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  1. Candacebarnett24

    Family attacks

    My first cousin and I got married last October. We slowly told our family we were dating and at first we got thrown to the dogs. Now they have came around and have excepted the fact that we are married and happy. However it seems like every time one of us has a disagreement with one of our siblings or aunts or even one of our other cousins. They like to throw in our face that we are cousins and married as if our opinions font matter just because we are cousins and married.... Does anyone else out there have this issue??? Its like we are alone . We haven't shared all of our friends that we are cousins. I guess we just don't want to be thrown away. However we are so in love and both his kids and mine have grown past it and love us. But family causes confusion with the harsh words
  2. Candacebarnett24

    How does your cousin make you feel

    My first cousin and I got married this past October. We are going through the life of your topical newlyweds. However it seems like every time there is a an disagreement . With someone from our family they are fast to throw in our face that fact we are married and cousins. Yet any other time they seem to be supportive. This is so confusing and frustrating. My husband and I both love our family and desire to be close. However lately we have been wanting to pull away. We are Christians and are aware of the division he devil likes to create..... is there any others who are or have experienced this? My.cousin -husband makes me feel that sometimes we may not make it.due.to the issues at hand