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  1. Cadbury. Let me recommend that you read a book: NASTY PEOPLE: HOW TO STOP BEING HURT BY THEM WITHOUT STOOPING TO THEIR LEVEL by Dr. Jay Carter. I found that book years ago and used it to change me into a happy, positive person. In spite of the fact that my cousin is married to someone else. When I found that book I kept reading it again and again. It took some time but it worked, I have been telling people about that book - I'm trying to straighten the world out - one person at a time. LOL Good luck. HUGS Nat
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    What do you guys do to have fun

    Well, my idea of fun is a bit "different": I have filed to be a candidate for a local election! Never, in my wildest dreams, did I ever think of doing that! LOL HUGS
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    It's not always "just about looks"...

    Tine for me to post about the Nasty People book - ONE MORE TIME LOL hugs
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    In a dilemma

    My advice is too keep him blocked - it will be hard but don't come crawling back in a week. You don't need abuse or rudeness and that is all he is giving you. Be strong and hang in there. HUGS Nat
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    In a dilemma

    My advice to you is to keep him blocked - he has been controlling you AND abusing you. So he gets angry and hates you if you do block him. Too bad! His behavior is rude and unkind. Take a good look at the way he treats you - as if he is more important than you. And he has a girlfriend. You deserve better treatment. Keep him blocked and go on with your education. Stay busy and things WILL change for you. Things will get better. Please come back and tell us how you are doing. We really care. HUGS Nat
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    1st cousins

    How lovely that you two are in such a great relationship! We are not lawyers so can't give legal advice. It would be a good idea to consult a family lawyer. The other option that I see is for you to move to another state. I live in Florida and I know cousin marriages are legal here. There are other states where you would be legal also. Do please let us know how things go. HUGS Nat
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    Happy birthday to us all!!

    and I'm almost as old as the site - GIGGLE!!!!!! HUGS BAT
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    My Story

    A man of integrity!!!!!! Thank you for posting this. HUGS Nat
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    The Benefits of Cousin Relationships

    Rachael - you and your cousin are adults. Cousins are legal in the UK. You have the right to live your own life without getting permission from your parents. I think your cousin is right. It is scary but if I were in your position, I would rather be with my cousin. Do please let us know how things go with you. HUGS Nat
  10. Edward, First of all. take a deep breath and relax. We don't know of any place where second cousins are illegal. Secondly, give us a little more information: how old are you and your cousin and where do you live - just country or state is all we need. That information will help us give you the help you need. HUGS Nat
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    My Story

    Stevey, Go for it! Suggest you move to Florida - it is legal here. and do keep us posted. I think she has given you plenty of hints. HUGS Nat
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    Vice magazine article

    Becca, I'm so sorry you are having to go through all that pain! You don't deserve THAT family! To go through the miscarriage and then have such abuse! I doubt you will have trouble with DFS IF they do call. What state do you live in? We are here to support you. Just remember: you can't fix stupid. You CAN educate ignorant. If they want to be stupid, cut them out of your life. You don't need that. I recommend a book: NASTY PEOPLE, HOW TO STOP BEING HURT BY THEM WITHOUT STOOPING TO THEIR LEVEL. Good luck and do keep us posted on how things are going. HUGS Nat
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    Confused as to whether I like my cousin or not

    CptnKitten Please don't pay any attention to pooch - he has no idea of what the issue really is and his advice is NOT very helpful. The ex bf is a real jerk and you do not need any jerks in your life. You have been having difficulties with a number of people and you need to sort them out. I recommend a book that very likely will help you in this. It is NASTY PEOPLE, HOW TO STOP BEING HURT BY THEM WITHOUT STOOPING TO THEIR LEVEL by Dr. Jay Carter. Dr. Carter is a national expert on bipolar disorder and bullying. Your es is definitely a bully. am sure the book will help you until you can see your therapist. Take a lot of good deep breaths and try to stay calm. HUGS Nat
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    I need adivce

    Caren Take several deep breaths and calm down. You already have one healthy child and the chances are good for your second child also. A genetic counselor would be the best way to go. Why don't you want to tell your doctor? The problems of cousins having children is mostly based on incorrect information. I do not have children but many of the poster here do and they have had no problems. According to them, you should tell your children when they are little using the Peter Rabbit books. We are here to encourage you and help you. HUGS Nat
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    Cousin relationship in crime fiction book

    I see the computer "cleaned up" the author's name. It is D i c k Francis. He was a fascinating person: started out as a jockey in the UK - rode for the Queen Mother and, after he retired from that, turned to writing. He was an excellent writer and very successful at that also. You have an interesting project and one that could generate a LOT of interest here LOL Do please keep us posted on how you are doing! HUGS Nat