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  1. Got to get this off my chest

    So C's mother organised a social event and I went down to see her, stayed at her place and got to know her kids - I fell into a father role WAY to easy, but I'm kinda happy to say that as far as C and I go there were no sparks between us this time - just happy family love..... so that's a bit of a relief. On another note B and I have gotten quite close, but I find out she's Polyamorous - so now I have to get my head around that one........ I sure know how to pick the difficult relationship styles! :-/
  2. Hey guys - I wrote a very long story about the 8 years I've been on/off with my cousin: it was two pages long so i have hidden it in a spoiler. Anyway to summarise - We have had a very turbulent relationship that was more off than it ever was on - and she has sent me some very abusive messages over the years. All of my friends who know about this situation think it's a bad idea, and not so much because of the fact we are cousins (well a little bit of it), but moreso because of the way she has treated me in the past. On top of this, a girl has recently entered my life (call her B), and while nothing has happened at all yet, I can see a connection possibility with her, and I don't want to lead anyone on. I acknowledge that I still have feelings for C and, C probably still has for me too - but if I see her it feels a bit like I'm playing Russian roulette. And on top of this - I don't want to mention to her about B - because I don't want to do to her what happened last time - so I can't bring it up - cause I know how she will respond - jealousy, hatred, abuse. I sincerely want to be friends with her, but I fear for what will happen if we see each other again. Our connection is too strong.
  3. Heya everyone. It's been a while - 7 or so years I think? - loving the new forum layout. I can't seem to find my original posts, probably got wiped in an update, yeah? Well anyway, my cousin-love is back in my life - a very long tedious story has unfolded over the last 6 years, some of the older members/staff might remember, but there has been no contact between us for around 3 years, due to a very messy situation that happened. Bit of a heartbreaking story that I feel terrible for but was out of my control. Suddenly she's back in my life, has two kids and an ex-husband. And our feelings are still there. Well kinda. She's needing some emotional support through some of the actions of her ex and I will always be there for her. So there's lots of subtleties, but she and I have been on this roller coaster before so I am in no way confused this time. haha. Most of my friends/family who know about the situation are quietly worried that she's back in my life, not because of the cousin thing, but because of the way she acted then. I keep this in the back of my mind, but motherhood seems to have mellowed her - she's not as dramatic as she used to be. Anyway I just wanted to say hi, and am glad I have this forum to talk to if i need it ~J
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    Down hearted
  5. Surely the person in question whom that the previous questions were aimed at, seems ambiguous at best, does it not?
  6. If we didn't care, would we bother to continue playing this game?
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    Sun Dial (chocolate, so you know, the game is "leave one word alone, and change the other", so single word answers are impossible.... :smiley: )
  8. Wouldn't we assume she was talking about a viola as a musical instrument, because of the previous questions concerning harps and musicians?
  9. Well, is it a reasonable reason?
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    page turner
  11. Evidence for what, exactly?
  12. So why did this game die for so long?
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    shopping list
  14. It's never too late, but do you think it's a good idea to keep this going?