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  1. KC

    Thought of sex turns me off

    I just want someone to pinch me. It sounds like you have been playing for the wrong team the last 20 years. I can't say you should go for it, but you should definitely quit stringing your cousin along. Counseling? It is too little too late.
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    Docu-series - looking for couples!

    This is a great opportunity to inform a lot of people. Staying in the shadows of society will not affect change. We have to stand up and be counted; otherwise, the taboo will thrive.
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    33 years and still counting

    It is a great story but very old thread. I will lock this thread since the poster probably isn't around.
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    Heartbroken

    I am so sorry to hear of your tragedy. It would be a huge mistake to assume that one or two people from your family are representative of the whole. It is another mistake to assume they have the power to split the family. In my experience family members can be quite shocked initially but they soon get over it. It's rare that a family member never comes back around. I think it is good to give your cousin some room to breathe and contemplate. She may decide that you are worth all of the trouble. If not, say good riddance and find you someone who cares deeply about you. You deserve that.
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    What do you guys do to have fun

    Concerts is a good one! I just read where one study found that attending a concert could make one live longer and is better than yoga. Within the past 2 years I saw two of my favorite bands play live. It was pure bliss.
  6. I can answer a few of your questions. First, there is nothing wrong with you. Most marriages, historically, have been between cousins. We should be asking what the heck is wrong with the rest of the world! Why do people believe stats from crazy Aunt Maud who doesn't know the difference between a gene and a genie? It's funny how everybody turns into a genetic expert the moment they think you may be interested in a cousin. Check out the rest of the site for some solid info. Look, if you can ignore and forget about your cousin, I suggest that you do. You would actually be considered very smart in my book. I feel that too many in the West suspend their critical thinking skills as soon as they feel that they may be in love. This site is for the people who cannot forget or ignore their cousin lol 😃
  7. Ken, the best advice I have ever gotten was from a marriage counselor. He would tell me what's what, and I would, in turn, get red faced and tell him to go do something anatomically impossible. Our sessions were very short. Man was I a hothead back then! He gave me some great advice which took me years to realize how correct he was. Often the best advice is the advice you do not want to hear. Your problem isn't unique at all. Take the fact that she is your cousin out of the equation and see how simple it all becomes. The quote I'm including is so correct. Cousins do have this built-in compatibility, and just perhaps the small amount of genes we share can awaken the gods of romance and incense. I hope you can get everything back on track and salvage your marriage. You can't put the genie back in the bottle. You will have to distance yourself from her and reexamine your boundaries. You truly have my best wishes. I'm glad you posted your story.
  8. Fight crass with crass! Lol. Stay long enough and you will get the response that you are looking for. The truth is that we don't have all of the answers. However, I know the answer isn't to cheat on your wife like vermin. GSA seems to be a real thing to me. I have never admitted it before but I do have another cousin that is hot as a firecracker. I purposefully try to avoid her because I do not want my life any more complicated than it already is. It appears that you have already crossed the line with your cousin. Taking one more step could spell absolute disaster for both of your marriages. Are you trying to ruin or sabotage your marriage? If so, you are on the right track. If you are a gentleman, you will turn around while you still can. Mr. Ken, what can I say?
  9. Isn't she freaking adorable? And your soulmates too! Mr. Ken, I know it's hard to believe, but I have heard this story before. Alright, sorry for being so crass. There just aren't any easy answers. The bottom line is serious. You have both made commitments to others and you both should keep them. There is no such thing as a soul mate. You can't use that as an excuse to cheat in your wife. Kate Winslet is my soul mate, but I'm not chasing her around. If things were different, you would have different options. But if frogs had wings, they wouldn't bump their arse every time they hopped. Right?
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    Marriage and children

    I just spent 10 mins double checking the laws for NE. It appears you can leave the state and marry in a state that allows cousin marriages -- then return to NE legally married. Cousins are not defined as incestuous, so no criminal laws to worry about. You could run this by a family law attorney. As for genetic counseling, I do not recommend it unless you are tormented about something, for example there is a weird intolerable genetic disorder in your family. Even if the geneticist said you only have a 70 percent chance of having a healthy baby, would that stop you? I think it is a waste of time and money frankly.
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    How does the government know?

    I just wanted to make this very clear: capitulate or surrender your constitutional rights at your own peril. I watched a trial at the local courthouse where a guy was fighting a DUI. When the cop pulled him over, the guy stopped, rolled down his window and stuck both hands out the window, as if to say "put some cuffs on my wrists!" His trial was going very good until the cop told this little story. So, never let them put words in you mouth and remain poker-faced while firmly declining questioning or any kind of search without a warrant. Contrary to popular belief, you can also remain friendly and pleasant during an interaction with a cop. I suggest that you do! A little respect goes a long way, of course.
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    How does the government know?

    A spiteful in-law or whomever or a good 'ol frienemy. Otherwise, they would never know. A prosecutor would have to prove every element of the so-called crime and that would be tough, providing that you didn't confess/admit to anything. For example they may have to prove that you were in state when you married, or that you actually have sex in their great state. First, they have to prove that you are cousins which could even be tough. I can't see a conviction making it through the appeals process for constitutional reasons. Never answer questions from a cop, instead inform them that your attorney would be glad to speak with them but you refuse to make any statement at all. Only fools go down to the station to answer a few questions. This applies to all circumstances, not just dubious marriages.
  13. What is your primary languages. I'm trying to figure out be if you are bragging, complaining, or just asking questions.
  14. KC

    Happy birthday to us all!!

    That was interesting. Wow the old website design reminds me that I need to do some fresh work on the site just to keep up with web standards.
  15. I just realized that we are 20 years old! This website is twenty years old. I'm not exactly sure about the month, but 20 years is a crazy long time for a website. So -- happy birthday to us! Cheers!!
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