So my first cousin and i have been involved with each other for a year now. my aunt recently found out and threatened that i tell my mom by this weekend or she will. I know its going to be blown into a bigger deal than it is. My aunt insists that since we had to hide our relationship it shouldn't be going on. We weren't hiding it, we just weren't telling everyone everything. The only thing we will gain by them knowing is a headache. I don't know what I should do, i feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. Is it wrong that i feel like it really isn't their business? it doesn't affect them at all.