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  1. Quentin, my friend, my friend... oh man do I feel your pain and understand some of what you have experienced.

    LadyC is right, I'm afraid. Some people do not have empathy. They will put you through a spiritual wood chipper. I have had a 20 yr marriage for real. Of course, there were great times, especially in the beginning. Oh boy, how fast it can go downhill!

    If I know anything, I know people or at least a thing or two:


    She suffered from Depression, PTSD, Addiction, and she was a thief and a pathological liar.

    All of these go together, like ingredients for an apple pie. Just remember you can't fix yourself, and you sure as heck can't fix her.

    Sometimes you have to totally forget about what people tell you and go by how they treat you instead. You have made the right decision. Trust me. Time does heal. Tonight my biggest frustration is that I realized that I have not saved enough money to see my favorite band who are plying in Maimi next week. Darnit! Darnit! It makes me bat $hit crazy! Who cares that I saw him two years ago?

    Seriously, you will get over this. It takes time. If you live near Miami, we should pool our money for a room and catch a great band.  Maybe some wild women, too, that will make us throw rocks at cousins.

  2. Tijuana Flats is Taco Bell's daddy. One of their hot sauce's name was "Slap my a$$ and call me Sally." I think that about sums it up.

    Also don't go to the "hot box" hot sauce stand and then go to the restroom guys.

    I'm a horrible person today! The post is totally unacceptable for our usually high standards.

  3. But isn't that always the case? At some point you have to open yourself up and be vulnerable. How about the old "If you were not my cousin"... trick?  It gives you an out, in case your cousin is so offended that he requires therapy for the next 25 years. And your family thinks you're some wacko perv and starts referring to you as "crazy Sally" LOL LOL well I hope Sally is not your real name

  4. Well Elle le, lots of people say that their cousin crush was the most intense relationship they ever had. It certainly doesn't mean that your current boyfriend is not the one for you. He could be. Sometimes we want what we can't have and right now it is not feasible to date your cousin.

    Forget about your cousin. If he wants you, he will come after you. He is acting like a silly little kid -- so let him be. You have a life to live.

    But the question is, " is it normal to still miss your cousin 2 years after breaking up? " There is no time limit for grief or a break-up. However, two years seem to be streatching it -- hense the "sometimes we want what we can't have." I don't have all of the answers here but I am with Serendipity. Do whatever it takes to get you over your cousin, who does not seem to care for you.




  5. 2 hours ago, ragingdesire61 said:

    LOL, well, I can't comment on nasty breakups between cousins, as my sweetie and myself are just embarking on our journey. I do know about nasty breakups though. After a tortuous 8 year marriage to a paranoid and suspicious woman who thought I was, literally, screwing everything in skirts, we finally separated. Then she had the NERVE to kick the bucket suddenly and unexpectedly 3 days after I moved out ?

    WOW! So she OD's? What happened to her?

  6. [In a world where everything is upside-down there is a Hawk, flying high above.] The man. The legend. The kissing cousin. [We try to keep him calm by feeding him Xanax and Quaaludes per the Dr. KC] ... [Coming to a theater near you, unless we go straight to DVD or the Netflix deal goes through]

  7. 15 hours ago, LadyC said:

    welcome, pooch. i trust you will consider your replies to people carefully and not be stalker-ish.

    If I thought he was a stalker he would not be a moderator. I am sure he will craft his responses more expertly going forward. Maybe I will too.

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