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  1. Thanks

    Thank you, LadyC.
  2. Thanks

    Hey, remember me? I'm pokebass1, and I was in love with my half-second cousin for a long time. I recently came out if the slum I had been in for months due to finding out that she had moved on and gotten herself a lesbian girlfriend on the day of January 25th. I have now moved on. I've gotten a girlfriend whom I'm happily in love with (So soon, I know). I just wanted to thank all of those who helped me in those dark times I had. Thank you, all of you. I will keep those lessons I've learned on this site in my heart for the rest of my life... thank you.
  3. I've Messed Up

    You and my car both, kind of. My car was actually made in November of 75. My cars model is 76, so I just like the number.
  4. I've Messed Up

    Nattana: Thanks for the advice, even if I have yet to figure out how to put that into my life. As for the book though, due to my form of OCD, reading is extremely aggravating and at times makes me want to punch holes in the things I need the most. Thanks for the recommendation, though. I might read it if I can ever get my OCD under control. DazednConfused: I'm mostly trying to convince him so he doesn't bother her about the fact all day at school, as my friends do me. I'm also kind of letting him fade out of my memory, as he has already almost done. I would talk to my cousin, but I can't. I have no way to. That's what caused me to write this in the first place. My made up scenarios are finally going to a good version of what could happen, but my depression due to all of the reminders I have of her has yet to quite go away. Also, I love the name, even if I'm just making the reference without it really being present. Nessa76: That right there is my life philosophy, and is what I wish everybody thought. I can't change their minds, though. Also, why 76? I love the number 76, that's why I'm asking.
  5. I've Messed Up

    I've already told him that it's mainly how society views it that makes people think it's wrong, but it really isn't. I'm currently writing down things to tell people that might could change their mind a little, but I kind of doubt it will work. I guess I won't try very hard to change his, though, since what he says doesn't really matter.
  6. I've Messed Up

    Thanks LadyC, you always cheer me up. I guess I should just stop letting he bad get to me, and let the good side of it guide me. Now, for the other guy, I could see jealousy being part of it, since he has dated her, but I don't think he knows that we're half 2nd cousin. I guess I'll tell him some stuff to try and let him know the truths about our situation without messing anything up, like I have before. Again, thank you for all of your advice, it's all greatly appreciated.
  7. I've Messed Up

    Hey, I'm back. My new story is this. When I first met my half-second cousin, who I fell in love with, one of her friends started messaging her about how he wanted to kill himself over a girl. Some time later, I decided I wanted to help him with this. I sent him a message over Facebook saying that it wasn't right to want to do that, but I kind of get where he's coming from. I didn't think before sending it, though. I said things that I now regret, and wish I had thought about what I was saying and make sure that he wouldn't take offense to any of it. Then, 10 days ago, I get a message from my cousin saying that he didn't appreciate me messaging him, and she asked me to stop. She told me he was getting mad at her because she didn't say I was there when it happened. I was thinking the entire time, "Man, this kid is so immature," but I didn't want him mad at her. I told him that he shouldn't get mad at her, because it's not her fault that I was there. It was my fault, and he should be mad at me, not her. I can't stand him being mad at her because of me, because I love her. I also told him that all I wanted to do was help. His reply was, "You're her cousin. That's sick and messed up." After that, I had my tablet taken away and was banned from getting on Facebook or Google Hangouts. Then, my favorite cat died from eating rat poison. I've started getting depressed because I feel I mess up everything I get involved with. Every time I think about her, which happens at least 10 times a day, I get in a bad mood and sit down, or go into another room, and just think about how I've messed up the best things in my life. I also wonder if she even still loves me. I know she does, but she has good reason not to. I think up scenarios about when I message her again, and they either end in her forgiving me, or never wanting to talk to me again. I don't want to think like that, I just do. Even in public, where I cheer up, I'm depressed. I'm usually the happiest person in the room, but I can't stay happy for long. I know some of this may sound childish, but I still need advice. You guys are amazing at that. Thanks for any advice given.
  8. So, my half second cousin and I had never met until August 2nd 2014. We got to talking because it was a family reunionand ashe decided to not just be a lump in the corner drawing anime characters. I was was sitting on a utv thing at around 7:10, and she got up and sat by me. We didn't talk for about 15 minutes, but then my dad asked what we weird teenagers were doing. She started talking to me, and we were instantly friends. We talked until 2:15am that night. The next morning, we talked some more, than left at around 2:00pm. When I got home, I texted her, and we started talking like that. Fastfoward two weeks, we decided to get together on August 15th, and her stay at my house until that Sunday, the 17th. We had fun, had a fire, a sat outside for a while talking. She ended up laying her head on my shoulder, and we ended up cuddling for a while. We did so two times that night. When we weren't cuddling, I was wrestling her off of me because ahewas trying to give me noogies. The next day, we went for a bike ride, since she had never been to my town before, and I showed her this little town. We stayed gone for two hours or so, my bike messed up so I had to go to the Fire Department, I had permission since my dad's a Fireman/EMT there, so I could do a quick fix there. We left and went home. About three two hours later, we went to a car show at a local bank, where a Street Outlaw was at. We spent some timee there, and then went home so I could get my wallet. That high, August 16th, was the towns annual "Dragging Main", and we were there until midnight. When we got home, we started the fire again, she tried to give me more noogies, and then got so toured we decided to call it a night. We slept on my trampoline, as we did the night before. I ended up hugging her, and we fell asleep with her in my arms. Fastfoward one more week, I find out that it's legal for us to be together, and we start talking about running off to be together. I later found out that it's legal everywhere since we're half second cousins, not first. We started talking about all this stuff, and made a plan with the codename, "Honey". I told her, "For this thing to happen, I need one thing. Know what that is? Love." Then, on August 31st, I realized I loved her, and told her so. She said she thought she felt thre same way, and we got together. We were the happiest we'd ever been. There's my story, I hope you liked it.
  9. Man, I know you must be confused, but I at least can't help without proper information. Could you get some more info about your family? If she's not from the side that your parents are related on would be one thing. If she's not, there is no problem. I sense this isn't the case though. Anyway, I need this info so I can help.
  10. Do U ever get over cousin love?

    Well, it depends on how in love you got. Though, love can fade, and cousin love is no exception. If you were deeply in love and couldn't stand not being with them, or anything of there sort, I'm sure it wouldn't go away. If you didn't love them a whole lot, it may go away. Cousin love is love, just a strong form of it. It all depends on the person and how in love they were. For me, however, I don't think I'll be over it any time soon. Every day I think about her, and everyday I get to be more in love with her. My love for her is unending, and is constantly growing. I can't spend one day without talking to her. It breaks my heart that I can't tell her I love her, as I'm sure it does her. I get aso happy when we call each other, because I can then tell her I love her, and it feels great. In all, my answer is no.
  11. uncle/neice marriages made legal

    That's a %25 relation, I never thought that would happen. I especially don't think it would in the U.S. I'm even a little worried on that one, and I'm that guy who thinks love is love, and you deserve to be with whoever you chose, because it's not really a choice. I guess I'm happy for lose people who are in that situation though. Good for them, they deserve this kind of thing.
  12. Help, advice, confused!!

    You know, you can make people speculate all you want, but you can't make them definite about it. I get that you're nervous and don't want to ruin you're friendship and everything, but you've got to take chances. If he continues to gibe you signs that he does like you, then act on them. If not, then give him some that you do anyway. Since in your religion, it's sometumes preffered to do so, then just tell him you do. Anyway, I hope you can get him to know you do, no matter the way. If he likes you too, then great. My biggest question for now is, how good of friends are you?
  13. My cousin loves guardians of the galaxy, so I wrote her this. I am Groot, I can only say three words, And I am Groot. I am a magnificent tree, And I am Groot. I can grow to the size of I skyscraper, And I am groot- I am awesome, And I am Groot. If I was not Groot, I would still be Groot. Don't mess with me, Because I am Groot. As awesome and and magnificent as I am, I would never compare to you. The last tow lines weren't written down. Mostly because I don't want any chance at being caught again. I don't like those lectures about how it's wrong and we're too young for it to be okay. Anyway, I hope you enjoyed it.
  14. Kissin' Cousins

    Note: I have not seen the movie.
  15. Well, I'm glad you have been able to keep it secret. As you can see, if you have read the other replies, my half second cousin, basically third, and I were found out about. If we hadnt though, I would never have learned some valuable lessons.
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