frank b

It’s not boredom or necessarily a desire to rekindle any relationship, I’m not trying to. But should we act as is it never happened? Am I entitled to a discussion about it? I was young and I feel it has affected me somwhat in life. Not necessarily in a bad way that’s ever held me back, but it’s been a part of me. She’s the only person I could have that discussion with. So I hope my intentions are clearer. Does that change anyone’s input?

There wasn’t a rejection back then, it just wasn’t practical. The feelings were too great. We are older and in different stages of our lives. I appreciate your candor.

Thanks for the reply. We’re both married, she’s got grown kids, I have none.

About 20 years ago my cousin seduced me. We were at a party at her house and she came in the middle of the night and blew me. That started a year long relationship that ended badly when too many feelings took over. She was in her mid 30s, I was in my early 20s. i recently reached out to her to chat about. She wasn’t receptive at first, but she’s softening up. Has anyone revisited something like this, in the same manner?