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ObsoletePickle last won the day on January 19 2017

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  1. Just curious, Tom, will you have no opportunity to see her before the summer? Do you only see each other once a year? Do you communicate by phone, social media, etc?
  2. ObsoletePickle

    Make Noise

    I wish I had known about resources like this when I was young and single. I'm glad there's a place like this for people to go to and feel safe. Hopefully one day the stigma will be gone.
  3. Friend, you get one shot at life. It is not too late for you. Please do not let your chance pass you by. If you don't act, you will wonder for the rest of your life what might have been. Even if you don't get the answer you hoped for, it's far better to know where you stand than wonder. God be with you.
  4. ObsoletePickle

    In love but doesn't want to be

    As with any other relationship, when someone asks for space, it's probably best to give it to them, not to mention the stigma which may or may not be the source of his grief. Give him the space he's requesting, but you may consider directing him here, especially if he's feels confused and alone because of the uniqueness of the situation. I hope it works out.
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    I wanted to echo the sentiments of the original poster. It's too late for me, and though I've only made one other post here, reading everyone else's stories has been so therapeutic and has helped me to realize that there is nothing wrong with what I grew up feeling for my cousin and best friend, legally or morally. I wish everyone well on their journey. I hope everyone finds the strength to have the difficult conversation(s). May the Lord bless you and keep you.