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  1. JackQ

    What degree of cousin?

    Yes I am being pulled in both directions. It is difficult. I am sure they both are in happy relationships. I am happy for them and I also respect their decisions.
  2. JackQ

    What degree of cousin?

    At first, I thought that it was gross and it is wrong. Secondly, I had to look up if it was wrong or right to develop romantic feelings towards my own kin, cousins who are like sisters to me. When I read that it is okay to date and marry a cousin, I was happy. But, deep down, they are like actual sisters and nothing more. I am glad to be able to let all of my feelings out and told them how I felt about one and then I never would have thought of the other as anything more than a sister but I told her, too. They are such beautiful women. I know I have beaten this horse dead but the pain will never go away. It will only come and go. Be a distant memory. But never forgotten. I am very happy to share with you all even though it is more than you might have asked for and I might even be identified with all the info I have shared. Ah, well. Life is only once. Thank you.
  3. JackQ

    What degree of cousin?

    It is much more than sex. The cousin, her ex-bf, and current bf are all unrelated if you all were wondering or did not know. She'll be gone for a month and as for the other cousin, she moved and I do not see her very offen becuase of school. I also do not think that wanting sex from my cousins has anything to do with my porn watching. I guess it stems from curiosity of what it is like to do the activity. I think about them a lot. I do not think it is an obession. I think it has to do with the way or type of person that they are. Both are attractive, good hearted, humorous and tall. Taller than me.
  4. JackQ

    What degree of cousin?

    Yes, I am still a virgin. I would like to fully give myself to these original gems and not clones. But, that will never happen. Although, one can dream and maybe dreams do come true. As for this older woman, she is in a relationship with her bf with whom she has three kids with. She once told me that her main focus is her kids and that he is a manipulative person. Reading what she told me, it sounded like she would rather be back in the relationship with her ex-bf of ten years rather than this man that she had kids with. She has told me that one time he tried to add her on social media but she blocked him. They live together still to this day. Despite livong together, I think she might still have feelings for her ex because at one point when she was telling me things going on between her and the current bf, I asked her if she might still feelings for her ex and she told me no. I then told her that even though she might not harbor any feelings for the ex, she might have thought of the characteristics of the ex were to be the same as the current bf. I still supported her decision and her choices that she makes in her life. But, it would have been best if she had fixed what ever problem that caused her and her ex-bf to break up in the first place since I also have known him for a good part of my life and he is a much better person than the current bf. Her ex is now a happily married man and also owns a business. I believe it is too late to go back in time.
  5. JackQ

    What degree of cousin?

    I dream of losing purity to these three women. I do not know what these dreams mean. Well, we did grow up as siblings. Although she at first was shocked that I had finally told her about my feelings for our other cousin on my dad's side. But, since then she has been supportive of my decision. I did convince her that cousins are an item after reading articles on this topic. She has been really cool about me and my other sister. But, when I told her that I wished that me and her were not related, she said that she is going to try and help me find another unrelated woman to be in a relationship with. These cousins are nothing more than sisters to me. One is caring. Another is sweet. I rarely see the third one. I know that none of these women that I fantasize about would never feel the same way as I do for them. I have treated her out to lunch to talk to her about my one love, but it never got to be only the two of us. It was always other cousins tagging along. I finally broke the story to her about me and my other sister over messaging. Ever since she had children, she had her up and downs with her bf. I have tried to help her in these situations the best I could but I am no therapist. I do talk to her more than I do my other cousin because of the ripples. I understand that relationships can be tough for a couple. But, it was her fault for getting herself in to this relationship in the first place when she was still with her then current bf (now ex bf). I do not accuse her of cheating although she did. In the end, I still support her. She is a good person nonetheless. We're all family and family looks after each other.
  6. JackQ

    What degree of cousin?

    I keep forgetting that she did tell me that we are first cousins. Sorry for a dumb question. She's pretty. She's in her late 30's close to 40. But, she is sweet. Exactly like my "sister" and "niece". She has 3 children although she is unmarried. I know that it might be adultery and a sin and I might burn down there in the after life. But, I just never thought that in my entire life that I would develop anything more than a platonic, familial, love towards these girls who are all grown women. I have come to terms of never being able to experience any love with these women as they see me as nothing more than family or a brother and I see them as nothing more than family and sisters. But, I can always dream. Yes, there are other women out there in this World and this life, but family is a better fit than a stranger that we meet outside of family. Even if those strangers might have the same qualities as family. I do not think that there is anything stronger than a bond with family. Thanks.
  7. JackQ

    What degree of cousin?

    Hello. One of my female cousins and me are like siblings since we grew up together. I was curious to know what degree of cousin would she be? She is the second oldest sister of my aunt (her mom and my mom are both sisters) on my mom's side of the family. Her mom being older than my mom.
  8. JackQ

    Hello.

    Oh, ok. There is no news to report. I asked her through Facebook if she wanted to go to the movies but I have never heard a reply from her. Although my cousin's hubby is a lucky guy. He gets the sister and the first cousin once removed's phone especially when she had asked him for it.
  9. JackQ

    Hello.

    Hello, everyone. I am curious to know what my relationship actually is with a relative. If anyone could help me out. I am not sure if you can tell me the full story but you all can hopefully tell me the actual relation ship between us. I could ask my relatives but I would get lost pretty quick. I was at an event recently and I saw this attractive girl. I felt she was watching me and we did lock eyes and look away several times. I had asked a cousin who this girl was since I am sure me and this girl are related in some way although I have never seen her in person before. The cousin, who is on my mom's side of the family, told me that this girl is my niece and I am her uncle. Her parents and me are all first cousins. Would this girl actually be my niece, first cousin once removed, or some other form of relation? She's probably off limits around the world and on this site. But, it is something that I am curious to know. Thanks!
  10. JackQ

    Something

    It's just really sad to see that he is born the way he is. Not just him, but other people as well. It's life, I guess.
  11. JackQ

    Something

    I just may be underestimating the human spirit. But, even with federal assistance, some people are still not so fortunate. We can only do so much until we give it all that we have and then throw in the towel because our actions were not successful. I'm sure he has his parents and his sister's support. I am certain that I cannot stand being able to socialize with other people due to my inability to speak. It will drive me crazy.
  12. JackQ

    Something

    I haven't seen him in years, only recently. I started to wonder and it got me thinking, that he is never going to get a girlfriend. Make friends. Attend school and even have a successful life, if he can't even talk. How do his parents even know if he has needs and wants, like eating and drinking, if he is unable to talk/communicate with them? He is an adult now. I would not be able to live his life if I was in his shoes. I'm not just talking about him, but all the other people out in the World with disabilities. It's sad. I wish there is a way to give these disabled and handicapped people a life worth living. People like this make me feel really sorry for them. For them not to be able to experience life like a normal human being would.
  13. JackQ

    Something

    I have relatives that have a son and a daughter. Their daughter is normal. However, the son has a disability from the time he was born. It's baffled me and I never asked. Until very recently. I asked the mother how come her son is not able to talk and she said that he is "handicapped". I asked her if he could understand what she says to him. She said that he could understand in various foreign languages, not just in English. But, I wonder what are the chances of a baby, being born to first cousins, being handicapped, compared to an unrelated couple, such as my relatives? I think he has mutism, but I'm not sure.
  14. JackQ

    Hi, again!

    I'm not sure if she'll notice or not notice if I'm in attendance. I'm torn between being there and not being there. Yes, as a matter of fact, I did tell her my feelings for her. If you want to, you can view my profile and look at my other thread that I posted months ago. Please take a look and I appreciate your time and comments. Also, please feel free to PM if you want. Thanks!
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