This is my first post in almost 3 years on this forum.Yes, it is possible, but the memories will still be there. I have the right to be happy without my cousin as much as she has the right to be happy without me. If my cousin is sad and depressed without me, I still have the right to be happy without her. I being happy without my cousin is a right and not a privilege and I do not apologize for saying that.
Almost every night before I go to bed, I pray that I can be happy without my cousin and this is something I want and need more than anything.