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Romalee last won the day on July 26

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  1. Fancy My Cousin

    I'm not aware of where you are from, but you are 18 and she is 15, and she is considered a minor and you an adult. At least in the US. MIght think about that before you "try" anything. If she does indeed think it is weird then you might be setting yourself up for a bad time. She may have just been " in the moment" at the bonfire and her actions don't mean anything other than she felt comfortable with you and nothing more. I do think you are trying to read more into this than may indeed be there.
  2. For starters please go back and edit your post with more punctuation and paragraphs. Us old folks here have a really hard time reading. Second of all you can leave off the graphic details, we can get the drift without them. You may get more and useful advice if you will do the above. I was unable to do more than scan this.. thanks
  3. been a while....

    Hi Jessie! good to see you stop by. Stay safe with the impending weather in your area. God bless you too.
  4. No more guests!

    YEA!!! I'm glad too!
  5. Am I wrong

    Since you are both "old" enough, no current relationships and you want to test the waters with her, try the trusted and tried line... "If you weren't my cousin I would like to..." date you or whatever fits the situation, your wording. OR " You possess the qualities I find attractive in a girlfriend...." Just remember you said IF and are just stating an observation, in case she gets the "eww" factor or in your mind is a negative response. Give her time to digest it, no pressure. If you should get a positive response or answer then you can start giving her information from this site or maybe bring her here. Use whatever may be helpful and however it might fit your situation. Best wisher on your journey!
  6. Title for mods

    Royal members??
  7. Ads

    For the ads to generate income do they have to be clicked on, read, purchases made .....? For this tech dummy I don't understand how that works.
  8. Ads

    I agree with Nat and Hawk. You do what you have to keep us up and running. You know I never had a problem helping out. But agree with the ads to generate income.
  9. Admin status

    Can I have like senior member or something distinguishing???? Lol
  10. Admin status

    LadyC we did have a fun time. She is such a delight to be around. She is doing well.
  11. Admin status

    Not mad by any stretch of the imagination! Was just wondering due to the update. I do check in almost everyday, have deleted a number of posts I felt did not meet the standards of "our" site and approving those that are appropriate. No hard feelings. I know you put a lot of time in here. I will continue to be an active member. Thanks for all you do KC! I have been around here for about 14 years and will be available if you change your mind. Just let me know. We are totally enjoying retirement!! In Georgia this month. Met with Kathy for lunch on Tuesday. Had a good visit.
  12. Admin status

    Hey Boss, I'm missing my admin status and access to admin area. Did I get demoted?
  13. Just an update

    Hi Boss, so sorry to hear of your health diagnosis. As a former smoker (quit 20 years ago) I know how hard it is and pray you have a successful time of it.
  14. Hey Hawk!!  I would join you in chat too!!

  15. 1st cousin love

    I on the other hand have to disagree with Sophia. No hard feelings intended. My take on the situation is that you make yourself available as a friend. An ear to listen if she needs it . Since she has just experienced a broken engagement, regardless of who broke it, she may need time to get over it. And usually "rebound" relationships rarely end up being something long lasting, I feel you may gain more by the friendship route at this time. No need to profess your long love for her yet. Give her the time she needs and who knows what might happen. Best wishes on your journey.