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      Get Smart on the Web   09/16/2016

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  1. What can we tell you? If you do not want to marry this girl, maybe you should put a stop to all of the games. That is for kids. What are your intentions?
  2. Let's break in the forum. We paid an arm and a leg to purchase it and I like it so far. Unfortunately, none of the images from the old website converted correctly because of a bug. So what in the world is going on with everybody? On facebook? Are you crazy? Come on over and pull up a seat. We have free beer and pizza. We have Vodka for you non drinkers. Not to sound sexist or anything, but we also have some wild women here. Lots and lots. Well, actually, not so much anymore. They were all swept away by the feminist movement. Some married cousins (believe that $hit)? Anyway I am trying to bring some new ones into the fold. This isn't facebook where you mindlessly scroll and click LIKE! You have to introduce yourself in this funky place. Please register. You will have access to the chat room and other features.
  3. Me and my first cousin

    This topic is three years old. It should be automatically locked. I will try to find out how to do that.
  4. Let's start posting again!

    Well I am still trying to get through school. My memory is $hit and it's getting a bit difficult. I am burned out and will be taking the summer off. I am also eating everything that isn't red hot... I've never ate like this before. I guess it's healthy (to a point). I've always been a skinny boy. But since I quit drinking, I'm starved all the time. Just have to say that sobriety is sooo overrated! and I'm not a big fan. Anyhow, I have been buying all new clothes. It's all cool until I lose the weight. Honestly, I thank God for the grace to do the day by day thing.
  5. Doctor, doctor

    let me know if you don't have IP/Moderator controls. They are a bit hidden.
  6. nice!

    Well it did take about 4 hours. It wasn't too bad. Initially we even imported the avatars correctly! But that is the only thing.
  7. Family Reunion

    That's a good one. I would do first and last name and leave it at that. A few people should begin to put the pieces together at that point tho
  8. Cool little news piece http://myfox8.com/2016/04/13/everyone-is-your-couisn-bloggers-math-says/
  9. Getting over her

    This is what can happen when you do not stand up for yourself. What can I do to make you grow some? Oh, I'm not trying to be mean. Stand up for yourself and don't take any $hIt from anybody. Never put yourself in this predicament again. And stop playing the victim. You brought it all on yourself. Hopefully, you will get a second chance. Hey my cousin thought she had a boyfriend once. She introduced me to him! Five minutes later, I knocked him down a long flight of steps. Never saw him again.
  10. TV Show from UK

    Email received: Hi, I recently tried posting on your forum and wonder if you may be able to help with my query. I work for a TV production company called Sugar Films ([iurl=http://www.sugarfilms.co.uk/]http://www.sugarfilms.co.uk[/iurl]) We are in the early stages of developing a television programme looking at different types of relationships in the UK. We are especially interested in following the lives of people who are in a relationship with their cousin. I would be extremely grateful if you could post this on your site or forward it to any one in the UK who you think would be interested in this opportunity. Kind Regards Hassan hassan@sugarfilms.co.uk
  11. TV Show from UK

    No. I assumed this was the same one.
  12. Happy Easter

    Happy Easter cousin lovers! :laugh:
  13. In love with my cousin

    Unless you have a genetic problem that runs in your family, like a recessive disease, it is not a big deal. You would not need any special testing or anything out of the ordinary. Read the facts pages here on cc.com and you can find out how much you increase your chances of having a baby ith a birth defect (becuase your partner is your cousin, not because his parents are cousins). If you want to be with your cousin, take off to Miami. Sounds like a plan, but only if you get married first. If he is unwilling to marry you, send him back to his babymomma. Don't worry yourself over birth defects. Making yourself sick over worrying about things of this nature may do the most harm of all. WIth the Zika virus looming, uh, it wouldn't be a bad idea to stay on the Depo shot until a vaccine or whatever becomes available. You are too young imho to be tied down. You should continue in school. Go ahead and knock out your AA or BA. People seem to want to use kids as "glue" to hold relationships together. Trust me, that is a nutty idea. It doesn't work. You are smart for getting the Depo shot, even if it is behind his back. Take another look at this "babymomma" [God, I hate that term] and ask yourself, "Would I want to be like that woman??" Seriously. And good luck. I hope everything works out great for you.
  14. Children of Cousin Couples

    Einstein comes to mind, although I would have to double check on that. I'm not sure how we could compile such a list. We can use Catholic Marriage Records for dispensations to find some cousin marriages. There are no such list for children of cousins. Anyone who is from certain parts of the Middle East would likely have cousins as parents. You might start the search there. Anyway, the data would be very hard to come by.
  15. Wow, that is a good question/interesting predicament you have found yourself in. It does sound like she is playing games with your mind. She is immature. You, on the other hand... "aint nobody got time for that." Come on man, you must set some limits now. If she isn't into you, you must put a stop to this and cut her short on the games. You are clearly smitten. Allowing her to continue playing games is only going to hurt you. You will end up the fool with the broken heart. She is just having fun at your expense. If your basement is a complete unit with a kitchen / bath, I would insist that she stay down there. Why is she in your space? Insist on your personal space and take some steps back from the games. I'm afraid that you made a bad decision in letting her stay at your house in the first place. I know you don't want to hear this, but the sooner you get rid of her the better.
  16. My wierdest day

    In the movies, they always kiss back. :evil:
  17. New Love

    I think it is probably a lot easier when you are middle aged vs. when you are young. People are more likely to respect your decision now I think. You will have to adopt your cousin's attitude. You can go down this road being worried what someone may think about you. I'm sure there will be one, maybe two that have problems with it. Some religious people can be the worst, unfortunately. You have to remember, they don't pay the bills. I say that life is short and if you find someone wonderful, you had better not let that person go. Do you want to be known as the lady with the cats? I didn't think so. You do not want to hear me story; it was bad. But everyone seemed to get over it quickly enough. Right after we married, nothing else was said by the family... at least not to my face. At some point, it becomes a non issue. All you have to do is tell one person and everyone else will know within 24 hours. So, the telling is the easy part.
  18. Maiden name issue

    I would guess that when coworkers start asking about your wife's maiden name, it's a huge red flag. They probably already suspect something. They may know a lot more than you think! I've had people I didn't know ask me if I had married my cousin. Without any hesitation, I "proudly" confirmed. I think that is the best way to deal with it. Her mother's maiden name may be fine if you word it correctly... "she is from the xxx clan" whatever. That way you aren't lying and you are not oversharing.
  19. Hello folks! It's time to upgrade the forum software. SMF has served us well, but it is time to upgrade to a more robust system. I have been waiting forever for SMF to offer an updated version, but it doesn't look like it is going to happen. I am going to move to IP Board . It is more robust and I think everyone will be happy with it. The cost of the new forum software is $185. Since this website is not served with ads, and we do not have paid subscriptions, it is only fair to ask for donation from time to time. I have set up a GoFundMe account for this purpose. I will give it 4 weeks and I will pay the difference myself. If we reach our goal of $200, I will go ahead and install the software asap. GoFundMe takes 5 percent plus credit card fees, so I set it at $200 instead of $185. Should be close enough. So if you would like to help, please click on the link below and donate any amount. Thanks for supporting this website! PS - yes, we will be able to import all of our messages, images, and members to the new forum software. I'm excited! So hurry up and donate please gofundme.com/zfu4p9gk
  20. Trying to find out how he feels

    Thanks for sharing your story! Wow, you are long-winded It helps to get it out in the open, huh? Please let me say this upfront: I am not trying to be gruff or hateful. I am simply a bit more concise. It sounds like you have a wonderful husband. In case you do not know, or haven't been on the market in awhile, good husbands are hard to find. They don't grow on trees. I say this because even the best of marriages take work. Hard work. Given, I don't have a lot to go on but indulge me please. I do not see you doing your part at all. In fact, some would say that you are bent on sabotaging your marriage. So what if you have a cute, single cousin. He didn't want you back in the day. Did he ask you out? Did he try to get the ball rolling? Look, he is your cousin. You do not need another "friend." Not this kind of friend. This is the kind of friend that can ruin your marriage. Your cousin is recently divorced and perhaps a bit lonely and you think it is a good idea to open this door? I fear for you if you do. I fear that everything you have worked so hard for will go up in smoke. It takes a lifetime to build trust within a relationship. It takes three minutes to burn it all to the ground. Often, that trust can never be rebuilt. You are playing with fire. So, I'm tell you what I tell a lot of people here. Think about what you are doing. Take care of yourself, and your man and your children. Lay off the romance novels. Give your man 110 percent of your attention. This is real life we are talking about, and it's your life we are talking about. Don't throw it all away.
  21. Bad cousin

    I think you should use the telephone to call him and not try to read his mind. Seriously, you are only adding to the confusion.
  22. I was the only girl...

    Wow 20 years up the river is a long time. That's hard time. I imagine that your letters make it all bearable. I've spend a few months in jail and a few in prison (same offence). A man might as well be on Mars because nobody comes to visit after a short while. I would say that few relationship outlast six months in prison. You find out who your friends are. What is he in there for? You have to keep in mind that people don't change... or don't change easily. If he is in there for child abuse or for banging up the wife, you should wise up. But that is between you and him. Other than that, I am fairly liberal. We have wayyy too many people in jails and prisons for non violent offences. He and his wife does have a chance when he gets out of the joint. I think they deserve a chance to see if there is any chemistry left. You should give them that space, especially if there are kids involved and providing he can forgive her absence. You know, that works both ways. There will be a whole lot of pain on both sides to work through. So my best advice is to insist he get a divorce before embarking on a long journey with this fellow. He will need some time to get it together once he gets out, so take it slow. Look after yourself girl. Nobody else is going to. The worst thing you can do here is to rush into any long-term commitments with him. Honestly, they don't send you to prison for 20 years for being a choir boy. You have a lot to think about. Thanks for sharing your story. I hope I have said something useful.
  23. It plainly says in the Missouri criminal code that if you return to the state after marrying a prohibited person (spelled out in the civil marriage laws), they you can be charged with a crime. So, the trick is to marry in a state where it is legal and not return to live. I suppose if you moved to another states, took up residency there, then married and eventually returned to MO, the criminal case would seem to fall apart or at least enter a grey area. In this case, you didn't move to evade state laws. You could contact the aclu and see if they will take on the case. I am betting it is unconstitutional.
  24. My nephew

    post it. you dont have to ask.