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  1. Lena, I'm sorry to hear that it didn't work out the way you wanted. I too know what you're going through and how you feel. Something similar happened to me with my cousin except my story is a little more complicated... it was more of a crazy love triangle because he had a gf at the time we were talking (flirting) but I never found out till 7 months after I met him when I got a message from her. In the end he ended up going back to her even though I did everything to show him that I truly loved him and would give my life for him but I guess that wasn't enough. Btw they were broken up at the time that I actually gave him a try. But like you I had my moments of being in heaven and now my dark days of being without him and my heartache of losing him to another girl. I think that's the worst feeling because you wonder what she has that you don't. Anyways enough about my sob story. I just want to let you know that I am here for you if you ever need someone to talk to because I know how bad it hurts to lose the love of your life, your first love (my cousin was also my first love) I agree with 122107. . we need to let go in order for us to move on with our lives and we definitely need to focus on ourselves right now. We need to get a good education so we can get a good paying job. I'm sure we'll find another guy that would want to spend the rest of their lives with us and then our cousins will just be a memory. Of course we will always love our cousins because after all they were our first loves. Hopefully when we see our cousins again in the future and they see how great our lives turned out, they will miss us and regret letting us go. Sorry if you don't feel that way.. I do because at the moment I am mad and hurt with my cousin for lying to me and choosing another girl over me.
  2. Sorry guys I haven't checked to see if anyone commented on this for a really long time lol. Boeregirl, You can certainly use whatever part or even the whole poem if you like :smiley: & no I never gave it to him. I actually found out a couple months later that he had a gf the whole time so I guess I'm kinda glad I didn't let him know how I really felt. & to be honest I'm kinda scared to tell him because I dont know how he would react. ACL2, Thanks I'm sure it would touch his heart too but he has a gf and I think its best that I keep this to myself. & I'm glad that you can relate to my poem :azn: Silent_Psycho, Thanks!! This was actually the first poem I've ever wrote lol. :laugh:
  3. Winking usually has a flirtatious meaning... I mean I've never had anoter family member wink at me before lol. So I take that as flirting. You mentioned that he has a gf and a baby... my advice is not to even get involved with him. I know it's not what you want to hear but take it from someone whose been there. Trust me all it will do to you is hurt you because he will most likely not leave his gf and kid for you and then your left crying in the corner. If they for some reason split then you could try to pursue him but for now just keep the cousinship lol. & I know how you feel. I HATE when my cousin doesn't respond to me because then I wonder if he's changed his mind about me or something. Just hang in there for now and live your life. Hopefully you guys will meet up again and things will work out in your favor!
  4. nessa76, Does your cousin show you any signs that he might be interested in you? Does he flirt with you or even look at you in a way that a cousin shouldn't look at you? If he does do something like that then I think you should just throw in some little hints for him... flirt with him, ect.
  5. I do believe it is possible... but normally when you feel that strong of a connection with someone they usually feel the same way. Does your cousin feel that way with you?
  6. Romalee, Thank you for clearing that up for me lol. I wasn't sure if we were 2nd or 3rd cousins. I always thought we were 2nd cousins but my mom insisted that we were 3rd lol I knew she was wrong haha. & your right, it does not change my feelings for him at all!! I just wish we could be together.
  7. That is quite interesting nessa76. I do kind of believe in that. My cousin and I are third cousins I think lol (his grandma and my grandma are sisters) I don't think this would apply to me and him but I know that the very first time we laid eyes on each other we were hooked. I didn't even know about him since last summer and now I am madly in love with him!! I know exactly how you feel.. I feel an attraction like that with my cousin as well and we live miles apart. I've never felt so close to anyone before and I don't think I ever will.
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