First cousin

[Guest #$%&]

I have a lot of feelings for my cousin, and the feeling is very mutual. We have decided to take things slow, and keep this secret from everyone. We have not had sex, but we would like to go about our relationship as we wish. Any advice? Should we tell the family? Should we leave things where they are, and walk away? 

[LadyC 199]

could you give us a little more information? particularly your ages... it's hard to give the right advice without knowing a little more about the situation.