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    Gay love cousin

    Thanks for your input KC. You love your cousin, but did he ever say to you that you could be in couple if you were a girl, also that he questioned his sexuality multiple times (So he is probably not exclusively hetero), that feels good sleeping beside you in each others' arms? That is all abundantly clear that it doesn't represent the typical man-man friendship in my opinion. I'm not trying to convert him, our relationship is all natural, I never forced anything we just feel good together. And talking about advances, it's not coming from me exclusively. He told me more than enough how good he feels with me, he invited me to sleep with him. I've put my arm around him, but he caressed me. The next morning he was the first telling me "Damn I slept so well!" You see it's really not as one sided as you seem to think it is. Another thing. The reason why you may frustrate your gay readers, is that you see being gay as a "life style" which is not. Unless you qualify life in couple as the same "life style", because not all gay people live the same kind of lifestyle, so from here it's pretty hard to define what is a gay "life style", isn't it? I mean, I'm gay, but I usually go to bed early, don't do drugs, drink a bit of alcohol only the weekends, I'm in my 30's and I only had 2 relationships, I don't go out in bars at night, I'm a country guy, I love nature, fishing, quad, boat, camping... So is it a gay "lifestyle"? Nope. It's just my life and it represents my interests. So if I'd be in couple with a guy, and I keep this life style, would I be living a gay lifestyle, or a couple lifestyle? What about a hetero couple living an "open relationship", going out in bars every night, drinking alcohol, doing drugs, having sex with 2 partners/week, do you call it a hetero couple having a gay lifestyle? I'm just curious about your definition of gay lifestyle since it doesn't make any sense to me. (I'm not angry, I'm just exposing to you the way I see it
  2. Hey! So here is my situation. I'm a boy, and I love my cousin (Boy). I loved him for as long as I can remember. He knows that I'm gay, and it doesn't bother him. We have had a very close relationship since we are kids. The furthest I remember, every family parties, we were hanging together, anticipating with enjoyment to see each other. It was every time like a priceless moment we were awaiting with impatience on both sides. Now I'm in my 30's, he's 3 years younger than me, and I still love him. I live nearby now and we still have a beautiful friendship. I can get to his place anytime and every time he's happy to see me, and so do I. He says he is hetero, he had a couple of girlfriends in the past, never for longer than 4-5 months though. And I already asked him if he ever questioned his sexual orientation. He said "yes, multiple times". He also told me multiple times that he likes me, that he feels great when I'm with him, that we share beautiful memories, that we are like minded, etc I told him about the same too, he also once told me that if I was a girl we could form a couple... I liked this idea, I wish i told him then that I didn't have to be a girl for that to happen, but well, that happened before he learned that I'm gay and I wasn't as confident at this time. Recently I slept over at his place. We drank quite a bit so I stayed for the night, and I slept with him in his bed, I've put my arm around his body, asking him "does it bother you if I stay like this?" he said "No." Than he placed his arm round me too... I faked that I fell asleep after 10 minutes, like start deep breathing and faking small spasms in my arm. That's when he began caressing my back slowly with his hand in response to me falling asleep. It felt sooooo good! So we finally slept like this in each others' arms for the night. I think we have a very special relation, I think he loves me more than what he wants to show me, and I think I love him more than what he thinks... Well so I'm not sure if I'm seeking advice or just want to tell my story because I need to express myself about it and have nowhere else to do so, but if you have any example of "How to tell your cousin you love him more than he thinks you love him" you're welcome! :)
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