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pooch last won the day on August 22 2019

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  1. sam

    hi po im new here

    di ko na po kaya yong nararamdaman ko,at kelangan ko na po ng advice..

    turning 9yrs po kami lumaban at itinago ang pagmamahalan nmen,hanggang isang umaga na lang po na stress na kami lalo na siya nagsisimula na po kasi mapansin lahat smen,nanghihinala na din akala ko kakayanin pa niya,hangang sa yong mother na niya naconfront sa kanya at merong masasakit na salit although wala pa nman pong sinabe na may alam na,yong mga kapatid po niya alam na pero wala sila makita na kami talaga..one day po nagdecide na siya na itama na nmen lahat na taposin na nmen???ang sakit po kala ko lalaban pa kami,then dumating po na pmunta ako sa kanila nahuli ko na may katabi ng babae??pero sinabe niya na wala pa nangyayari sa knila magkatabi lang!tapos till now po ying babae sa kanya na minsan natutulog!sobra pong hirap???pakiramdam ko napaduwag niya hinde niya inisip kung ano yong mararamdamn ko sa mga pinag gagawa niya..pede nman muna nmen umistop paunti unti hinde yong biglaan na ganun..please advice po?

    1. May Ann

      May Ann

      ang sakit nman ng ginawa nya sau.tama ka sana unti2 nyang ginawa na umiwas sau dahil alam naman nyang msakit sau makasarili ang tawag dun...

    2. sam


      hi may ann

      ang dami ng nangyari,turning 3 months..puro iyak,sama ng loob,sakit...pero mahal pa din😢😢😢kaw kumusta?

  2. This has nothing to do with cousin relationships though, right? Just because they are similar does not mean that the rules will apply; for there may be other mitigating reasons why we cannot ban old age marrying. The pro-cousin marriage must be the one who should set forth their case, lest it be a red herring. Pooch
  3. I am sooo sorry guys! I was in a rush while I as was posting and was saying things "stream of consciously" from the top of my head! ?? No proofread at all. I was careless and it's from my casual talk. Again, my apologies everybody. It won't happen again. Pooch Ps. LadyC, thanks for pointing that out though. I needed that. I didnt even remember I posted that slang this morning until you mentioned it. Then later tonight Im like, "Oops. Oh yeah. Right. That."
  4. Now KC said, Duuude! Who cares what they think back in those days!? LOL. What people presently care about is what they think NOW. haha. That's how people think unfortunately. Of course, this is unfair as they read the Bible from their perspective rather than balance it how it was revealed to Moses by God, eh? But more on to the topic since I have asked this question as well to an older brother in the church whom I deeply respect. He said (and I am paraphrasing): that this chapter in Leviticus 18 is actually a commandment for separation for the children of Israelites. Namely, that because God is a holy God, we cannot be living just like what the other nations do. Like, if the other nations are just having sex with anybody (pretty much!) and in hedonism, (in crass terms, fucking everything and anybody who moves, know what I'm saying?), we should not be like that. Why? Because we are separated people... we are people who are holy...and that God wants a group of people (in that time, the Israelites) in whom He can have His expression of holiness on the earth. ? So it's not about rules per se of who to marry and whatnot. No, the picture is bigger than that. However, EVEN LOOKING AT THAT MYOPIC VIEW, the matter of cousin-marriage-prohibition-in-Lev.-18 still fails because cousin marriages are not even mentioned! LOL. Except for the sticking point verse 6, the anti-cousin-marriage-person really has no case. Now it gets worse because not only that they have no positive case, but that there is an overwhelming case that the contrary is true! KC mentioned pre-Moses instance of Jacob and his cousin and so on... Heck, I will even mention Othniel in the time of Judges...now THAT is post-Moses. hahaha. Hence, Leviticus 18 is really a slam-dunk case on behalf of cousin marriage adherents. Pooch
  5. For Filipinos (at least I can speak on behalf of my culture), there's actually no problem in the entire chapter except for verse 6. That verse is the sticking point of the entire thing.... (well, the entire chapter as well, I guess..) hahaha. Let me re-post: Lev 18:6 ESV (6) “None of you shall approach any one of his close relatives to uncover nakedness. I am the LORD. Isolating that verse alone without considering the rest of the chapter would show a "blanket commandment" that anybody who really is a close relative should not be approached for marriage. The details of this commandment are on the following verses, for sure. But it can also be read in a way wherein verse 6 is a "general commandment" if there's anything missed on the subsequent verses. Know what I'm saying? So for instance, Leviticus 18 lists that you cannot marry (as per our homepage says): any close relative (which you will clearly see does not include cousins), your mother, your father’s wife, your sister, (whole or half) “whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere” (v.9), your grandchild, the daughter of your father’s wife (step-sister), your father’s sister (aunt) “as she is your father’s close relative”, your mother’s sister (aunt) “as she is your mother’s close relative”, your father’s brother’s wife (aunt), your son’s wife, your brother’s wife, with both a woman and her daughter, your wife’s sister as a rival wife (to spite your first wife), during “uncleanness of her monthly period”, with your neighbor’s wife, with a member of the same sex; the Bible says “that is detestable”, with an animal; the Bible refers to this as “a perversion”. Our website added: Those who oppose cousin marriage often use “any close relative” to base their opposition on. Others will say that just because cousins aren’t specifically referred to doesn’t mean God didn’t mean to include them. They insist this list is just a general rule of thumb, not an all-inclusive command. Source: https://www.cousincouples.com/christianity/
  6. pooch

    2nd cousins

    Easy for you to say, my friend.. ? You know that the world is not black or white, eh? You have to take care of people's sensitivities, cultural norms and family dynamics. If you cry the emperor has no clothes, it will be easy for you to make enemies. I know it is hurting but sometimes, we have to compromise to win the bigger picture. You know what I'm saying? Oh, and about 2nd cousins, there is still the "ick factor" but not as much...The sting disappears especially if you guys are not brought up in the same environment. Pooch
  7. This will be my concern though.. What will it look like for them though? Can they open threads? What will be the difference if ever? Pooch
  8. The $15 is the annual fee to keep CC the way it is right? (Or maybe better) Pooch
  9. Whats the difference between the associate, associate+ and collaborator? Pooch
  10. Cool. How they treat you is a foreshadowing if your would-be life with them. And if she herself is not supportive of you and your life with her, then the hell with it man! You gotta move on. Thanks as well for listening to us. Move on and never look back. ? Pooch PS. Oh! And I meaan.. it's not like she's a Jessica Alba or something, eh? Know what Im sayin'? Hahahaha
  11. Welcome to the forum Jazz, I got nothing to say, man.. You are old enough for this crap. All I can say though, as a fellow guy, is, "Daaaang man.. You are in huuge trouble!" LOL Why do I say that? Because you are "hit by it". You are in trouble man. You got this thing going.. You walk and walk in circles around the well and you already fell. There's only a way out of here and that is to cut off all communication. If you go deep into this, I hope that you get out unscathed. But seriously bro, short-term effect of this "emotional fling" might be awesome... But it will eat you inside...and then from the inside, it will breed in corruption on your faithfulness and behavior and it will just spiral things out of control man.... give or take 6 months especially if she is has her own issues as well. Soooo I dunno man.. You are probably older than me. I am 34. But I would not want to be in your situation dude. I will fix what I have with my wife rather than run to escape reality with my cousin... You got a daughter man... oh well.... But I kinda sympathize with what you're going through.... Hope for the best on your end man.. really. Pooch
  12. Hi there. Welcome to the forum Your info are absolutely correct. The Bible does not prohibit cousin marriages. As a matter of fact, it even encourages it! You know the story of Joshua and Caleb? Well, I particularly liked Caleb. Because he let his nephew marry his daughter. A little not-so-famous example comes to mind. Jdg 1:12-13 CEV (12) Caleb told his troops, "The man who captures Kiriath-Sepher can marry my daughter Achsah." (13) Caleb's nephew Othniel captured Kiriath-Sepher, so Caleb let him marry Achsah. Othniel was the son of Caleb's younger brother Kenaz. But then there are countless of examples! From Jacob's situation and Laban and Rachel (my favorite!) and even in the New Testament. The Bible is rich with these facts. However, it is not really the Bible that is in question,.. you see. In my experience, I have been raised in a Christian country (Philippines). It is 85% catholic. Yet the family code of the Philippines prohibit first cousin marriages. And the misinformation abounds to the point of despair... Well.. What I can say to you, my friend, is that it is not religion that is the problem.. The problem is cultural. Your hunch is correct. I believe that it is her family that kinda put a wall between the two of you. And believe me, that is a super high wall to cross... Now is she worth it?!? I tell you dude, that is the question of all questions. Is the trouble, heartaches, difficulties, family baggages and even clan-judgment worth it for this girl?? Only you can say that. It is on you because you are the guy. Haha! Dude, now hear this statement: I tell you that EVEN IF POPE FRANCIS declares that cousin marriages are okay, believe me that they are still going to be against the (possible) relationship of you two. How does that sound, my friend?? (Super ouch, right?) Now again I ask you, IS THAT GIRL WORTH IT? And I am telling you even assuming that she is already "a ten" (which probably she isn't by an objective spectator), a "Miss California sexy super model" beauty and a summa cumlaude brains with the faithfulness of Madam Theresa. lol. (Real talk!). (But of course, she is a ten in your eyes I know that.. Both of us are guys, so I know what you are feelin.. ) But my point is this: Take your time to think... Give it 1 month.. 3 months.. sleep over it.. sleep over that question many times.. Give it 6 months.. Heck, make it even a year.. You may want to consider bailing your heart out NOW rather than you go deep into this mess...especially if you are planning to have long term relationship with her.. You don't want to hurt yourself nor her nor her family nor your family.. Know what I am saying?? That's my 100% brutal honesty two-cents. Pooch
  13. Before telling you what to do, lemme just say that I am sooo impressed with how articulate you are in expressing yourself here. Lol. Are you sure you are 15!? Lol. 15 year olds these days, not sounding super stereotypical okay, but they type "text-speak" and they talk "slang". Your post, however, is.... well.. lets just say, it's the one expected at your age. Now on to the point: 1. You don't have to do anything. Lol. Just reject him whenever he makes his advances and/or use the LJBF card ("let's just be friends"). Guys job is to approach you or not...while girls job is to accept or reject. So keep doing what you are doing. ?
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