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Posts posted by Romalee

  1. SeatleSeven hit the situation head on!  She has never loved you, at least like you wanted her to., she has only used you 

    and it has affected you greatly.  Best to cut her out and off completely.  

    It amazes me though that you thought you two were together and yet you said she had a boyfriend.  

    I would say that was a VERY BIG  clue that there wasn't a relationship between the two of you.

    Cut your losses and the potential for any further hurt and move on.  Easy?? No but you will get through this if you are 


    Best wishes.

  2. Firefighter 2019 you do NOTHING!!  She is a CHILD!!!  The only advice you will get here is to leave her alone.

    She is in no way capable of understanding what you are proposing and it is illegal.

    Best advice I can  give you is to move on. Leave her alone and let her grow up without you having

    tried to make "her understand my love".

    Second this thread is over 3 years old. The original poster is more than likely long gone.  The thread will be locked.


  3. Pancake, you can ask any questions you feel you want to. 

    Just be advised we DO NOT give any legal advice here.

    Any legal questions need to be directed to an attorney. The legal facts pages

    are posted as to the best of our knowledge at the time posted. There may

    be changes to some of them we are not aware of.


    Oh and welcome to cc.com!!

  4. Hey Boss and Nat!!  We are just north of Houston til end of December.

    Back by home for Dr. appts in Jan. and then to Arizona, Nevada, maybe California and Wyoming

    That should take us up to mid to late June. Back home for Dr. appts again. 

    Debating putting house on market and  really going full time RVing.


    Hope you both are doing well.


    You can find the state laws under the info tab at the top of the page. 

    However, since laws can change and we aren't always aware of those changes, please 

    contact an attorney for any further clarification or  questions.  We do not give any legal advice on the site.

  6. Serendipity, I have been guilty of this as well. So now I usually look at the date first before commenting on some of the posts. Seems that a lot of the newbies read all

    the old posts and revive OLD ones because they "speak" to them, not realizing that many of the OPs are LONG gone by the time

    they read the posts. I try to lock the old ones so no more can be added to them.

  7. The thought has been planted in her mind. If you were to keep trying to get her

    to see you as a couple could backfire on you.  Let it be, no pressure on her, no mention of it,

    and just be her friend,  If she should begin to see you in the way you want, she will let you know.

    It might be by actions or maybe by words, but you will know.  BUT you must also be prepared

    to accept that she may never see you in the same way.


    When she next visits, play it cool, just be a  friend and enjoy the visit with no other expectations.

  8. Advice would be sort of dependent on your ages.

    But if you see each other often, are around each other and know each other pretty well,

    if the  situation arises you could always use  the  line " if you weren't my cousin I would date you" or 

    "you possess the qualities I look for in a girlfriend."  If she gives you the EWW factor or shows shock

     or disinterest, you always have the out of telling her " I said IF"  Gives you an out, lets you know if there

    is any interest, and/ or plants the seed of possibilities with her.  Don't  mention it again, let her take the lead on

    this after you have told her.  Whatever you do, DON'T declare your love for her----- yet anyway!!

    Build a solid friendship, one a potential relationship could be built on.


    Best wishes.

  9. I understand your wanting a "sort of" time line for her to make a decision.

    I also understand you not wanting to be left in waiting mode indefinitely.

    HOWEVER, my cousin and I met when I was 13 and he was 15. To make a long story short,

    it was 38 years before we got together. Both married others, more than once, had families and

    even our families visited each other once.  We kept up with each other through our parents for years.

    It wasn't until we were both single in our 50's that we reconnected and the rest is history.

    I know that sounds like forever and who knows if it would even happen for you, but our expectations of 

    timelines are not always what happens.

    Best wishes on your journey.

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