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  1. Workout knowing what is causing the blindness, we can't say if your children would be at an elevated risk. Can you tell us more or give us a name? For all I know your sister could have childhood cataracts, which is very treatable. I'm not trying to patronize you, but this is very important.

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    Hi there KC, 

    My name is Sam, and I'm a journalist with VICE. I'm working on an article looking into the experiences and stories of people in relationships with their cousins in an attempt to really give a platform for those in love with their cousin. The article will be a series of three interviews with three participants with questions looking into the history of their relationship, any problems they've faced, how their family has reacted, how society reacts and how they feel about the taboo nature of this, despite how common it is and has been throughout history. 

    I noticed there's a point of contention on your forum of media posting without permission, so seeing as you're a moderator, I was wondering if it'd be okay for me to do a call-out on your forum? 

    Let me know what you think or if you have any questions. More than happy to talk to you about them!


    Sam   nicholsgb@gmail.com

  3. We don't know what they can do but I seriously doubt they are looking for you or will ever bother you.

    Don't be scared to death. You are making yourself sick over nothing. The Texas law was aimed at child abusers like in the case of Warren Jeff's.

    Open a bottle of wine and enjoy yourself tonight. There are real threats out there like the Teenage Mutant  Ninja Turtles.

  4. Yes we do want an update!

    Relationships are complicated these days, huh! In truth, a lot of people seem to complicate their own lives. I'm afraid you are too.

    I have heard of every possible cousin relationship problem out there I believe. Your problem seems to be that you lack the kind of meaningful boundaries that protect you from big messes like this. You cheat on your partner. You get involved with your cousin. I do not know if you are content with being a lesbian. Your partner seems to be still trying to find herself. Can we make this any more complecated? I don't know how.

    I say find out what you really want and go after it; stop hurting the people you love. Stop complecating your life and the complications will go away.

    Seriously, be good to yourself and true to your partner. Start there. God bless and good luck.

  5. Yea, slow down my friend. You have plenty of time to grow into the confident woman that only comes from living.

    OK, so we know your hormones are indeed working. Do not put yourself in those situations until you are ready for more than just kissing. How old are you?

    Your cousin will probably marry much younger than you would typically in the States. The sooner you can tell your cousin how you feel, the better. My advice : do not marry younger. You are worth waiting for. Make him wait until you finish school.

    good luck

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  6.   believe it was a problem with the SSL certificate. It's very easy to make a mess with them. I think I might have fixed it, I will take a nother look. At the moment I only have my phone and not a computer. If you still see these problems please tell me again and I will make sure they are fixed. Thank you for pointing this out!

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  7.   it all sounds very familiar. It is typical to have feelings for one particular cousin only, and not any other cousin. Best wishes on the huge decision that must be made by you two. Be strong. Hold your head up high. Wife and I had little support also. We said, F it, let's get married. Well, it wasn't that easy but yea  it all worked out.



  8. Hey you are very much are  Somebody. Most of us have been in your place before.  there is no way through pain except through it.  but your day will come. One day you will realize that the birds still sing and you are glad that jackass cousin of yours is gone. 

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  10. This year marks our 19th year online. I appreciate every one of you who makes this site necessary. :D Cuz and I have been married for 22 years now. It's crazy how time flies. I hope this website has been a blessing to you all and I consider every one of you friends.

    Although this has always been a free website, it's not like you can't show some love during the holidays. I prefer my love via PayPal or Bitcoins.

    Admin_kc@protonmail.com   (PAYPAL) 


    1KBYfvLjNoEBYipCoKkj7jxvCgLDGSH3pp  (BTC) 

  11. Hi RRj, I can relate to everything you are saying. Everything will be OK, you are just going through a phase. I'm sorry that you are questioning your relationship because of your distant kinship. There is no need for it. It will go away. You are being silly. Hang in there. 

    I married my 1st cousin. We just spent two years apart after 20 years of marriage. Wow that was tough, but I found out that I could  be happy being single...after the first year. My mind was scrambled for the first year, like a TV on channel 3.

    We are back together again now. We have made fresh commitments to each other and hope to start another 20 year chapter. You have no idea how much hurt we are working through. But we are committed to fulfill the vows we made before God and will give it another go. Nobody said it would be easy, right?

    Things are not great yet. I am in a new city trying to find us a better place to live. I just had my first job interview today. Hmmm.

    I will say one thing that is amazing. Hey, I was indeed happy being alone but after being back with my wife for two months, I feel like I have my zen back. I can't explain it but it is a sweet feeling of peace that makes me smile for no reason. And when I do, the heavens open up and I can hear the angels singing. I didn't have that when I was alone. 

    As LadyC pointed out, marriages take a commitment to each other and to God. You can't make it alone. Look at the stats. I am a Christian and only went back to my wife because I felt led to. It's as inexplicable as the peace I am feeling -- the Zen! Zen isn't a Christian term I know... but maybe we should adopt it. This Christian has Zen!

    I'm praying for you and wish you the best. You guys are so distantly related that it is silly to worry about it. Do not let it play in your mind like a broken record. Play some Rolling Stones :)


    I'm not proofreading or correcting anything...... :P

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  12. On my wife's birthday, we went to a nice restaurant. I'm officially a non drinker, but this was her birthday so we were both drinking a little bit.

    Two women and a guy was sitting beside of us at the bar. I was challenging them to a game of pool. I was talking $ hit to them all in good fun. My wife told the women that they looked alike and asked if were they sisters. They replied "No we are friends." Then they decided "hey you two look alike -- are you brother and sister?"

    My wife replied, "No! We are husband and wife!"

    Then I retorted, "She is my cousin!"

    We all laughed like crazy. 

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