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  1. We are in the Panhandle area of Texas! What area are you in? When I feel things are getting to me and I'm overthinking the situation, I distance myself from the negative. You are ok! Your younger children with not grow up with negative feelings about your relationship if you don't make it a big deal. Don't make the fact of your relationship be a big secret, but don't neglect to honor you relationship. It's best not to keep it from them but no need to broadcast it publicly either. I guess what I am trying to say is, if they grow up always knowing about the cousin-ness
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  2. Well, there is no lobbying effort. I would pickup my kids and get the hell out of there. Nobody would take my kids from me. Statistically that are in far greater danger when "unrelated" caregivers take charge. Nobody is coming to save you. Move to a state where it is legal to marry one's cousin And put this behind you as quickly as possible.
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  3. I have not been in your situation, but I would advise you to not message her UNLESS she messages you first. You have hit her head on with something she is not sure how she feels or how to deal with it. Give her time, lots of time if she needs it . In time you will have your answer. Whether it is what you want to hear or not what you expect it will be clear. You have loved her for a long time, maybe she loves you the same way or not, she hasn't had knowledge that you felt as you do. She needs the time to process the information and search her heart, soul and head for the c
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  4. Sidelines unless the 6 yr relationship fails.
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  5. Holy crap Boss, I knew I hadn't heard from her in a few days, but I had no idea she passed. I'm so sorry to loose her. She always seemed to have some word I needed to hear at the right time. Other times, we would just talk about nothing. I just looked, and the last time we talked was two weeks before she passed, so, three weeks ago. It doesn't seem like it's been but maybe a week, but, the phone says that was the last time we talked. I will miss her, that's for sure.... And, yeah, time to focus on your well being, having done your part for her.
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