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  1. pepe

    Its been years, and I'm torn

    Don't even think about marrying an abuser. Don't think that you can change him because you love him. He needs to change because he loves you. Give yourself some respect and stay single for at least 1 year. Be confident with yourself that there's someone special worth waiting for. You won't find it in a One Night Stand. After 1 year, you decide whether to connect again with your cuz. Cheers! No choice but to rejoice!
  2. pepe

    ot sure you ever move past a cousin love

    My cousin is trying her best to cut our communication. We both still very much love each other. It's a long story. You can read our story when you get the chance. Anyway, we're trying to do the right thing but we know that we'll never be able to replace each other. We just have to live one day at a time. To answer your question, it's hard but you can try to have a relationship with another guy. Please watch the Notebook if you haven't seen it. In that movie, the guy was trying to forget his first love but just couldn't do it. His girlfriend realized it later. To me after 38 years, it's still there.
  3. Midwest, I concur. I want her to weigh in the consequences of her decision before she decides. Your advice is very good. Not judgemental. People will listen to you because you're at least trying to understand the situation, trying to get some more info and hoping to correspond to you more. I don't think she's still on this site since I have not seen any reply from her. I hope she comes back and read what you posted. Thanks for your wisdom.
  4. pepe

    New here-being pushed to make a choice

    I'm confused? I posted a reply about an hour ago and somebody deleted it. Why can't you at least send me a message if you have a problem with what I posted. This is not right.
  5. pepe

    Photo on facebook of my cousin

    Nice... :smiley:
  6. pepe

    ex-wife's disapproval

    Welcome to CC Nesters! I will let RJ handle the situation. You need to keep on loving your nephew and niece. Stay positive...love conquers all even a jealous ex... Cousinpauline, I suggest you start a new thread so as not to confuse others reading this thread. We can focus on nesters on this thread and focus on your new thread...thank you muchmuch.
  7. We talked about writing a book about our love story. It's almost 36 years since we met. When we finally live together, we'll start writing it. Lots of stories and memories.
  8. If you leave me now, you'll take away the biggest part of me...a love like ours is hard to find...by Chicago
  9. pepe

    Ratio of people who regretted

    I'll die trying to live with my cousin for the rest of my life. I don't want to regret that I did not try. http://www.whydontyoutrythis.com/2013/07/the-top-5-regrets-of-the-dying.html?m=1
  10. I know that it will take sometime. Please thank God for giving you the opportunity to love your cousin every time you miss him. It's a special love. I'll praying for you. Really sad too hear this...
  11. pepe

    Ain't Nobody's Business But Your Own

    Congrats! You're right, nobody's business. It's your life. It's your happiness.
  12. "As I walked out of the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn't leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I'd still be in prison." Nelson Mandela "Forgiveness" It?s the hardest thing to give away And the last thing on your mind today It always goes to those that don?t deserve It?s the opposite of how you feel When the pain they caused is just too real It takes everything you have just to say the word? Forgiveness Forgiveness It flies in the face of all your pride It moves away the mad inside It?s always anger?s own worst enemy Even when the jury and the judge Say you gotta right to hold a grudge It?s the whisper in your ear saying ?Set It Free? Forgiveness, Forgiveness Forgiveness, Forgiveness Show me how to love the unlovable Show me how to reach the unreachable Help me now to do the impossible Forgiveness, Forgiveness Help me now to do the impossible Forgiveness It?ll clear the bitterness away It can even set a prisoner free There is no end to what it?s power can do So, let it go and be amazed By what you see through eyes of grace The prisoner that it really frees is you Forgiveness, Forgiveness Forgiveness, Forgiveness Show me how to love the unlovable Show me how to reach the unreachable Help me now to do the impossible Forgiveness I want to finally set it free So show me how to see what Your mercy sees Help me now to give what You gave to me Forgiveness, Forgiveness
  13. pepe

    Did he ever love me?

    Thanks CM. You're right and will always be. Have a nice day.
  14. pepe

    Did he ever love me?

    CM-I took your advice to read the bible. "He who exalts himself shall be humbled and he who humble himself shall be exalted " Jesus "He who has not sinned, cast the first stone" Jesus John 8:7 Thanks again CM
  15. pepe

    Did he ever love me?

    Thank you much CM. I think you need to read what I posted again.