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    What Would You Do ?

    Thank youuuuu sooooooo much !! In the back of my mind I've always known that he probably is toying with me and that's definitely the case. It's weird because Im an outspoken person but he's the only one that makes me extremely nervous and unsure of myself at times. Thank you both for the advice, I'll let you know how everything goes the next time we meet.
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    What Would You Do ?

    Hiiiiii ! Ok so I need some advice and I can't talk to my family about this so I figured I'll ask you guys and gals. To keep things brief, well sort of, I'm 24 and he's a few years older. We live 7/8 hours away from each other now, ever since last Sept. We've had a "special" relationship since we were children( flirting and basically him treating me like his gf yada yada ). Things became physical around 4/5 years ago? .... I don't say much around him when we're alone because I get waaayyyy too nervous. He always tries to lighten the mood and ask me about what's going on in my life, ya kno, small talk. So , basically this is where I am, I want to let go of him , because he has a child now. It really hurt me finding that out , especially because he didn't tell me AND we were still sleeping together. He isn't with the child's mother anymore but, me being the person I am, I guess I don't want to be in the way of the possibility of him being with her again , I mean they do have a child now for goodness sake. ( and I still haven't seen the baby yet but the rest of our family has) I don't know how to explain the feeling or this type of relationship but, when I know I'm going to see him I get sick, nauseous as ever and my heart POUNDS. And he gets real goofy around me, ya know? smiles a lot and laughs a lot. He's been going out of his way lately to just see me and I'll either lie and say that I'm back home in SC or just won't reply. I'm so torn, I wish I could let him go completely, but something pulls me back. If you have any advice, feel free to share. ❤️ Sorry for this being all out of order, I'm trying to explain myself the best I can .