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      Get Smart on the Web   09/16/2016

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Everything posted by Romalee

  1. Merry Christmas happy holidays

    Merry Christmas Boss and Mrs. Boss!! Best wishes for a Very Happy and Prosperous New Year!!
  2. If you are indeed second cousins 1R, no worry. marriage between second cousins is legal in Texas. And about anywhere in the world that is known of on this site. If you are uncertain about doing that you might want to contact a family law attorney for clarification and peace of mind either way. Most attorneys will give a consultation at no charge. Best wishes on your journey.
  3. How would a state know you're related anyway?

    In some states the question of being related comes up either on or when obtaining the marriage license.
  4. No legal advice is given on this site. That being said the best advice would be to find an attorney that would be willing to discuss these issues with you, like a tax attorney or maybe a family law attorney. Since cousin marriage is illegal in the state, I would be inclined to think that some of the issues you mention would not be possible. But I am NOT a lawyer. Best wishes on your journey.
  5. I am in love with him and completely lost

    Ahem... Uh you are MARRIED, that means you do NOTHING about the cousin. You need to be putting the energy into your marriage. If you are not wanting to do that then you owe it to your husband to let him decide if he wants to stay married to you. You are essentially cheating on him ad he doesn't deserve that. If you think I am being harsh or "old fashioned" that is fine. Just because this is a cousin couples site doesn't mean you will get a pat on the back and a nod to continue on this path. Please reconsider and give your marriage an honest chance.
  6. Fancy My Cousin

    I'm not aware of where you are from, but you are 18 and she is 15, and she is considered a minor and you an adult. At least in the US. MIght think about that before you "try" anything. If she does indeed think it is weird then you might be setting yourself up for a bad time. She may have just been " in the moment" at the bonfire and her actions don't mean anything other than she felt comfortable with you and nothing more. I do think you are trying to read more into this than may indeed be there.
  7. For starters please go back and edit your post with more punctuation and paragraphs. Us old folks here have a really hard time reading. Second of all you can leave off the graphic details, we can get the drift without them. You may get more and useful advice if you will do the above. I was unable to do more than scan this.. thanks
  8. been a while....

    Hi Jessie! good to see you stop by. Stay safe with the impending weather in your area. God bless you too.
  9. No more guests!

    YEA!!! I'm glad too!
  10. Am I wrong

    Since you are both "old" enough, no current relationships and you want to test the waters with her, try the trusted and tried line... "If you weren't my cousin I would like to..." date you or whatever fits the situation, your wording. OR " You possess the qualities I find attractive in a girlfriend...." Just remember you said IF and are just stating an observation, in case she gets the "eww" factor or in your mind is a negative response. Give her time to digest it, no pressure. If you should get a positive response or answer then you can start giving her information from this site or maybe bring her here. Use whatever may be helpful and however it might fit your situation. Best wisher on your journey!
  11. Title for mods

    Royal members??
  12. Ads

    For the ads to generate income do they have to be clicked on, read, purchases made .....? For this tech dummy I don't understand how that works.
  13. Ads

    I agree with Nat and Hawk. You do what you have to keep us up and running. You know I never had a problem helping out. But agree with the ads to generate income.
  14. Admin status

    Hey Boss, I'm missing my admin status and access to admin area. Did I get demoted?
  15. Admin status

    Can I have like senior member or something distinguishing???? Lol
  16. Admin status

    LadyC we did have a fun time. She is such a delight to be around. She is doing well.
  17. Admin status

    Not mad by any stretch of the imagination! Was just wondering due to the update. I do check in almost everyday, have deleted a number of posts I felt did not meet the standards of "our" site and approving those that are appropriate. No hard feelings. I know you put a lot of time in here. I will continue to be an active member. Thanks for all you do KC! I have been around here for about 14 years and will be available if you change your mind. Just let me know. We are totally enjoying retirement!! In Georgia this month. Met with Kathy for lunch on Tuesday. Had a good visit.
  18. Just an update

    Hi Boss, so sorry to hear of your health diagnosis. As a former smoker (quit 20 years ago) I know how hard it is and pray you have a successful time of it.
  19. Hey Hawk!!  I would join you in chat too!!

  20. 1st cousin love

    I on the other hand have to disagree with Sophia. No hard feelings intended. My take on the situation is that you make yourself available as a friend. An ear to listen if she needs it . Since she has just experienced a broken engagement, regardless of who broke it, she may need time to get over it. And usually "rebound" relationships rarely end up being something long lasting, I feel you may gain more by the friendship route at this time. No need to profess your long love for her yet. Give her the time she needs and who knows what might happen. Best wishes on your journey.
  21. ok. just wanted to be sure. No dancer58 not interested, thanks.
  22. Did you clear through Admin to post this?
  23. Legal

    If I am correct you get married in the state that issues the license. I don't think what you are proposing would be legal. Just get married in New Mexico. My hubby and I got married in there. We are second cousins so the first cousin thing in Texas was not a problem for us. We live in Texas.
  24. She Won't Respond...

    From just the info you have given I would say she is not interested in even being a friend. There could be one of any number reasons, one being she is in a relationship and is not interested due to possibly something from your past. Probably time to just move on. If she should change her mind at sometime, I am sure she knows how to reach out to you.
  25. He is in a relationship with another for 3 years. You do nothing. If his relationship is not a good one or even if it is-- you do nothing. That part of his life has to end on its own without interference from outside influences. If he is having this sort of interaction with you, that is essentially cheating on his girlfriend. Would you want to be in her shoes and not know what is going on behind her back? I imagine you wouldn't. Be the bigger person and walk away until he is in a position to return your affections if you are both serious.