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KC

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  1. My God, you are SECOND cousins. You have NO increased risk of having a baby with a birth defect. 

    Go read the information we have put up at cousincouples.com before you come in here with your drama calling people MF's and such. 

    I'm not going to cry for you. You are a drama queen. Is it my fault that you have failed to educate yourself at all? 


  2. All done! Sorry I had to restart the server (making the website disappear for a moment). And sorry it took so long! What? An hour? I had to update several modules... tedious work!

    It appears that the forum is working properly. The main page has some problems but I will fix it. 

    For you nerds, here are the specs of the new dedicated server:

    Intel Xeon E3-1240 V3 4x 3.30 GHz / 8 Threads
    32 GB RAM
    1 TB Enterprise SSD
    20 TB Monthly Transfer
    1Gbps Network Port

    I got a great deal (I think), so I can't complain. Even got them to upgrade the CPU and replace a 500 GB with 1 TB SSD! 

    These people are like the phone company, one day late with the payment and they turn us off. 7 days they repo the server. 


  3. Thank you for signing up! The forum software cost us $120 /yr, which $60 is now due. So, I wish 10 more people would sign up this week. 

    Membership prices will have to double (and soon). So folks, be good to yourselves and buy yourself a membership while they are still dirt cheap. My goal with the ads and membership fees is just to break even at this point. We also have a real dedicated server that sucks money out of my pocket like a vacuum cleaner. I just want to make it clear that I am not going home each day with bulging pockets full of money.

    The next time you see Grammarly's ad, click on it and get yourself a subscription. You know you need it. You can't spell worth a hoot! 


  4. On 11/3/2019 at 5:14 PM, ReachIntoTheVoid said:

    TX is one the states with strict laws on cousin relationships. You cannot marry, have sex, or cohabit. You cannot marry in another state. 

    Given that child custody is on the line and cousin sex is considered felony incest in the state, you may need to consider keeping your relationship under wraps. In other states that outlaw marriage, you could still cohabit and it would be fine, not illegal to cohabit and just not marry. However TX considers that incest so yes, if word gets out, someone could use that against you to get custody of your kids. 

    This is all very correct to the best of my knowledge. 

    If I visited Texas with my cousin and we had sex, it would be a felony. It would take BIG MONEY and a lot of time to legally challenge the law, if a prosecutor decided to go forward with prosecution (which is a little iffy!).

    If in Texas, or anywhere else in the USA, keep yo mouth shut to the police. You have to identify yourself and that's it. In Tx, never admit that you are with a cousin. Refuse to answer ANY question and state: "I do not want to make any statements or wave any of my civil rights." And for goodness sake, never volunteer/agree go down to the station to answer questions, even with 10 lawyers. Just don't do it. 

    There could be 9 murders in the city and 10 homicide detectives. There is never anything you can gain from blabbing, only a whole heck of a lot to lose. 


  5. Starting next month, there will be a bi-monthly newsletter informing the readers of all things cousincouples. I've had fun in the past doing this, so I will try it again.

    I am putting this out there as a !warning! : if you do not want a newsletter sent to your email address, you must opt-out in your profile. If you want the newsletter, check your profile setting and make sure you are opted-in. 

    To change your preferences, (in the upper right corner of the page), select Account --> Notifications. 

    Thanks guys! I'm sure you will enjoy the newsletter,. You will get details that you will find nowhere else, like the gypsy woman who tried to claim that she was my cousin. We almost married in Vegas, but, unfortunately for her, I sobered up when the officiant, who was dressed as Elvis, mentioned marriage. Yea, stuff like this, and also true stories too :D  


  6. 7 hours ago, Mark broady said:

    I have a crush on my second cousin im male(20) and my cousin is female (18-19) not quite sure on age. Im worried she may tell my parents or other family members and then thats my life ruined how do i ask her for sex with me cus she is so pretty nice body please can i ha e some advice many thanks. 

    I hope you never had kids. Folks, these posts don't come without sever penalties. Mark can't post again until next year!


  7. You may have to leave, get married and extricate yourself from the negative people in your life, or people who want to control you. You two are grown adults. You can do anything that you like. 

    Often family members "come around" / begin to accept you after the marriage. And if they do not, you can still be happy with your husband. He is 34. What the heck is he waiting on? It really sounds crazy from western standards. And you! Do you want to have kids? In this lifetime? Life is not a rehearsal, 

     


  8. 12 minutes ago, InSearch4Truth said:

    Plus you'd been married quite a while, weren't you?  It'll take time but it gets better. 

     

    20-some years plus a few years before we came out. We were so young it's like we have been together forever. Her brother actually says that, "you guys have been together forever."


  9. Most of you know I don't drink too much. But sometimes what can I say? I sure as heck wouldn't post this sober. My Aunt already thinks I am a perv or something. (Our gay cousin is completely fine and normal).

    Anyway this cousin and I had a moment together. Wow I had one recent dream about her and can't get her out of my head. What the hell is wrong with me?

    Ahhh! She is married with kids. I don't want her at all. She is marked off as a cousin to never be alone with (or is she?). Hehe. Yeah. Yeah she is I'm pretty sure. 

    I need somebody to kick the tar out of me!


  10. I am thinking seriously about writing a book! About cousins? Why yes! But . . .   . . .   . . . 

    I do want the book to be about cousin couples, but that only scratches the surface. I need a broader topic and I need your help to develop it! Please!

    I do not want to rewrite "Forbidden Relatives" (in the book store). I want to write my own darn book. Right? What I am interested in is Anthropology, in a larger sense.

    I'm thinking of a book with maybe only 1 or 2 chapters about cousins. I want to write about marriage customs and weird customs around the globe. 

    I would love to compare/contrast arranged vs "love" marriages and why it is taboo is fall in love in certain cultures.

    There is soooo much out there to write about. I want my book to keep your attention from the word "go!" 

    So my question to you all, what you are interested in? How can I expand our tunnel vision of kissing cousins to write a book that will have a wider audience? 

    If you have a marriage or cultural question that could be applicable, please spit it out here. You guys could help me out SOOOO much.

    Writing a book about cousin marriages is so myopic. Let's add one or two chapters of that and that's it. It would be comprehensive but not on and on and on like "Forbidden Relatives."

    If you know a weird cultural marriage fact, please tell me. I've been talking with a lady who travels the world for a living and she tells me stories. Freaking incredible stuff. There are more interesting customs than cousin marriages. That is just normal in so many places. 


  11. On 11/4/2019 at 5:07 PM, Scorpiomoon04 said:

    I've been in a relationship with my second cousin for a year now. We live in a state where we can also marry as well. 

    We bought a house, and even got a puppy together. He makes me so happy and is the love of my life. My parents know about us and it took my father a while but he's coming along.

     

    I recently was pregnant but under certain circumstances I had a miscarriage. In the future should we go to a genetic counselor before trying again? Should we tell my obgyn? 

    Has anyone else had children with being related? 

    Please, I would really love anyone's feedback. 

    Thank you.

    According to Forbidden Relatives (in our store), miscarriages among cousins were lower then the general population. They assume it's because the parent't blood chemistry is more similar. Not too little or to much. 

    Here is what I would do. Forget the doctors. Go see someone from the National Society of Genetic Counselors. They will look a little bit into your background and order the appropriate genetic tests. 

    If I had the money I would do that. In the end they can only give you a percentage. What threshold would change your mind about having kids? What about a 10 percent chance of having a baby with a birth defect. Would that change your mind? Some people (not cousins) may have a 50/50 chance. Now that is gut-wrenching agony.

    So maybe it's a waste of resources to see a counselor of genetics. It's like I told my doctor once that I was going to buy a blood pressure monitor. He asked why, "If your pressure is high, there isn't anything you can do about it." He saw everything bass-askwards, but there is some wisdom in that. 

    Maybe you should stop looking for cause and effect and just try again. 

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  12. 15 hours ago, clumsilycopious256 said:

    I am sorry to hear about your divorce, KC. If your cousin/wife has been a large source of negativity on your life, then it's a good thing that you are separating yourself from her.

    Surround yourself with good people that can help you become better and stronger! Also, seeing that you are a fellow, Christian, seek God as well! Ask Him in what direction He wants you to take.

    [Sorry I've had little sleep in 24 hours or so. Working! Deliriou5]

    It's really been a dark place spiritually. I've heard of other pastors talk about going into very bad places where it seems that God can't be found. I scoffed at the idea. Some have even turned to atheism! That's not my style, but yeah, it's been that black at times. God doesn't seem to be a source of anything at the moment. I could care less if the Earth careened into the Sun. 

    I'm bitter bitter is how I feel. But don't feel sorry for me. Every good man is tested like this. I think I am doing well enough and also I do not scoff so much anymore.


  13. Things are very different now that I am alone. When you are with somebody for over 20 years, you tend to think you always will be. 

    I am rolling with the punches. Getting the divorce papers ready (yep it's that time). I can't wait to get these served. I want this marriage to be over so bad. My wife was a talker, so it has taken some getting used to -- the quietness! I like people who can dominate a conversation because it distracts me from myself and my own thoughts. It give me a break in other words -- from a racing mind, worries and whatever else is going on upstairs. Only God knows for sure. :D

    After a year, I am just now beginning to feel the L word. Loneliness. It's a weird thing for a middle-aged man to experiences this for the first time in his life. It's not so bad. I am not going to cry about it like I am in a lonely hearts' group. It's a good trade to get rid of that hateful witch that I was married to.

    So I guess that sums it up pretty good. My life is in limbo and it is kinda miserable. 


  14. Serendipity, I see. I believe in the shock treatment sometimes. Knowing when to use it is the trick. 

    I remember seeing a counselor suggested by a judge (made me an offer I couldn't refuse). This counselor hit the roof! Red-faced crazy yet somewhat aloof and professional.

    "YOU SIR ARE IN THE TOP ONE PERCENT OF DRINKERS WORLDWIDE!" ... "HOW LONG DO YOU THINK YOU ARE GOING TO LIVE?"

    Oh boy! I was so mad I can't remember if I cursed him our or not, but I probably did. The F-Bomb! 

    This was a huge turning point in my life and the guy may very well have saved my life. He had a way of driving a point across. Let's just say!


  15. 1 hour ago, Serendipity said:

    Gthings:  You are married? You ARE disappointing God.  Either get thee divorced or get thee away from your cousin.  

    We have no judgement for cousin love; we do for screwing around on your husband.

    Well well well. I can't say adultery is ever tenable on hardly any level. But there is certainly a right and wrong way to say things and to communicate. Are you sure she needs the shock treatment, Serendipity?

    FWI- I would like to see her back with her husband as well. Actually the "shock treatment" is probably the best way to go here. Yo! Keep that thang zipped tight until you get a proper separation / divorce.  Why do women sabatash their marriages? And how do  to you resist his irresistible charm? Pretend you are a lady and stay the hell away from him. (Yeah, right?) Not only does adultery disappoint God, it causes people to go to an eternal pit of fire unless they repent. 

    I'm not here to judge, on the last day there will be lots of mercy and grace, but also judgement. It only looks like people are getting by with all of the evils that we see and hear about. I want to see you in heaven. All the best to you my friend. Pray!


  16. A few times a year I do this. Let me know if you like any of these song please. I usually just run across them on YouTube. Let me know if you hate these and I will stop posting them! And you can do the same. . . just use newish music that the masses have missed. Anyone know any of these groups? All new to me. Big Head Ted has me hooked.

    Feedback? 

     

    This group has lots of great songs. (But I don't agree with the lyrics). My gal is never coming home. 

     

     

     

    Where did this guy come from?

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpXTK7HD2Ls&list=LM

     

    Alabama Shakes

     

     

     

    Black Stone Cherry

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VNthEJlSdw&list=LM

     

     

    So Well

     

    This is cousin couples, right? Well here is what ya bee waiting for:

     

     

     

    I think they clipped this guy at an early age. Wow, he has such a beautiful head voice (high voice).

     

    Let's end on a positive note!

     

    Almost forgot about the "Golden Boy." This guy's sister just got kicked off the show and called a "lounge singer!" The pressure cooker!

     

    Last one!  Try not to get broken up a little bit.

     


  17. Thanks for supporting or at least suffering our newest sponsor, Grammarly. They paid me a few nickles for writing that . . . actually they were quite generous. I will leave the link up for some time and see if is profitable. So you are welcome to try them out. Their free package is very generous. It's the first plugin I install in a new browser. 

    It's great to find a sponsor like that. 3/4 of the merchants deny cousincouples.com application to become an affiliate because of their "standards." What year is it again? 

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