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  1. No KC, we did take our vows seriously. Unfortunately our spouses didnt. We were both stuck in lloveless marriages that were beyond repair. And I say beyond repair, because regardless of how hard you try, one person can not save a broken marriage. My wife refused to try, and my loves husband refused to try. Rather than accepting their share of the responsibility they choose to blame us for the all the failures associated with our marriages. Unfortunately I believe this is a common feeling among society today. Too many people have little regard for the sanctity of marriage. I've have tried for about 4 or 5 years now, to work things out with my wife. I can no longer remain miserable. I refuse to devote myself, my time or my effort to someone who could care less about me. I am absolutely to blame. As this is my first marriage, I should have known there was an issue when I found out she had been married 3 times previously. But like a blind fool, I assumed things would be different with me. Call it, young, dumb, and hopefull. I do not take marriage lightly, and neither does my current love. That is why we have decided that, if we do get married again (whether to each other or someone else), we will be sure it is the last time. As for an update on us. We have fallen head over heels. I'm sure those of you that have the type of relationship can relate. It is amazing. Neither of us ever imagined it possible to have such a complete and absolute, need, or want for someone. The kind of unconditional absolute love that is unyielding. We have decided the family will find out, when they find out. We aren't going to hide our relationship, but we aren't announcing it either. We have also begun planning to move in together. Since she lives in another state, we are looking for a location conveniently spaced between our family where we can be as close as possible to both sides. When all that can be arranged (we are hoping by the end of the year), then we shall progress with our union. The future is looking very bright for us. KC, I understand your feelings. I appreciate and respect your opinion. However, it's always best to know the full story before you insert your foot in your mouth. I'd love to chat with you sometime. (Not argue or fight) I think you would understand why we have chosen the path that we have. We both tried very hard to fight for what we had with our spouses. Unfortunately it seems the feelings we thought were mutual, we're not.
  2. That is horrible! I feel sorry for both of them.......
  3. Well, not to "toot my own horn", but she was all smiles! The family thinks she has a local boyfriend she isn't telling them about. And they also think I have a new girlfriend I'm not telling them about. (She left scratches and hickies all over my neck). They just haven't made the connection. Lol. And dude! How can your neighbors be " bad at sex"? How is that possible? Lol
  4. I guess I'm just not all that shy about it. I don't care who hears me. She was pretty loud too. That might explain why the guy at the front desk kept smiling at us so much, and the lady up there was blushing!
  5. Well.....getting caught up....for sure! But the tv was never turned on, not even for a second!
  6. Lol, well, let's just leave it at.......we got a hotel together away from the family!
  7. Being 37, I probably dont have as much experience as some of you. My musical tastes however, are extremely wide and varied. I love classical, Chopin, Mozart, Handel.....amazing. I also listen to some a lot of people consider strange, bjork, portishead. I love classic rock, hard rock, heavy metal, and punk. I absolutely love anything with a good guitar. The guitar speaks to my soul. Steel guitar, punk guitar, heavy metal or blues. Eric Clapton, is amazing, as well as buddy guy, Stevie ray Vaughn. If it has a good guitar, I love it. Lately I'm addicted to volbeat.
  8. I do play. Never thought about creating a clan. I'm part of one now tho......
  9. So just an update on my situation. My lovely cousin and I had an amazing weekend together. She arrived Thursday night, we spent the night together. We spent Friday together, and Friday night as well. Saturday we went to her grandmothers, (my great aunts), and just hung out with family. And Sunday we spent easter together with the family. She is reluctant to let anyone in on our little secret for now. So we kept everything very "appropriate". However she did express her love for me many times over the weekend. Her daughter, who is 9, has also somehow developed a strong attraction to me. And cried herself to sleep on their drive home, because she didnt want to leave me. All in all, I am madly in love with her, and she appears to be with me as well. We have agreed to keep it our little secret for now. But I'm dying to let it all out. I'll play the game for now. As we have begun to discuss our future together, how long to keep our secret, and when we will ultimately decide to let everyone know. Until then, I have met my soul mate. I have never been happier in my life. You all have been a great inspiration to me. I hope to have more wonderful news for you all soon.
  10. I am very different. I believe in something. Not so much any bible. Let's be honest. For starters, all the bibles were written by man. I Don not judge. Most religious people are awesome, kind hearted people. Some are crazy fanatics. I am becoming more and more interested in the ancient alien theory. (I know, now I'm the weirdo). But even in some of your bibles they speak of "strange occurrences" that have nothing to do with god. Perhaps there is a god out there. And perhaps the ancient alien theory is correct as well. That would explain so much of our strange history. Who knows? All I can say is, "the truth is out there"!
  11. Skype, phone, text, and emails. We are in constant contact, every waking moment.
  12. She currently lives in another state. So at the moment we are planning reasons to see each other, lol. We are going away for the weekend next week just the 2 of us. The anticipation is killing us right now. We text and talk all day and all night. Most of the time with friends and family around us. I'm surprised we haven't got busted yet! Lol
  13. It is absolutely perfect. We talk every day, all day, and all night. We are constantly in touch. We are so much alike it's scary. And we have determined that our feelings are very mutual. We are both happier than either of us have ever been with anyone.
  14. Is it sad that as a 37 y/o military man, in love with my cousin, that this story nearly brought me to tears? I wish you the best of luck. Don't ever give up hope or love!
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