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  1. 16 hours ago, pooch said:

    I want to volunteer to take care of the Filipino thread..

    Ok you got it!!! You guys have your own forum, not just a long thread you keep alive!! You should be able to moderate that forum. Would you be interested in translating our language file into your native language?

  2. Hi Pooch! You funny. I will be getting with you soon. Been looking for you. Terms are more or less indefinitely since so few are qualified for the job :P I don't have a long list of candidates over here. And there is no money.  

    The difference in admins and mods is that admins make the rules and MAY (its usually just me) set up and maintain the software. We try to all work together. Mods can ban and moderate and all of that. You can edit or delete a message. I trust mods not to abuse their power though. How about think about a year commitment and then we can reassess the term. 

  3. Hi folks. First I want to apologize for letting the original moderators go. I thought it would simply be easier on me. They all were great and collectively they were tremendous. (If any of you would like to help out again, please let me know). 

    So I am looking for a few moderators who have the wisdom to make the forum run great. If you can spot spam, solve problems, and know your subject well, I would love to hear from you. It's an easy job, maybe 10 minutes twice a day is the minimum you would have to work. I prefer Christians but that is not a litmus test. If you bring an interesting worldview to the table, I am probably willing to listen. 

    So write me and tell me why you would be an outstanding moderator here: [email protected]

  4. Anyone use a VPN on your phone or computer? I am setting up the next VPN company, 


    I have a few spots for testers; you get free VPN Svc and basically your own server. I have some different ideas, chiefly, how can we get the price down from $10/mo+. How can we get them to stop working (locking up) 1/2 through a movie or slowing down to a crawl? I think I can fix that. I'm also trying to hit the magic number of $1.99 per month. Or there could be a range for faster servers. 


    I have one set up in NY and one in London (watch channel 4!). Anyone want to beta test your prv little vpn server, let me know. It works with every device I can think of. 

  5. Well, things are taking off more slowly than I had hoped for theboss.host . If you need a new domain or fast web hosting, check it out. I host this site with absolutely no caching of any kind. 

    I thought I would throw that out there. Orders help offset the cost of this website.


    PM me for a free hosting deal in lieu of a review. 


  6. I have both Facebook and Google logins working. I apologize if you have to reregister with Google. I accidentally deleted our account. It shouldn't be a big problem.

    I also made some other changes when I recently changed to a faster server. I suggest that you clear your browser's cache if you are having any kind of problems. I tweak the website quite a bit, partly for improvements and partly for my own continuing IT education. So, remember about your browser's cache. Everyone should learn how to do that.

    Also, I will not be around here to contribute on the message board as much as I would like for the foreseeable future. I would appreciate if my great members would spend an extra 15 minutes a week helping to answer questions on the board.

  7. Yeah, I can understand those confusing feelings. Often cousins have everthing you are looking for in a mate. Although you didn't meet up until your 40's, you two probably share the same values etc. etc. Some think the genetic similarity of cousins is just right to create the kind of chemistry that you describe.

    As Ambra pointed out, it is difficult for us to give approval when a could-be relationship will hurt other people and families. I would keep my eye on this one. Maybe his marriage will desinigrate, and soon. But don't let it be you that caused the heartache that will ensue.

  8. Should you let him go? That is the question. Serena, not only should you let him go, but you have to let him go. As much as you might like to (just for a short while) you can't put him in a cage and keep him! :)

    He is seeing other people. He can't commit. He is hurting you. Trust me, in 6 months you will be thanking me for my advice. So, don't let him go. Pack his bag and kick his arse out the door. You have to. You have to for peace of mind and your mental health. Set your boundaries, and stick by them. 

    And Yo! Don't ever let anybody treat you like that again. I hope he gets blue [email protected]

  9. Ilang taon ka dalawa? Kailangan mong lumabas sa closet at ipaalam sa iyong pamilya na nararamdaman mo. Mayroong isang mahabang thread ng Filipino dito. Sana may isang tao na maaaring makatulong sa iyo na mas mahusay.


    How old are you two? You will have to come out of the closet and tell your family know you feel. There is a very long Filipino thread on here. Hopefully someone there can help you better.

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  10. Ladyc, I don't think so. 


    I can say that when a person is facing 40 years, he may plead to anything to get a reasonable sentence. Some attorneys are just half-wits and do not care if they throw you under the bus. If I still have access to the law library at school, I will try to look this up (county courts are not incl). I bet the good folks who were charged pleaded to something less, maybe with just probation.

  11. At 15 years old, having sex with an adult is a crime. Cousincouples.com recommends that you do not pursue your cousin, at least until you are of legal age to consent. Since you are stalking your cousin, I strongly recommend that you obtain a mental health assessment. Why do you think these feelings/actions are normal? Do you have a pastor/clergyperson that you could speak to just as a "reality check"? Masturbation and dreams can simply mean that you are completely normal, but stalking is way out there. 

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  12. What a winding road you have walked! I am saddened to hear of your earlier romance and how you were made to fend for yourself. You were so young. I say never second-guess yourself when you are in dire straits.

    Your cousin really whimped out the first time. If your dad dispises him, that is totally to be expected. Maybe it's not so much about the cousin thing but about how your cousin treated you in the past.

    You shoiuld make your cousin speak to your dad, make amends and ask for your hand. I'm sure you dad will tell him what's-what. It would be good therapy for both of them.

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