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makemelikeyou

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  1. Update to say... In a stroke of random (yet equally uncool for my son) luck, my son got sick and I used that as a reason to pass on meeting his kids and stbx, since we don't want everyone getting sick. I have returned home for the time being, although he asked me to stay and meet them later in the week. One good thing to come of this is that we were able to see that the attraction was real, so now it's just a waiting game...
  2. Boy, I wish I would've gotten this reply a bit sooner. I'm a very spontaneous person. It's a plus in some ways, a negative in some others. Some of your advice is too late, but I will say that I can see your POV. I know you didn't mean it in any way other than nicely, but I am smart, it's my emotional maturity that is lacking and I can thank the autism for that. I often do before thinking and I've always landed on my feet, but it's definitely not always been pretty. To answer your questions, my child is almost 7. His are 8 and 5. Maybe the answer is obvious, but why shouldn't they know
  3. Thanks Hawk. He called me for the first time today. It was the first time we've ever spoken on the phone (usually FB, texting recently), and psh, I just fell a little harder. I love his voice, and it was like talking to my best friend. I'm in trouble, lol.
  4. None. My child's father isn't in the picture and never has been. I have sole custody, and can move about freely. I haven't shown him this site, no. This is all a recent development and he seems more the type to feel things out on his own, whereas I like to research everything. He thought it was 'adorable' that I looked up the laws. I mostly wanted something where I could talk about it and the way I feel. It's not really something I can discuss with anyone else. but if he ever actually wants to read about it, I will definitely direct him here. I've been checking out a lot of the threads,
  5. Hawk, thanks for your reply. yeah, he does. I have one myself. they are similar in age. as for the divorce, it's been a long time coming. said they talked about it, but he never wanted to be the a*hole who filed first, but he's finally giving up after trying to make it work. basically, it's a mutual decision. As for staying away, I don't know. I don't think that's what he wants, but really all we plan on at this point is being in the same place together at the same time, Lol. Meeting and hanging out, innocently. I know he's nervous so that's really the first step. we are pretty similar
  6. Hi everyone, I don't want to get too specific here, but the general details are, both of us in our early 30s and are first cousins. But we didn't grow up together, I actually don't recall ever meeting him although he says we did at early elementary ages. I live in a state where it's not illegal to have sex/live together but it is illegal to marry (he grew up here also), and now he lives in a state where it's legal to marry, etc. he's getting divorced, i'm not married. when did it begin? gosh, years ago. early 2014, he added me on FB. We would talk on and off, but I never thought anything o
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