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I love my cousin, What should I do?


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  • 1 month later...

@somayloves-

im facing same for this i cant live without her or she also i ll die im hindu rajaput

somay we can help each other i'm an hindu kshatriya in the same situation plz mail me my if is () plz mail me i'm sure we can help each other since we belong to the same community plz i'll be waiting i'm positive that we can help each other plz mail me time is running out on me and i'm dying every minute

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@simple-

hi.............i m also facing the same problem.........we love each other very much but he says that he can't marry against his parents.once he tried 2 tell his mother about our relation but she did not agreed and now she is looking for a bride for his marriage.i can't live without him.m really helpless dont know wat 2 do....

Simple i'm also stuck in the same situation we could help each other my family situation is the same my cousin and i lov each other for the past 6years but now he says he cant marry me due to his family plz lets help each other coz i'm dying every moment plz my id is () plz mail me i'm desperatly waiting plz reply soon   

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Guest helpme

hi

i m living in delhi. i fell in love wid my cousin. she also loves me. initially i thought it's just attraction. but later we found we were in love. the problem is we are from kayastha hindu family n we cant live together. she lives in bihar. i m so deeply involved that even thinking of her marriage hurts me. i m 24 n she z 20. we used to meet wen i come home n go to her place. we also talj on phone.but till now no 1 has suspected. but i always think of her. i cant concentrate on other things. is there any couple from kayastha family so that we can help each other in future by settling together. plz mail me ()

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@helpme

hi i'm divya and i'm 21. I emailed you before but i guess you didn't check..i'm also a kayastha living in delhi and i love my cousin immensly but we cant get married coz our families wont agree. And i cant think of him being married to anyone else neither can i imagine myself settling down with anyone else, the thought is enough to kill me. Plz if you think we can help each other then mail me my id is () plz lets help each other

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dans,

It depends on how old you are. If you are 12, we will advise you one way, if you are 30, the advice will be much different. Join up, and go to "Help/Advice" and post your A/S/L (age/sex/location) and a brief history to see if we are able to help you.

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Guest John Kumar

Mother's Brother's daughter is your niece.(biologically You can marry her. it is allowed in INDIA LAW). My brother in law (my wife's brother) is married to his mother's brother's daughter in Tamilnadu,INDIA.It is OK to marry her.

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hi

i have the same problem too. i fell in love with my cousin but he 5 years older than me. he my mom's brother's son. :( but i never told any body because they will let me fell embarrassed :embarrassed: i'm 13 and he's 18 we are both in the U.S.

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megy,

you are 13 and he is 18 and in the US and this spells trouble for him if you two

should have a relationship other than friendship!! He is considered and ADULT and

you are still considered a CHILD by law.  You don't want to see him be labeled a child

molester, spend time in jail/prison and have to register as a sex offender for the rest

of his life.  As Hawk would tell you, get into the books, get an education, keep this on

way down low on the back burner until you are older, like 18.

I am sorry to tell you that your situation is disaster in the making if you take it any further.

Please do the right thing and wait until you are older.

Best wishes.

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Guest rajat

hi rahul i read your problem and i wanna tell you that you are not the only one who is facing the same prpoblem i am aiso one. i think you should talk to your parents first. i know very well they will never be agree. but i think our parents just wanna see us happy nd when will tell them that you both can not live without each other.. i am damm sure they will be agry one day

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Hi guys...

I am facing the same problem.I love my first cousin,she also loves me (From last 8 Years). I am from Hindu family.

I conveyed my parents, but few days before because of some stupid doctor forum in local news paper my parents opposing me for dis marriage.Firstly they are ready for dis marriage & they are ready to come along with me to convey her family. But now they are not. And now it's IMPOSSIBLE that we live without each other. so if any one have any information any suggestion about dis plz plz plz plz mail me....  :cry: :cry:

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m into same situation,we belong to hindu religion, can u plss tellme wat to do... :( i can't live without him...plss tell me any way...

is dis possible if we adopt muslim religion and get married...is dat still illegal to do dat...???

plss sugguest me wat to do..?/

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Guest mohit

what?? You want to convert to muslim and then get married?? You will probably complicate things more. I'm also a hindu and thinking of what I should do if I were to get committed to her but converting to other religion to do so is not one option I will want to take

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