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KC last won the day on August 6

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  1. KC

    Free hosting

    Well, things are taking off more slowly than I had hoped for theboss.host . If you need a new domain or fast web hosting, check it out. I host this site with absolutely no caching of any kind. I thought I would throw that out there. Orders help offset the cost of this website. PM me for a free hosting deal in lieu of a review.
  2. Also, you can try another browser or clear your browser's cache.
  3. KC


    I started a GoFunMe page (gofundme.com/ongoing-website-funding) to allow you guys to help mitigate some of the expenses of this website. Ex mods and administrators are not welcome to contribute. The admins have already given their hearts and soul supporting this website and the plight. I personally spend countless hours behind the scenes here. Frankly, I do not feel like I should pay to host the site any longer. I show you guys lots of love; it shouldn't be unrequited. It's not a big deal financially. I can pay the bills although the next few months are going to be incredibly difficult. Wife and I are taking the hell off -- getting out of here finally and for good. Wish us luck!
  4. I have both Facebook and Google logins working. I apologize if you have to reregister with Google. I accidentally deleted our account. It shouldn't be a big problem. I also made some other changes when I recently changed to a faster server. I suggest that you clear your browser's cache if you are having any kind of problems. I tweak the website quite a bit, partly for improvements and partly for my own continuing IT education. So, remember about your browser's cache. Everyone should learn how to do that. Also, I will not be around here to contribute on the message board as much as I would like for the foreseeable future. I would appreciate if my great members would spend an extra 15 minutes a week helping to answer questions on the board.
  5. KC

    Bad Security Credentials?

    I changed web servers. I had to get tech support to issue a new cert because the script locked up. We're all good now!
  6. Hi I disabled my messages lol.. I don't know how to fix it.

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    2. KC


      Which message?

    3. lmknjbhvgc


      Private messages, but it looks like they don't even work 

    4. KC


      Prv messages should work after you post 1 or 2 or 3 messages. I can't remember exactly.  Trying to keep the spam out. 

  7. KC

    Scared about telling my cousin I liker her

    Hi there! Was your dad a prisoner or a guard? Anyway you asked her to smash. Really? Classy. You know she probably just thinks you are an ass. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned but smashing isn't something you typically ask a cousin. I would like to know her answer! Please tell.
  8. Yeah, I can understand those confusing feelings. Often cousins have everthing you are looking for in a mate. Although you didn't meet up until your 40's, you two probably share the same values etc. etc. Some think the genetic similarity of cousins is just right to create the kind of chemistry that you describe. As Ambra pointed out, it is difficult for us to give approval when a could-be relationship will hurt other people and families. I would keep my eye on this one. Maybe his marriage will desinigrate, and soon. But don't let it be you that caused the heartache that will ensue.
  9. KC

    He Wants to End It And I Dont

    Should you let him go? That is the question. Serena, not only should you let him go, but you have to let him go. As much as you might like to (just for a short while) you can't put him in a cage and keep him! He is seeing other people. He can't commit. He is hurting you. Trust me, in 6 months you will be thanking me for my advice. So, don't let him go. Pack his bag and kick his arse out the door. You have to. You have to for peace of mind and your mental health. Set your boundaries, and stick by them. And Yo! Don't ever let anybody treat you like that again. I hope he gets blue [email protected]
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    I don’t know what to do - help?

    I say throw caution to the wind! He may very well be the one. I don't see a reason why this could-be relationship should be a big deal. But that if he is married? That is a little detail that you should check into If you are half first cousins, that is nothing, really. Don't allow anyone to make a big deal of it.
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    Ilang taon ka dalawa? Kailangan mong lumabas sa closet at ipaalam sa iyong pamilya na nararamdaman mo. Mayroong isang mahabang thread ng Filipino dito. Sana may isang tao na maaaring makatulong sa iyo na mas mahusay. ----------------------------- How old are you two? You will have to come out of the closet and tell your family know you feel. There is a very long Filipino thread on here. Hopefully someone there can help you better.
  12. found this sniplet: https://reason.com/blog/2010/08/20/not-tonight-honey-its-a-felony/print
  13. Ladyc, I don't think so. I can say that when a person is facing 40 years, he may plead to anything to get a reasonable sentence. Some attorneys are just half-wits and do not care if they throw you under the bus. If I still have access to the law library at school, I will try to look this up (county courts are not incl). I bet the good folks who were charged pleaded to something less, maybe with just probation.
  14. At 15 years old, having sex with an adult is a crime. Cousincouples.com recommends that you do not pursue your cousin, at least until you are of legal age to consent. Since you are stalking your cousin, I strongly recommend that you obtain a mental health assessment. Why do you think these feelings/actions are normal? Do you have a pastor/clergyperson that you could speak to just as a "reality check"? Masturbation and dreams can simply mean that you are completely normal, but stalking is way out there.