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  1. KC

    Moderators needed

    Hi folks. First I want to apologize for letting the original moderators go. I thought it would simply be easier on me. They all were great and collectively they were tremendous. (If any of you would like to help out again, please let me know). So I am looking for a few moderators who have the wisdom to make the forum run great. If you can spot spam, solve problems, and know your subject well, I would love to hear from you. It's an easy job, maybe 10 minutes twice a day is the minimum you would have to work. I prefer Christians but that is not a litmus test. If you bring an interesting worldview to the table, I am probably willing to listen. So write me and tell me why you would be an outstanding moderator here: [email protected]
  2. KC

    Moderators needed

    Sorry folks. I flagged Ken as a spammer instead of just banning him. He disappeared. I don't miss him.
  3. KC

    Moderators needed

    Ken, what happened to your status as a mod on the other website? I'm not certain why you keep on with your whining about churches and comparing me to past church leaders you had to "deal" with. If you dealt with them as you deal with me then I don't blame them for kicking you out. Personally, I don't owe you a damn thing. Seriously, GFU! This isn't the Waffle House. Goodby. Happy holidays to everyone!
  4. KC

    Moderators needed

    I'm feeling it too! Remember when we used to get positive feedback on the forum? Good grief!
  5. KC

    Moderators needed

    It's always great to read your caustic remarks, Ken. Some of us have been here for 20 years trying to make a difference. I guarantee that when we get new or unique questions, we answer them. CC.com just welcomed a new member to our moderation team a few weeks ago. Romalee graciously accepted my request to help after I decided that we didn't need moderators in addition to the admin team. What a jackass I can be! I can't count the number of years Romalee has been with us. So, Kudos to us despite the growing (or shrinking?) pains. Merry Christmas everyone out there!
  6. Try a simple, fast and secure VPN, Wireguard. Wireguard is for your android phone. New clients are coming out directly. It's free folks and I think you will be impressed.
  7. KC

    Free VPN Beta testers wanted

    It encrypts your Internet data. We have the public, private and government sectors all vying for control over encryption. I suspect in the years to come, it will become a bigger issue.
  8. KC

    Moderators needed

    If you have any time at all, Hawk, I would be honored if you and or Nat would consider helping out here. I need to give her a call. It's been lots of changes in my personal life as well. Oh boy. It never ends, does it? :D
  9. It will bother some people no doubt about it. I would hold it back until things got serious with a new love.
  10. KC

    blood relations marriage

    You may marry your 1st cousin in about 1/2 the states. Don't worry about genetic problems. The worry is probably worse than the increased risk of marrying a 1st cousin, which is very small.
  11. KC

    Moderators needed

    Cool! When I figure out how to create the language file, I'll get back to you. It can't be too hard.
  12. KC

    Moderators needed

    Ok you got it!!! You guys have your own forum, not just a long thread you keep alive!! You should be able to moderate that forum. Would you be interested in translating our language file into your native language?
  13. KC

    Moderators needed

    Ok Pooch, we are considerating you. We make these decisions together, so it will take a few days.
  14. KC

    Moderators needed

    Hi Pooch! You funny. I will be getting with you soon. Been looking for you. Terms are more or less indefinitely since so few are qualified for the job I don't have a long list of candidates over here. And there is no money. The difference in admins and mods is that admins make the rules and MAY (its usually just me) set up and maintain the software. We try to all work together. Mods can ban and moderate and all of that. You can edit or delete a message. I trust mods not to abuse their power though. How about think about a year commitment and then we can reassess the term.
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    Beta testers wanted

    Anyone use a VPN on your phone or computer? I am setting up the next VPN company, I have a few spots for testers; you get free VPN Svc and basically your own server. I have some different ideas, chiefly, how can we get the price down from $10/mo+. How can we get them to stop working (locking up) 1/2 through a movie or slowing down to a crawl? I think I can fix that. I'm also trying to hit the magic number of $1.99 per month. Or there could be a range for faster servers. I have one set up in NY and one in London (watch channel 4!). Anyone want to beta test your prv little vpn server, let me know. It works with every device I can think of.
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    Free hosting

    Well, things are taking off more slowly than I had hoped for theboss.host . If you need a new domain or fast web hosting, check it out. I host this site with absolutely no caching of any kind. I thought I would throw that out there. Orders help offset the cost of this website. PM me for a free hosting deal in lieu of a review.
  17. Also, you can try another browser or clear your browser's cache.
  18. I have both Facebook and Google logins working. I apologize if you have to reregister with Google. I accidentally deleted our account. It shouldn't be a big problem. I also made some other changes when I recently changed to a faster server. I suggest that you clear your browser's cache if you are having any kind of problems. I tweak the website quite a bit, partly for improvements and partly for my own continuing IT education. So, remember about your browser's cache. Everyone should learn how to do that. Also, I will not be around here to contribute on the message board as much as I would like for the foreseeable future. I would appreciate if my great members would spend an extra 15 minutes a week helping to answer questions on the board.
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    Bad Security Credentials?

    I changed web servers. I had to get tech support to issue a new cert because the script locked up. We're all good now!
  20. KC

    Scared about telling my cousin I liker her

    Hi there! Was your dad a prisoner or a guard? Anyway you asked her to smash. Really? Classy. You know she probably just thinks you are an ass. Maybe I'm just old-fashioned but smashing isn't something you typically ask a cousin. I would like to know her answer! Please tell.
  21. Yeah, I can understand those confusing feelings. Often cousins have everthing you are looking for in a mate. Although you didn't meet up until your 40's, you two probably share the same values etc. etc. Some think the genetic similarity of cousins is just right to create the kind of chemistry that you describe. As Ambra pointed out, it is difficult for us to give approval when a could-be relationship will hurt other people and families. I would keep my eye on this one. Maybe his marriage will desinigrate, and soon. But don't let it be you that caused the heartache that will ensue.
  22. KC

    He Wants to End It And I Dont

    Should you let him go? That is the question. Serena, not only should you let him go, but you have to let him go. As much as you might like to (just for a short while) you can't put him in a cage and keep him! He is seeing other people. He can't commit. He is hurting you. Trust me, in 6 months you will be thanking me for my advice. So, don't let him go. Pack his bag and kick his arse out the door. You have to. You have to for peace of mind and your mental health. Set your boundaries, and stick by them. And Yo! Don't ever let anybody treat you like that again. I hope he gets blue [email protected]
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    I don’t know what to do - help?

    I say throw caution to the wind! He may very well be the one. I don't see a reason why this could-be relationship should be a big deal. But that if he is married? That is a little detail that you should check into If you are half first cousins, that is nothing, really. Don't allow anyone to make a big deal of it.