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FMI

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  1. wow.. it's nice to hear that you're MARRIED with your cuz-love.. yes it is an ACHIEVEMENT indeed.. Congratulations to both of you.. You make it on the CC success story.. But, let's face the fact that NOT ALL FILIPINOS have enough money to pay for this and that and for other papers.. But you know what surprises me.. that cousins can really marry in the Philippines for as long as nobody cares.. hehehe.. Why not ask Mikey Arroyo who married his 2nd cousin why their marriage still pursue.. because NOBODY CARES and it's their life and their families are both supportive on their decision to get married.. in my opinion, marriage certificates are only useful for those who have properties to attend to, transfer or to inherit.. but for a farmer who only rented a land to toil just only thinks of making a living for a family i guess isn't bother of the marriage certificates at all..go ahead, why don't you check your provinces and be surprised how many of your relatives are inter-connected.. i'm not saying that we are immoral.. it is probably because most of us are illiterate of the laws.. and i think laws are still depend upon the situation..if u want to get married, go ahead.. do u know how fast it is to have a Civil wedding if u have cash? lol..if they allow u, nice.. then u have a "marriage certificate".. hehe.. if not, why be so upset.. go ahead. enjoy your life and still pursue that dream being together.. it's not the end of the world if u don't get married.. as long as u love each other i think that's enough to have a happy life..
  2. in my experience, collecting data and information to find ways to get married.. it was really a mixture of stress, frustration and depression.. until i get myself to became a slave of fear because of so much information that i have.. not realizing that it wasn't really that important at all.. and it was too late when i noticed that the "spark" between us has been gone because of fear and worries.. we all wanted to get married with the one we love.. but have we first asked ourselves before we enter this kind of relationship on "how much are we ready and how much are we willing to sacrifice for the sake of love?" because in the first place, we already knew the consequences on this kind of relationship.. "are we strong enough to face them?" i envy those people who succeeded to be with their cuz-love, yes.. i do believe that their love is eternal for they have passed all the struggles.. we all knew how hard it is to be in this kind of relationship.. these people are proof that our dreams being with our cuz-love can succeed.. enough reason to fight for love.. the success of ur lovestory depends on both of you.. if one of u, feel shaking, doubt, in fear.. then i guess the love wasn't really that strong.. don't make "being married" a solution so you can say that you will be together forever.. rather, make it as an option.. married or not as long as the two of you belive in the LOVE that u have was true.. i think it is enough to make your life happy together..
  3. yeah.. and i did! i think at least ten times the reason why.. i can't find any! lol... :grin:
  4. laws are laws made by the government that we need to follow.. but if the heart is talking, i think it is your own rule to follow.. In my experience being involved with my cousin, i was so frustrated.. if u wanted to make your lovestory a successful one, don't bother yourself with the things that doesn't allow you to make that dream come true.. it was everybody's dream to be MARRIED.. but let's face the fact that not all marriages end up in happy endings.. and many people are happily living together, having their own family but not married.. it is probably because marriage ceritificates for them are no big deal at all.. in my opinion, marriage certificates are only useful for those who have properties to attend to, transfer or to inherit.. but for a farmer who only rented a land to toil just only thinks of making a living for a family i guess isn't bother of the marriage certificates at all.. go ahead, why don't you check your provinces and be surprised how many of your relatives are inter-connected.. i'm not saying that we are immoral.. it is probably because most of us are illiterate of the laws.. and i think laws are still depend upon the situation.. if u want to get married, go ahead.. do u know how fast it is to have a Civil wedding if u have cash? lol.. if they allow u, nice.. then u have a "marriage certificate".. hehe.. if not, why be so upset.. go ahead. enjoy your life and still pursue that dream being together.. it's not the end of the world if u don't get married.. as long as u love each other i think that's enough to have a happy life.. i was once become a SLAVE of FEAR.. i don't want to let it happen to you.. Smile.. Don't worry.. GOD is in Control.. cheers! :wink:
  5. oh gosh!! glad we have this on C.C. thanks for sharing!! :jig: :jig: :jig: :thx:
  6. O, how I wish someday Rey and I cross roads again and still find love in each others arm.. thanks for sharing your story..
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