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in love with my second cousin

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I have been sneaking around with my second cousin for almost a year and a half now, but its started taking its toll as we have both expressed our love for one another and cant take it any further. it has been extremely exhausting for us not being able to tell anyone because we are ashamed and hiding our relationship for so long. we have decided to end things because he cant deal with the shame and judgement if we were to come out and tell our families. i am truly heartbroken because we love each other so much but cant be together.

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LadyC    98

how old are ya'll? and why are you ashamed? second cousins are legal to marry ANYWHERE. there are no legal, moral or medical reasons not to marry. if you're truly in love with each other, then stand up for yourselves, be adults, and make it work. quit letting fear run your lives.

but if you're actually ashamed of your love, then maybe you aren't ready to be happy anyway.

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On 6/13/2016 at 8:20 AM, LadyC said:

how old are ya'll? and why are you ashamed? second cousins are legal to marry ANYWHERE. there are no legal, moral or medical reasons not to marry. if you're truly in love with each other, then stand up for yourselves, be adults, and make it work. quit letting fear run your lives.

but if you're actually ashamed of your love, then maybe you aren't ready to be happy anyway.

Well... I'm not the one who started this topic... But have a good point... But it's so hard to convince someone else to jump with you....

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