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  1. kielan

    Cousin Couples from the Philippines let's unite here

    i admire you guys Basta kapit lang po kayo, may liwanag din po sa dulo ng mahabang tunnel na tinatahanak na tinatahak natin All we have to do is pray
  2. Hi pooch Regarding these bills, these are already approved but not really exercised that much in reality. Well, the real intention of Lgbts will be that legal union, i hope we can use that endeavor when that time comes. Nanahimik na nga ang Pilipinas sa usapang ito e. I'm just waiting what will happen if bangsamoro basic law for mindanao will be implemented, i'm pretty much sure muslim code will dominate the lil constitution and i hope we might find some useful loopholes there.
  3. kielan

    Cousin Couples from the Philippines let's unite here

    Dami nyo pala dito ha, babackread muna ako hehehe
  4. This is my opinion pooch. actually they're lucky. Kahit void kase ang marriage, may process pa para mapawalang bisa, w/c is annulment of marriage, dito yung pag investigate kung voidable talaga. Sa annulment, only the parents and the couples have the right to petition. Kaya yung case nila, mas maganda kung tanggap talaga ng parents nila, assuming na 25 years old and above na sila, then there's no more problem. Sa una lang ang tsismis, wag matakot ang mga katulad natin, eventually matatanggap din nila yan. I dont know nga e if i have to use the same method, but i have so many priorities right now, kinasal nga kayo, wala ka pa namang napupundar na bahay para sa inyong dalawa. Yung mga ganon. Ang tinatanong dapat ng couples sa isa't isa, kung love ba talaga nila ang isa't isa or lust lang ba? Kaya ba nila humarap sa pagsubok. Kase sa sitwasyon natin, hindi naman ang pagibig nyo sa isa't isa ang magiging basehan if you love each other e. It's how you fight for it. or how big are you going to sacrifice for it. (sa akin, i resigned my job just to go at there province explained everything and fight for her, at 3-4 times akong pabalik balik para maayos at clear na talaga sa mga magulang niya, ganon din sa magulang ko ofc) last time i went there, her father (my uncle) is actually mad at me, saying na why dont you just give up? Eh wala, we're persistent talaga, at ayon binigay nila ang basbas nila. Kaya sa mga katulad natin, tibay lang ng loob, tapang lang kahit mahirap. Back to the topic, civil union bill ay pinag uusapan na dito sa pinas, although i dont know kung pwede ang civil partnerships between first cousin, pero ine eensure ng bill na lahat ng live ins ay makaka benefit dito. At si senator nancy binay pala ay nag file ng bill para amendyahan ang family code, kaso pending pa. Focus kase ang senado para sa Bangsamoro basic law tapos Federalism na.
  5. It's easier for you guys to reveal your relationship nga e, tho it takes courage, pero pag once na nasimulan na, tuloy tuloy na yan, para bang nag susurf ka, madaming wave na susuungin pero pag nalagpasan nyo na yun, swabe na ang pag lutas sa problema hehehe Kung sa lobbying route ang plan natin, it's better to wait for chacha, para medyo afford pa Ii depends kase kung sinung representative ang lalapitan natin, though protesting will be more than enough na sana, but i doubt na makakahingi tayo ng tulong sa mga kapareho natin ng sitwasyon, kase yung iba nakasal na (illegal means) at yung iba natatakot. pricey talaga siya, mga aabot din ng 2 million ang minimum, tapos pag hingi pa ng support sa house of congress. Kaya eto na ang na iimagine ko minsan... What if we protest then at the same time lobbying a politician behind the scenes. Malaki ang impact neto pag federalism na, pwede na kayo umuwi dito tapos magpakasal na hehehe. Tapos plan tayo ng get together CCC (cousin couples community). Be positive lang tayo, anyo na yun ng faith e. hehehe Sensya na pooch ha, medyo hindi ako nakakapag online lately hehe
  6. Sorry pooch, di ako nakapag online recently I'm with my gf cous ngayon, after 2 weeks uuwi na ulit siya sa kanila. Alam na ng mga magulang namin, nakuha na rin namin ang blessings nila haha. Pangako lang daw namin na aayusin namin, makapag karoon ng legal na kasulatan etc. Kaya pagkatapos ng bakasyon namin ngayon, kayod nanaman sa buhay, hanap nanaman ng paraan hahaha (dito kase sa pinas, money answers anything parin e). Sarap sana pag legal dito sa pinas e. Kumbaga ang proproblemahin mo nalang kung paano mag confess sa lahat. But i think, if ever na mauna ang same sex marriage sa federalism, madali nalang galawin ng estado ang family code, mas mataas na ang participation ng citizens. Syempre military na ang prioritize, kumbaga, whatever wlll be, will be na ang state in terms of other laws, katulad ng sa marriages. When will be that time kaya?
  7. Naisulong na actually, plenary decisions nalang. Haha, i'm not actually sure how it will turn out, but if cha cha is on its way, they should not focus on things like this. Cousin couples have the utmost right to married than them e, kaya dapat ipaglaban kung ipasa nga nila. Pag nag federalismo, the chances are higher na ma entertain ang cousin marriage advocacy. Every state has different family code. I know cousin marriage is just a social issue. If only government would allow us. Kase yun naman yun e, nasa tao na yun kung gusto nila Wow, good for you pare, you can settle yourselves there. I'm planning to work there actually, skilled worker class nalang, para madali ang ayos ng visa, tapos convert to permanent residency visa, then i-sponsor nalang si cousin for visit then marriage na. I'll try to register it to ph consular, maybe makalusot, if ever na hindi, we have to live there permanently. But easier said than done.
  8. Basing on how things were acting here at our country, the bill is actually feasible. Eto na nga ata ang pinaka matinding banat sa family code ng bansa natin e. Hahaha Don't get me wrong my friend, i don't support same sex marriage. Nung narinig ko nga iyon, nagpantig ang tenga ko e. it's just that, something crossed my mind, if they allow this, we can freely rise up and seek acceptance. Frankly speaking, compare same sex to first cousin marriage. The catholic church is against on both (ayon sa canon law nila), the society keeps on qouting the Bible that same sex marriage is a no-no. Kaya nasa magandang timing na tayo, masasabi pa kaya nila na bawal ang magkasintahang mag pinsan? Alam naman natin na sa Bible hindi pinagbabawal. The problem is how, how to make them recognize us? Charter change is actually on the way too, our president is planning to transit the government to federalism type one, syempre kinagalak to ng karamihan, this will be implemented before his term ends, as said by his cabinets. Ang pinagtataka ko lang, why bother changing the law now? (Sa same sex marriage na tayo napunta haha) Anyway, sa status ng bansa ngayon, federalism lang ang solusyon. At bawat estado dito sa pilipinas ay may sariling batas, some may accept cousin marriage, some may not. Pero okay na yon, atleast nasa Pilipinas parin Matanong ko lang, nasa ibang bansa ka ngayon pooch?
  9. Good day pooch! I'm sorry man, we have to use english pala, if we cant seek help to fellow filipinos, other cc friends might help us If only we have someone who has connections with a congressman. Though first thing to do is to have solid group, and let the government recognize us. Here's what i'm thinking for now Act as Lobbyist, so that we can influence politicians *Pricey* Protest once same sex marriage bill became a law i don't have any against LGBT's, but giving right for them to marry same sex, is something we can't just swallow. It's not that we're jealous, it's because we believe that we have the utmost right to get married in reference to Law of God and how other countries accept first cousin marriage. WE WANT CIVIL UNION Pres. Duterte said he doesn't want oppression, or he can change the law whatever the predilection on human being in regards of marriage. Now if they keep insisting that same sex marriage is for marriage equality. then what is equality if they left out people like us? Sure, it's because of genetic issues or inbreeding, tho it's too much exaggerated, there are facts on the internet, scientists have already proven that it's only low risk. Speaking in reality, the gov't will accept civil union between first cousins if only one or both of the couples are sterile. Although they can be advise to undergo genetic counselling and proceed to marriage. Stay positive, it's GOD's APPOINTED TIME for us. We need bright minds to share their ideas, little conversation creates miracle!
  10. GOOD DAY EVERYONE! Kamusta po kayong lahat? Some of us couples became successful, and some are still waiting. As you can see on the news right now, our President Duterte said he accept same sex marriage, now he insists marriage equality here at Ph. Wala akong comment about LGBTs, pero there might be a chance na eto na ang upbringing naten. Some of us may mga anak na, syempre lahat naman sa atin gusto magkaroon ng legal basis sa pamumuhay, how about we voice out our concerns? Makita nila na marami tayo? How come that they can accept same-sex marriage while cousin marriage is not? Family code is about to change, the law is about to change. Kailangan nating kumilos, para makita nila ang hinaing natin. Im sure, sa buong pilipinas maraming kaperaho natin, humihingi din ng tulong, natatakot lamang. Actually i have to migrate sa ibang bansa para lang maayos na pamumuhay namin. Pero alam ko this year God will do something. may hinanda na siya, kaya inaanyayahan ko ngayon mga ka cc makapag usap tayo ng mga ideas natin sa thread na ito. We need corporate prayers to make this happen!
  11. kielan

    Cousin Couples from the Philippines let's unite here

    Hi Jon! You should be proud of your parents, they managed to overcome those hellish trials one could have. Payo ko lang, so what kung malaman niya? Ang tunay na pagmamahalan ay pag iintindi sa bawat isa. Now.. Can I ask how did your parents married here at Ph? Pwede ba naming malaman para magkaroon din kame ng motivation?
  12. kielan

    Cousin Couples from the Philippines let's unite here

    I dont even care kung may mapalitan sa documents, or kahit anong sabihin nila, i just need na maregister yung contract sa PSA
  13. kielan

    Need advice...

    HI! Can I know the process of getting married even if its not legal. Everything will work fine i guess. So can you shower me some information regarding this. Im begging you
  14. kielan

    Cousin Couples from the Philippines let's unite here

    HI! Newbie here! Pwedeng magtanong? Paano makasal dito sa pilipinas kahit prohibited? Kahit illegal na basta may kasulatan na kaming kasal kami? we're both 23 years old.
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