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  1. Help. Does my cousin have a crush???

    Ed, I understood what you said and meant. I think I can give you some advice. I am a 21 year old and I have and have had a crush on my now 40 year old cousin since I was 15. I don't think you should bring it up to her or her parents first of all; (especially not her parents she would probably hate you!) You give a lot of info but not much useful unfortunately... How does she look at you? How does she behave around you, hugs aside? What does she say to you? Also, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Chances are,if she does has a crush on you, she's not going to act on it and wouldn't want anything to come of it anyway, and it will likely subside. However, if you feel like she is hinting at it or beginning to confess just kind of nicely curve her before she says too much to take back and it gets awkward... Like if she starts to tell you she really likes you, just tell her you really like her to and that she is like your own daughter and you would always feel that way. She will get the message without feeling rejected (I had a teacher tell me something like this before so trust me it's the beat way) Don't make a big deal out of it, or you'll make her feel bad. I hope you read this, and I hope it helps.
  2. Any advice?

    Ok. So I am a 21 year old female and he is 40, and I've always kind of had a crush on him. He works in the military and we hardly get to see him, but last week he stopped by for a visit to see our grandma ( who I live with) and we were all in the living room talking ( me, him, some other guy, my grandmother, and sister) and I was mostly talking to him. I noticed he seemed doe eyed and gave me a lot of attention. He gazed in my eyes for really long amounts of time and sometimes at my lips. And before he left I got his number and he gave me a really long, really tight hug with his arms around my waist, and there was basically no space between us at all. He hugged everyone else more appropriately, and when it was time to leave he kind of lingered and tried to prolong his stay. I noticed lots of other little subtle and not so subtle signs too, and I thought he was really into me. In fact I was worried someone else would notice. But the other day I decided to text him ( just real casual stuff like hi and what are you up to) and in every text he would say little cousin ( what's up little cousin, for example) and would take forever to reply so I stopped texting him. So, I'm confused because it seems like mixed signals to me. I want to know do you think he's interested or not? And why do you think he's acting like this? What should I do? I need advice and I can't ask anyone else please help. Thank you.
  3. Any advice?

    Ok. So I am a 21 year old female and he is 40, and I've always kind of had a crush on him. He works in the military and we hardly get to see him, but last week he stopped by for a visit to see our grandma ( who I live with) and we were all in the living room talking ( me, him, some other guy, my grandmother, and sister) and I was mostly talking to him. I noticed he seemed doe eyed and gave me a lot of attention. He gazed in my eyes for really long amounts of time and sometimes at my lips. And before he left I got his number and he gave me a really long, really tight hug with his arms around my waist, and there was basically no space between us at all. He hugged everyone else more appropriately, and when it was time to leave he kind of lingered and tried to prolong his stay. I noticed lots of other little subtle and not so subtle signs too, and I thought he was really into me. In fact I was worried someone else would notice. But the other day I decided to text him ( just real casual stuff like hi and what are you up to) and in every text he would say little cousin ( what's up little cousin, for example) and would take forever to reply so I stopped texting him. So, I'm confused because it seems like mixed signals to me. I want to know do you think he's interested or not? And why do you think he's acting like this? What should I do? I need advice and I can't ask anyone else please help. Thank you.
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