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  1. Look up the definition of "emotional blackmail" which is what is happening to you. there is a lot of advice on how to recognize it and how to handle it. Good luck. HUGS Nat
  2. It sounds to me like this is actually blackmail. Win a lottery jackpot and see how they talk THEN!! They have NO right to control you lives. Hang in there and good luck! HUGS Nat
  3. You are very welcome! Just remember you are only responsible for YOUR thoughts. I found the NP book at a thrift store and got it for TEN cents! The best bargain of my life! I read it over and over again until I really understood it. Since that time, my life has been very happy ALL THE TIME. HUGS NAT
  4. Yasmin, First of all, you can't fix stupid. People who say such things haven't researched incest, they are just repeating what they've heard. Secondly they are just trying to control your thoughts. They have no right to do that. For years now, I've been recommending a book: NASTY PEOPLE; HOW TO STOP BEING HURT BY THEM WITHOUT STOOPING TO THEIR LEVEL by Dr. Jay Carter. Dr. Carter explains how to recognize bullies and how to treat them in a positive manner. This book really works. You can download it from Amazon or your library can get you a copy. It is lots of fun confusing the bullies! HUGS Nat
  5. Dovey, Romalee is right! I know it is hard but building a strong friendship is the best idea for now. Patience is a hard, hard lesson at any time but especially when you are young. And if you check my profile - the age listed is how long I've been on site - I'm a bit older than that!! LOL HUGS Nat
  6. Heather - Your parents are your parents NOT your aunt and uncle. The primary relationship is biological parent. the fact that they are also related is not YOUR problem but theirs. How they handle it is a reflection on them, NOT YOU. Again, if the father is ashamed of the offspring - he is the problem. I feel your pain and I know you have been abused. You had no choice and are stuck with his dumb attitude. You are the victim, NOT the cause of the problem. I cannot grasp how deeply your pain goes. I know it does and I just wish I could give you a major hug and some desperately needed comfort. Send me a pm if you want to talk more. I want to help you feel there is hope and happiness in the world. HUGS Nat
  7. I agree with KC. Don't try to "fix" the relationship - it is not fixable and you should move on to a better life. Good luck to you! HUGS Nat
  8. I live in Florida - cousin marriages are legal here. there would be no no notation of "cousin marriage" on the certificate. If you want to make sure, call the Clerk of Court in any county and ask to make sure. You could do that in any state for verification. No need to pay an attorney fee. Good luck. HUGS Nat
  9. I'm getting ready to smack KC up side the head! Of all the idiotic comments! I've been through sometime similar and got a divorce. which, I think, saved my life. I found a book that is very helpful in dealing with difficult people in a positive manner. It is Nasty People, How to Stop Being Hurt by them without stooping to their level/ You can get it from Amazon. I do agree with Hawk that you should sort out your marriage before continuing with your cousin. Pay no attention to KC's humor - I'll be sorting him out. LOL Send me a message if you want to know more. I'm on your side!!! HUGS Nat
  10. There are a number of us who are active - it's just been a bit quiet which happens sometimes. Welcome. I lived in Denver once and really loved it out there. I live in Florida now. HUGS Nat
  11. and you can do a critique on Tijuana Flats and it's "healthy cooking" HUGS Nat
  12. and what did you say about my Deviled "Eggs???? HUGS Nat
  13. Well, my idea of fun is a bit "different": I have filed to be a candidate for a local election! Never, in my wildest dreams, did I ever think of doing that! LOL HUGS
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    It is your site - you are the Boss! I'm not mad either. May I please have my lifetime member status back? HUGS Nat
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    Here's a solution for your pizza cravings! I have made this and it is delicious! http://www.purewow.com/recipes/Cauliflower-Pizza-Crust?utm_source=huffpo&utm_medium=syndication&utm_campaign=cauliflowerpizza&utm_content=pubexchange_article HUGS Nat
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