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  1. Newspaper article

    Thanks for pointing this out. Pretty interesting from the perspective of a genealogist.
  2. Is my cousin attracted to me?

    It does sound like she has a thing for you. The question should be : what are you going to do about it? Or do you want to do anything at all. Life is not a rehearsal. You get one shot at this.
  3. I'm finished and it didn't hurt one bit. We need another couple, so hit him up. Help make this article great.
  4. Hi there KC, My name is Sam, and I'm a journalist with VICE. I'm working on an article looking into the experiences and stories of people in relationships with their cousins in an attempt to really give a platform for those in love with their cousin. The article will be a series of three interviews with three participants with questions looking into the history of their relationship, any problems they've faced, how their family has reacted, how society reacts and how they feel about the taboo nature of this, despite how common it is and has been throughout history. I noticed there's a point of contention on your forum of media posting without permission, so seeing as you're a moderator, I was wondering if it'd be okay for me to do a call-out on your forum? Let me know what you think or if you have any questions. More than happy to talk to you about them! Thanks, Sam nicholsgb@gmail.com
  5. Workout knowing what is causing the blindness, we can't say if your children would be at an elevated risk. Can you tell us more or give us a name? For all I know your sister could have childhood cataracts, which is very treatable. I'm not trying to patronize you, but this is very important.
  6. Yep I have personally volunteered! Come on good folks.
  7. Please help I need advice

    We don't know what they can do but I seriously doubt they are looking for you or will ever bother you. Don't be scared to death. You are making yourself sick over nothing. The Texas law was aimed at child abusers like in the case of Warren Jeff's. Open a bottle of wine and enjoy yourself tonight. There are real threats out there like the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.
  8. I am a lesbian and love my female cousin

    Yes we do want an update! Relationships are complicated these days, huh! In truth, a lot of people seem to complicate their own lives. I'm afraid you are too. I have heard of every possible cousin relationship problem out there I believe. Your problem seems to be that you lack the kind of meaningful boundaries that protect you from big messes like this. You cheat on your partner. You get involved with your cousin. I do not know if you are content with being a lesbian. Your partner seems to be still trying to find herself. Can we make this any more complecated? I don't know how. I say find out what you really want and go after it; stop hurting the people you love. Stop complecating your life and the complications will go away. Seriously, be good to yourself and true to your partner. Start there. God bless and good luck.
  9. Ughhh

    I think you are right. Your cuz should stand up for his girl no matter what. What are your ages?
  10. At the bar

    On my wife's birthday, we went to a nice restaurant. I'm officially a non drinker, but this was her birthday so we were both drinking a little bit. Two women and a guy was sitting beside of us at the bar. I was challenging them to a game of pool. I was talking $ hit to them all in good fun. My wife told the women that they looked alike and asked if were they sisters. They replied "No we are friends." Then they decided "hey you two look alike -- are you brother and sister?" My wife replied, "No! We are husband and wife!" Then I retorted, "She is my cousin!" We all laughed like crazy.
  11. Advice required from girls

    Only advice from the girls huh? Well what if I put on my high heels and don't man spread in my cute summer dress? Can I answer then?
  12. Help

    Yea, slow down my friend. You have plenty of time to grow into the confident woman that only comes from living. OK, so we know your hormones are indeed working. Do not put yourself in those situations until you are ready for more than just kissing. How old are you? Your cousin will probably marry much younger than you would typically in the States. The sooner you can tell your cousin how you feel, the better. My advice : do not marry younger. You are worth waiting for. Make him wait until you finish school. good luck
  13. invalid url for ssl cert

    believe it was a problem with the SSL certificate. It's very easy to make a mess with them. I think I might have fixed it, I will take a nother look. At the moment I only have my phone and not a computer. If you still see these problems please tell me again and I will make sure they are fixed. Thank you for pointing this out!
  14. it all sounds very familiar. It is typical to have feelings for one particular cousin only, and not any other cousin. Best wishes on the huge decision that must be made by you two. Be strong. Hold your head up high. Wife and I had little support also. We said, F it, let's get married. Well, it wasn't that easy but yea it all worked out.
  15. kissy-face this!

    Hey you are very much are Somebody. Most of us have been in your place before. there is no way through pain except through it. but your day will come. One day you will realize that the birds still sing and you are glad that jackass cousin of yours is gone.
  16. No, not with that fact alone. If you are being investigated and charged with incest then who knows.
  17. This year marks our 19th year online. I appreciate every one of you who makes this site necessary. Cuz and I have been married for 22 years now. It's crazy how time flies. I hope this website has been a blessing to you all and I consider every one of you friends. Although this has always been a free website, it's not like you can't show some love during the holidays. I prefer my love via PayPal or Bitcoins. Admin_kc@protonmail.com (PAYPAL) 1KBYfvLjNoEBYipCoKkj7jxvCgLDGSH3pp (BTC)
  18. Ibotta coupon app

    For those that don't know, Ibotta is a cash back app. It gives you cash back when you shop. It also allows teamwork. If we are all on the same team I bet we could make some money. It's easy you just buy the same stuff you normally buy and you get cash back. Use my link and we will all become team members. You will also get a $10 credit when you use the app. So let's try this. https://ibotta.com/r/rzqueq
  19. I wouldn't talk to my family doc. There is no telling what kind of advice he/she will give you. Opinions run the gamut in the medical community. You should read Forbidden Relatives or contact a member of the NSGC (https://www.nsgc.org/). Personally, I would not bat an eye unless something in your family history needs to be looked at. All the best to you.
  20. Aunt

    Sober up and put your head in the toilet. Run around the house nakkid with your hair still wet 10 times. Call home and tell your momma that is going on in your mind.
  21. Help please. Anxiety through the roof

    Hi RRj, I can relate to everything you are saying. Everything will be OK, you are just going through a phase. I'm sorry that you are questioning your relationship because of your distant kinship. There is no need for it. It will go away. You are being silly. Hang in there. I married my 1st cousin. We just spent two years apart after 20 years of marriage. Wow that was tough, but I found out that I could be happy being single...after the first year. My mind was scrambled for the first year, like a TV on channel 3. We are back together again now. We have made fresh commitments to each other and hope to start another 20 year chapter. You have no idea how much hurt we are working through. But we are committed to fulfill the vows we made before God and will give it another go. Nobody said it would be easy, right? Things are not great yet. I am in a new city trying to find us a better place to live. I just had my first job interview today. Hmmm. I will say one thing that is amazing. Hey, I was indeed happy being alone but after being back with my wife for two months, I feel like I have my zen back. I can't explain it but it is a sweet feeling of peace that makes me smile for no reason. And when I do, the heavens open up and I can hear the angels singing. I didn't have that when I was alone. As LadyC pointed out, marriages take a commitment to each other and to God. You can't make it alone. Look at the stats. I am a Christian and only went back to my wife because I felt led to. It's as inexplicable as the peace I am feeling -- the Zen! Zen isn't a Christian term I know... but maybe we should adopt it. This Christian has Zen! I'm praying for you and wish you the best. You guys are so distantly related that it is silly to worry about it. Do not let it play in your mind like a broken record. Play some Rolling Stones I'm not proofreading or correcting anything......
  22. This forum update was a big one! Here are some highlights: You now have the opportunity to opt for 2FA (2 factor authentication). It basically uses your cell phone to add a layer of security to your account. It will send you a SMS, phone call, or ask for the code from Google Auth or Authy. It may just pop up a screen on your phone asking if you are trying to log in. If you are going to do this, I suggest that you purchase "Authenticator Plus" from the App Store. It will back up everything. If you don't use it, you will be sorry. You can change your settings in your profile. You can also set it up, as I recommend, to ask one additional question that only you would know. I recommend your first crush in primary school. Nobody will know that. There is also a new feature that allows users to create "clubs." I don't know much about it, but if you have an idea and think enough people would join, let me know and I will check it out. The chat room is gone for good. I have made an official one... the last one lol. "Google Hangouts" yall. You may join by following this link. https://hangouts.google.com/group/S4qIjAKbhhp7Kr9D2 If you do not want your real name revealed, you can change your nickname/name at Google+ account page: https://aboutme.google.com/ Just click on the pencil thingee at the top to the right of your picture. Join us! We can have some fun! You may use your mobile or your desktop
  23. https://www.cousincouples.com/?page=states Is the only page we maintain. Wikipedia is not an academic source and should only be used as a reality check.