unlike Pedophilia....it's not sexually exploiting and taking advantage of children.....yet it's still looked at as disgusting and vile? Pedophilia's still looked at as disgusting and vile...and it's still against the law, which it always was and always should be. Polygamy and open relationships are celebrated. These are different groups trying to fight for the right and privilege to love and be accepted for who they love(Pedophilia never will, it just can't fly) Why can't that be cousin couples again? At one point in history, it was legal all over the US....but at some point down the line, states started making it illegal...I guess out of concern for how future generations would turn out. It just irks me though....why are is the LGBT being made legal and...well, I don't know what to say about pedophilia....and cousin couples are still looked at by the social circle, the media and legally as 'ick'? To me, this is so unfair....I have trouble comprehending it. So, to answer your question KC...I don't think so. For some reason, the western culture still considers this taboo and seem like they don't even want to acknowledge it or treat it like any other issue. It has to be hush hush and kept under the rug like it's something to be ashamed of.
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    Hi Roze, Unang-una sa lahat, welcome sa forum. Bibihira lang ang mga Pinoy dito kaya natutuwa naman ako na may isa pang naririto. Paano mo nalaman yung forum? Anyhow, to respond: 21 years old ka and siya naman ay 22. Anong ibig mong sabihin sa nagpahinga? Please be honest with us. After all, anonymous naman dito. Walang may kilala sa iyo. Pero isang bagay ang maipapayo ko sa iyo: Wag kang padalos-dalos, Roze. Mag-antay ka. Don't do anything kasi mas lulubha pa yang sitwasyon mo once na may gawin ka pang mali. Lahat ng tao nakatingin sa iyo at lahat ng mga mata nakatingin sa kanya. Sunday itong post mo and Wednesday pa lang sa ngayon. 3 days pa lang ang nakakalipas. Relax. Second point: She is a big girl already. SHE IS 22! Don't worry about her too much as if she cannot take care of herself. Pare wag ganun. Girlfriend mo yun -- hindi batang paslit. Let her shoulder the same burden. Kasama mo siya sa buhay. Pinasok niya rin naman yang sitwasyon niyo eh so 50-50 lang. 50% akuin mo, and 50% naman akuin niya. Yan ang fair. You cannot just put it all on you. Hindi ka si Prince Charming na ililigtas siya sa Nueva Ecija. Por pabor. Now having said that though, IKAW YUNG LALAKE. Brad, ikaw yung may bayag. I know this will be hard pero treat this as a challenge. This will separate you from the boys so talagang pakatatag ka. I am not saying na mag-iiiyak ka papunta sa kanila na "huhuhu..kukunin ko na siya sa kanila.." Parang awa mo na, huwag na huwag mong gagawin yun. Kasi hindi ka irerespeto ng mga magulang niya (tiyuhin at tiyahin mo). Tapos gusto mong kunin (ano yun itatanan mo?) Kailangang ipakita mong lalakeng-lalake ka. Eto para sa iyo. Nawa'y lumakas ang loob mo. Sabi ni Pablo, 1Co 16:13 (13) Magsipagingat kayo, mangagpakatibay kayo sa pananampalataya, kayo'y mangagpakalalake, kayo'y mangagpakalakas. Panghawakan mo yan brad. Kasi ikaw ang magiging padre-de-pamilya eh. Ikaw ang magiging husband. Ikaw ang magiging tatay. Ibang level na ito brad. Hindi na ito laro-laro, if you know what I mean. Entering a relationship for a Christian is a very serious thing...aba mas lalo na kung it's with your cousin! Pooch
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    Nagkausap na po kame, all we have to do now is earn. Thanks mga ka CC, and all couples out there, we can do this! FIght!
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    You don't say a word to him. You're 14 and he's 20. And he's about to be married. And BTW, it was most inappropriate for him to give even a hint of attraction toward you. Wait 4 years and if you still have feelings for him and he is not married, come back here and we will steer you in the right direction.
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    Tell her, "If we were not cousins ..." and see how she responds!
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    Hi, share lang ako background, married kami first cousin ilang buwan na, may baby na kami 1month old. Ganyan din ginawa namin inabot, kami ng 4 years hanggang naging ganito. Ako yung guy, tapos sya parati nakikipagbreak pero hindi rin ako matiis, haha. Advise ko alamin mo kung ano talagang rason nya kasi kung ang rason talaga nya na maghiwalay ay dahil magpinsan kayo, magagawan pa yan ng paraan kelangan lang may mag take ng lead. Pagmay love parati yan may paraan. Sayang 5 years of memories kung maghiwalay pero massayang pagdagdagan mo pa ng years tapos mali din reason nya kung bakit kayo magBF/GF. Emphasize ko ha, alamin ang totoong rason, pagmali immediately layuan mo, masasayang oras mo when you could be really happy.
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    There's about three accounts in the Bible the show God's approval of cousincouples as long as it doesn't violate state law. Just find those scriptures and show them to your mom or other family, or whoever ask about your relationship. Regardless of what they say, remind them that this shows God's view toward cousin couples. If they still insist that it's wrong remind them that, as far as you're concerned, the Bible has the final say so and is the final Authority on all matters of life and it is the Standard that you use to determine what is right and wrong. Then ask them what do they use as a standard for determining right and wrong? Again, regardless of their answer, no standard is higher or more accurate then God's word.
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    Thank you so much ☺. Everything else is fine.
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    Please try again and let me know if the problem is resolved. The problem is on my end. Sorry for the trouble!
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    MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!! Best wishes for many blessings on you this season and in the new year.
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    Click mo signature ko. We can talk in Filipino on the other thread. But a quick answer would be this: Aunt-Nephew or Uncle-Niece marriages in the Philippines are 100% null and void from the beginning. Bali illegal po siya. Pooch
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    Same Sky. Ganyan din feeling ko. Pero yung akin naman is di namin alam kung pang ilang pinsan na kami kasi sabi ng papa ko kamag anak daw namin sila. Ayun natatakot ako na malaman ng ibang kamag anak namin na may relasyon kami kasi diba nakakahiya. Pero mahal namin isa’t isa. Ayaw naman natin biguin yung mga magulang natin. Siguro ang mabuting gawin nalang is makapag tapos ng pag aaral. Mag hanap ng magandang trabaho. After nun doon nyo na ipag laban yung nararamdaman nyo sa isa’t isa.
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    I wish in had something to contribute here lol..
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    Ken, you won't regret it! My sister lives in OKC.
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    8-10. Hndi ko alam kng bakit naaattract ako sa kapatid niya. Ang gwapo nya ksi mukha syang korean. Haha Hinalikan din nya ako, dati nung natutulog ako. Hndi ko lng alam kng bakit. Chaka hndi ko alam bat lagi niyang hinahawakan yng butt ko. Dati kasi nung natutulog ako katabi ko sya kaming magpipinsan magkatabi kmi lahat. Kapag nakikita na nya tulog na lahat. Bigla nya ako yayakapin. Gsto ko rin malaman bat ganun sya. Pero di kmi masyado close katulad nung isa. Paano ko ba malalaman na may gsto sya skin na hindi sya tatanungin?
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    ok ito muna, PT una ihi sa umaga dun nyo malalaman kung positive o hindi...remember unang ihi sa umaga to confirm...ilang weeks ng delayed? or days...may work naman kayo. may work ka...up to you paano ikaw tatayo para sa inyo at ikaw ang lalake...but PT kayo uli, and this time, unang ihi sa umaga...cannot believe i am saying this...condom men, condom...o d kaya withdraw and ejaculate mo nalang....medyo complicated kasi situation nyo at may syota ang cous mo, im sorry but im against it...d kc aq napatol sa may bf, literal, naranasan q na kc ang maturotot at masakit, anyways andyan na yan...check everything first at pag usapan nyo ang plans nyo...keep us posted 9/9/2004 pooch, ke hirap ng deutsch language sakit sa ulo...anyway pare, good luck sa study mo rin dyan
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    Welcome to the forum, Hasan! You may find good answers to your question in the "Shoot the Breeze" or "Help/Advice" forums on the page. There are some pinned posts at the top of those forums and many people have also asked this question and received some really good answers. Honestly, it's hard to say for every situation, but at 16, you're a little young to start a relationship with her, especially if she's 20. I'd say you're at least two to four years away. Also, I do not know where you are or your family or religious background, and these definitely play a major part in how you should approach discussing this with her. If I had one piece of advice that's universal, I'd say treat her as your best friend and become her best friend by being a person she can talk to who listens. You have to be willing to listen to anything she talks about (even other guys) without giving any judgment or advice unless she specifically asks for it. I hope that helps give you some direction. God Bless & Best Wishes, CM
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    Hi ate kulasa, pooch and 9/9/2004 ok naman ako. Trying to keep busy. Rebuild my little life. Sinubukan naman niya bumawi. Pero this week wala ulit. Mahirap talaga pag andito parents nya. Ang hirap na pati pag punta ko ng malls kelangan ko magingat. Nanganak pala partner ng kapatid ko ngayon kaya mejo mixed feelings. Masaya kasi may pamangkin na ko. Malungkot kasi naiisip ko baka di ko na maexperience yung having a baby
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    I miss u dude! hahahahaha! *apir* Pare, I feel you.. Alam mo ba, nakwento nga kita sa cous-gf ko eh. Kasi may favorite kaming lugar dito kung saan kami nagde-date. Sabi ko sa kanya, "Walang hiya ka. Pag pinagpalit mo ko sa isang nagmamountain-climbing, susunugin ko itong restaurant na to". Bwahaha.. Tawa siya ng malakas eh Anyhow, with all seriousness though, I pray that you don't give up pare. Minsan kapag nadedrain ka, it's a spiral down yan eh. Sometimes, you have to force yourself to go out, wag magstay sa bahay and really experience another chapter in your life. Alam mo yun? Eventually, it should not be a fight... Call some of your friends again and enjoy your freedom, gawin mo kung ano ang gusto mong gawin noon na hindi mo magawa nung kayo pa kasi nirerestriktahan ka niya. lol. You have to learn to make yourself happy. Si Miss Model, oo nga, di na ata bumalik. I hope she's okay though. Pooch
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    believe it was a problem with the SSL certificate. It's very easy to make a mess with them. I think I might have fixed it, I will take a nother look. At the moment I only have my phone and not a computer. If you still see these problems please tell me again and I will make sure they are fixed. Thank you for pointing this out!
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    Wow!!!!!! This is gold. Ate Esmeralda, can you tell us some more sa story mo? I am very interested. Kailan nangyari? Paano? Baka pwedeng konting details pa.... Natutuwa po kasi ako everytime na may successful cousin relationships eh. Pooch
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    Sge try ko sya kausapin sa personal. Pero hndi ko alam kng kailan kami magkikita ksi pareho kming busy. Nsa manila ksi sya ngayon ksi dun yng company nya. Ako nman nandto sa korea bilang isang model kaya ang layo nmin sa isat isa. Thankyou pla sa advice Hndi ba pwede itanong ko nlang sa text? Ksi tingin ko prang di ko magagawang itanong sa personal haha. Iba ba yng pag uusap sa text chaka sa personal?
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    Let me respond. Yes I agree. Too early to tell. Pero Ikaw mismo ang makakaalam niyan. In the meantime though, tanungin ko muna kung anong ineexpect mo sa relationship niyo if ever? Nung hinalikan ka niya, tingin ko gusto (or ginusto) mo rin eh kasi hindi mo naman siya pinigilan. Tama ba ako? Ano muna ba ang nararamdaman mo? Tsaka mo itanong kung ano ang mula sa kanyang point of view... Response? Pooch
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    Someone new joined and I presume after reading my post, asked me for advice. It gave me the opportunity to write down some of my thoughts concerning all this, so I figured I'd share with you all the reply I gave them. "Since I have never fully and actively before pursued my cousin until now, I doubt I should be the one giving advice. Although, I would believe you should treat your cousin with love, honesty, and respect, always. Let that person know that you will be there for them and will never leave their side. Let them know they can count on you and depend on you too. But do not just say it with words, do what you can in action and deeds too. You have to be serious about pursuing your cousin and be willing to see things through, with the true intentions to commit. -- At least that is where I am coming from. I genuinely want to give her everything I can to make her happy and to see her dreams come true. That includes providing for her expecting child and loving her child as though it were my own. It means putting her needs first, as I recognize that I cannot be selfish about any of this. -- I'm not sure if I've explained enough my true meaning since somethings I do not believe you can put everything into words. But I hope what I have put into words, helps you and I wish you good luck." If I were to add to that reply, I would add that it is something you have to be serious about and have thought about and felt for some time. You have to be serious about your feelings and not just the idea. I did not just wake up one morning and think to myself, "oh gee, let's see if I can have a relationship with my cousin". While it is true, there was an immediate attraction towards her before I knew she was my cousin and it was more than just physical, I liked how she carried herself and could be both mature while having a good sense of humor. That did not change once I found out she was my cousin and overtime, even though we both dated other people over time, I continued to desire her and wanted to know her more. There was always that longing which never left me and the strong desire I had to know she was happy in life and whenever I learned she wasn't, I felt true heartache. You also have to be accepting of who your cousin is, understanding that, no one is perfect, not even you (yourself), and that your cousin too is human and has flaws. As I said previously, you cannot just be in love with the idea, but the reality too of who that person is and how they are as a person. As I said, I didn't just wake up on a random morning and come to this lightly. You have to put yourself out there, be willing to risk it all, and ask yourself, is this worth it? In my case, most definitely, yes. I truly believe, sware to god belief, that the biggest fools on this earth, are the few who screwed up and did not give "AV" the love and respect she deserves. In my opinion, they were given the opportunity of a lifetime, and they are complete fools for not doing right by her. It is a mistake I do not plan on making and given the chance, I plan on doing right by her. I want to help her fulfill her dreams and lighten whatever burdens come her way in life. I want her to know I'm on her side, as I stand by her side. If there are children involved, you have to take that into consideration too. In this case, with a child on the way, even though it is not mine, I know I will man up and step up. You have to be prepared to take on that responsibility and not just "play house". Children are fun, but they are also a lot of work and care. The greatest fool of them all is the fool who walked out on my cousin and claimed he didn't want anything to do with her or the baby. Well, I am no fool, and I'm perfectly content with the idea of late night feedings, diaper changing, restless and sleepless nights, hard work, and much, much more. I am willing to do what is right for her and whatever she needs and whatever it takes. While I believe my cousin is a strong woman, I do not think my cousin should have to do it alone and I do not want her to do it alone and mean for her not to be alone. I will gladly stand by her and be there. There is so much more I could say, but as I said previously, I do not think words alone could ever express everything.
  33. 1 point
    Hindi po kayo pwedeng ikasal... prohibited nga eh. Ikaw na rin ang may sabi. Yung kasulatan ay magiging kasal-kasalan lang, mapapawalang-bisa po yun sa isang kisapmata. Pooch
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    good idea. i went in and edited the title for him.
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    Dubai ka ba? Kung alam ko lang. Nandyan ako khapon sir 9/9/2004.
  36. 1 point
    Are folks in the Western World becoming more or less accepting of cousin marriages... say within the past 25 years.
  37. 1 point
    i just finished watching the movie. anyone seen it yet? it was pretty good, although it crammed too much into 90 minutes. they should have made it longer. if you don't know who she was (i didn't either), she was a woman who died back in the 50s from cervical cancer. the doctors at johns hopkins biopsied some of her cells, and it was the first time they'd ever gotten a line of cells to reproduce outside of a living human body. her cells have been used in medical science ever since. so anyway, i looked up more info on her after the movie ended. i know it's irrelevant really, and not really a part of the movie itself, but she had married her cousin and had five children with him. just thought i'd share. i only gave the movie 3.5 stars. it was good, but like i said, it was too much info for too little screentime. if they'd extended it another half hour with a little more character development i think i could have rated it higher.
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    Hello guys, pasensya na ngayon lang ulit nakapag online. Tagumpay na po, tanggap na po kami, kasama ko na po siya dito sa bahay. busy busy na rin po kase, you know what guys, im very thankful kay God for the grace he bestowed upon us. Nangingiti ako hanggang tenga at hanggang ngayon hindi ako makapaniwala sa mga nangyare hehe. Sa july 25 na po ang kasalan, ang bilis ano? Ganyan kumilos ang ating Panginoon. The only thing we have to do is to trust Him, and wait for His perfect timing. Love you all. Invited kayong lahat - Roze
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    ang ganda ng story ni Roze. buti ka pa natanggap ka ng pamilya mo. buti natanggap ng mama mo. happy for you. umaasa ko na balang araw matatanggap din kami.
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    ditto what hawk says. you're no longer children, and your parents no longer get to have a say in who you date. they can manipulate the two of you into breaking up ONLY if you allow them to. but as adults, you have the right (and responsibility to yourselves) to stand up for yourselves and not let your family blackmail you into submission. this is part of entering adulthood. it's not always an easy rite of passage, but it's a necessary one. we have a letter that you're welcome to give your family that explains the truth about genetics, laws and morality on the subject of cousin marriage. a lot of people use that because their families won't stop objecting long enough to listen to the facts. the letter is something you can hand them and walk away from, leaving them to read it when they're ready. and then the ball is in their court. they can either accept your choice or not... and if not, then it's on THEM when you walk away.
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    Yep! Totoo yan. Pangasinan probinsya ng nanay ko. San probinsya mo 9/9?
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    Hello, Uy pasensya na. Ngayon lang ulit ako nakabisita. Medyo naging busy ako the past days eh. lol. Pagtingin ko sa forum eh andaming reply! Wah. Basa-basa muna ako... Pooch
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    im not a drinker kuya, dinadamayan mo naman ako dito sa forum so okay lang po. its just that i cant afford na magkahiwalay na kame. im a doting boyfriend, im willing to take risks to be with her, so please lang Lord, tell her to reply to me na, para di ako natatakot na baka putulin na nya talaga ng relasyon namin pero di paren ako susuko
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    Hmm. I really do hope na it works out for you. 1. Wala pa kayong foundation. 2. LDR kayo 3. 17 months kayong magkahiwalay Yet despite this distance, marami na kayong naging breakups. Sabi mo, Are you sure ba sa kanya? I mean, bukod sa kanya eh sa relationship ninyo? Di naman sa ano, ano...pero binibigyan lang kita ng duda... kasi magiging magaspang talaga ang daan sa hinaharap mo kung ganitong relasyon ang tatahakin mo. Ako eh naninigurado lang naman... My hopes are definitely maging kayo at ako siguro ang isa sa mga magdidiwang kung maging kayo in the end. Pero, ano sa tingin mo? Okay naman ba siya? Eh ikaw, okay ka naman ba? Kasi alam kong mahirap ito ate...Mahirap na mahirap talaga. Nabanggit mo na plano mong sumunod kung nasaan siya. Saan ba siya nagkakaroon ng kontrata and projects? Susunod ka as ano, though? Spousal sponsorship? Work visa? Anong siste? May gameplan na ba kayo? Or you know what? Maybe it's too early to talk about these stuff.. diba? Kung wala pa, wala namang problema. It comes when it comes eh, diba? No big deal. I do not know your relationship and definitely mas kilala mo ang bf mo and mas alam mo ang relationship ninyo and kung ano kayo just between the two of you. Pero in speaking as a guy ah, bilang lalake, as soon as we turn 22 or 24 kasi, these stuff gets rolling na eh... I am glad na seaman siya. Kaya lang, magiging on and off talaga kayo. Ang tita ko ay nakapangasawa ng seaman. 31 years na silang kasal. Pero hanggang ngayon hindi sila magkasama ng at least 1 year na dire-diretso.. Like you, it's 3-4 month at most. Are you willing to have that life? Kaya ba ng sikmura mo yan (knowing na ngayon pa nga lang eh, hirap ka na?) Again, di sa dinidiscourage kita ah.. Pero ang tunog kasi eh isang untrained runner na tatakbo sa marathon eh.. Wala pang 1 block hingal na eh. I guess suggestion ko is that by November, really have some quality time together. Mas maraming time kayo alone, the better. Para makilala ninyo isa't-isa talaga. Anyhow, comments are definitely welcome as to alam kong marami kang sasabihin. hehe. Pooch
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    ahahaha, sarap ng unang halik ano....ahahaha, hindi sya first ko, pero sya ang first na nakapag patino sakin...and ako ang first love nya according to her...atm madalas namin pag usapan ang dati namin moments...namimiss nya lahat, although clueless parin ako as to what mangyayari, hahahaha, ang hirap ng unang move, before sinabi nya sinabi na kami nalang, we were holding hands most of the time kapag aalis, cuddle while watching and, well kissing...sa first kiss i was the one who made the move, we were drinking and alam mo un, we were at the same frequency of thinking, and yeah, kuryente to the max talaga, parang sinampal ka ng harapab ng kabilaan para ipa realize sayo, hoy, sya na ang tadhana mo...hahahaha, pero grabe talaga ang feelings na yun
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    Haha! Good one! Sa sitwasyon ko naman, ako ang nagmake ng move. Matagal na kaming may feeling sa isa't isa then isang bagi basta hinalikan ko lang. Eh hindi pumalag, I backed off then inulit ko ulit. Then sparks at kuryente, daig pa sinturon ni hudas, hahahaha Then ayun na, first love eh. Pooch
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    Welcome sa CC. hehe. Unang tanong: Okay ka lang ba? Tingin ko eh hindi tayo magkalayo ng edad. hehe. Nasa early 30s ako. Ikaw? Pooch
  49. 1 point
    Right LadyC. People are very supportive of open relationships and polygamy - but mention cousins falling in love and you'd think that Florence Foster Jenkins had been nominated for a Grammy award. Ghastly!
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    Gud day CC Philippines, Mr retainer at lucksgjrl... Ako po c esmeralda almost 13 years n kami ng first cousin ko. Magkapatid ang nanay namin sk hindi kami magkaapelyido.. Ang ginawa namin kasi noong 2003 hindi p pwede sundin ng apelyido ng lalaki kapag nanganak ka n hindi pa kau kasal kaya ang nangyari sa bcert ng panganay namin prng blanko kang..ang ginawa namin nagpakasal kami sa manila city hall with out knowing ng judge na magpinsan kami. Araw ng kasal namin mdyo nakahalata ang judge kasi dw.magkatunog ang name ng nanay namin so nagtanong cya kong magpinsan kami alangan nman n oo sagot namin e di natulog kasal...sa ngayon mag 12 yrs n kaming kasal. Oo mali ang ginawa namin pero yan a g tama samin sinunod lang namin kong ano tama at dapat n gawin namin sa nararamdaman namin. Kasi dyan kami masaya eh ang magsama kami forever. Noong una mdyo mahirap kasi hindi tanggap both families pero sa husband cousin ko after a week nalaman nila n nagsasama n kami natanggap din nla. Ganun cla ka openminded they support us dhl.mahal nla anak nla pamangkin nla at kapatid nla. Sa family ko.naman mdyo.matagal kasi nag iisang anak lang ako at babae pa. Pero nong nabuntis n ako lahat cla tanggap na. Oo d maiwasan na pag usapan kami pero wala kami paki d nman kami kumukuha kanila.ng tulong at makain namin. Ang chismis ay una lang yan mamatay at mamatay lang yan. Sa ngayon 3 n anak nmin at lahat ay normal at magagaling sa school. Kaya kayo kong totoong .mahal nyo ang isat isa go for it wag kau matakot kahit s parents nyo sa.maniwala kayo sa hindi u a lang tampo at galit nla lilipas din lahat at matatanggap kayo. Dyan nyo makikita yan kong mahal.kayo ng pamilya nyo susuportahan kau.
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