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First cousin marriage legal or illegal in India?


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23 hours ago, amudhan said:

hi ramesh iam also from tamilnadu i too have the same problem i am in love with my fathers brothers daughter .In our state people allow the cross cousin marriages though it is illegal but they will say it's incest when we fell in love with parallel cousin. I hate this system.I dont care about law and society no one can stop my love.

 

Yes ..it's absolutely true...if one love his mother brother 's daughter then it's ok for the society. But if one love his mother sister's daughter then it's sin. What a chilly logic.  The rules are framed by us only. A 100 years ago.. nothing there.. very worst system. 

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On 5/13/2010 at 10:12 PM, Guest raj said:
On 4/21/2010 at 2:25 AM, Seema2010 said:

I am a girl, who wants to marry with my mother's  sister's son in India. Pleas advice me if its legal in North India (Punjab).

Thanks

Neha

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..................hi neha i also have same problem can u tell me the solution of it...she is my mother's sister's daughter......plzzz help me out....waiting for ur reply.....am from north india....(.rajasthan)

Iam from South India.Please help me too...if you get any details.

 

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Im in deep serious love with my first sister(my father's sister's daughter) so deep that i can't resist it anymore.I just visited her at her town and im back, we had some really really close moments where she too was willingly accepting that thing and said she enjoyed when i hugged her till there was no air between us and i she was also cool when i kept my hand inside her t-shirt.. The only problem is that i don't know how she feels about me and i don't know why she ignored me for 2 days after that we were normal.She has also mentioned quite a few times that she is a bad expresser.What do you guys think she feels and what should i do next?

 

Ps.ive never had this strong of a feeling that has made me so desperate about her... I could spend the whole night looking at her♥️

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On 6/23/2019 at 3:42 PM, Harshoro said:

Im in deep serious love with my first sister(my father's sister's daughter) so deep that i can't resist it anymore.I just visited her at her town and im back, we had some really really close moments where she too was willingly accepting that thing and said she enjoyed when i hugged her till there was no air between us and i she was also cool when i kept my hand inside her t-shirt.. The only problem is that i don't know how she feels about me and i don't know why she ignored me for 2 days after that we were normal.She has also mentioned quite a few times that she is a bad expresser.What do you guys think she feels and what should i do next?

 

Ps.ive never had this strong of a feeling that has made me so desperate about her... I could spend the whole night looking at her♥️

Xx

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Welcome to CC.com, I am in the USA so I don't know the laws of India, but I do know some people in Mumbai India that are married and are cousins. I would tell you to contact a lawyer or someone that deals with legal issue where you are at and ask them.

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So well reading from the beginning i.e 2009 I am happy that i am not alone.

Exception is that my love is not my first cousin but I am love with my second cousin  that is .... Her grandfather and my grandfather are brothers.....Hope you all can relate...

We have our secret relationship from 2.5 years.....but there is very less communication between us because she doesn't have any personal mobile given because her parents doubts on her that she might have a boyfriend. But also we always trust each other. Ofcourse its a true love .

We first met at a wedding of our relation and the sad thing is that after that meet ... We haven't met or seen each other on video call since first meet i.e 2.5 years before ?.

We hardly talk once or twice in a month because of her security problems. 

Because of fear of our relationship she doesn't call me frequently. And she is also afraid of this relationship . But we love each other very truly . Can't see other with anyone else. 

So please anyone suggest what should we do . We have 3 years time before her marriage.

And we are second cousins ....plzzzzzzz anyone

 

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On 2/7/2018 at 5:30 PM, Arjun said:

Hi Swathi,

We are sharing the same story! I and my cousin from Mumbai is in deeply love with each other but due to society we couldn't get married. We can marry each other's love and all 4 can stay together somewhere for whole life! How many years old are you and your cousin is? 

 

On 2/7/2018 at 5:30 PM, Arjun said:

Hi Swathi,

We are sharing the same story! I and my cousin from Mumbai is in deeply love with each other but due to society we couldn't get married. We can marry each other's love and all 4 can stay together somewhere for whole life! How many years old are you and your cousin is? 

Hi Arjun,

Please connect back, I'm having the same issue. Please share your contact details. 

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On 8/11/2019 at 4:57 AM, Danisha said:

Hello,

I am from north India and am in love with my mom's uncle's son. We are first cousin once removed. Is it legal for us to get married in India? please help me out.

 

Thanks,

Danisha

Hi Danisha,

Please connect so we can help each other with the similar situation. 

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Hi all,

Require help as me and my cousin are in love since 8 years now and our families are completely against us. Require help from others with a similar situation so we can figure this out. Please reach out to me on my Mail ID. 

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It became a major issue for many people including me.Its hard to live without our beloved one.Cross cousins can be married in india not parallel cousins. Cousin marriage is valid in muslim and Christian not in Hindu.What a fate!! I can't live without marrying my first cousin..It's a problem to many people..pls frnds it's not late pls unite to a good decisions

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It became a major issue for many people including me.Its hard to live without our beloved one.Cross cousins can be married in india not parallel cousins. Cousin marriage is valid in muslim and Christian not in Hindu.What a fate!! I can't live without marrying my first cousin..It's a problem to many people..pls frnds it's not late pls unite to take good decisions

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looking for some help. Almost three months ago I met a Russian girl on Facebook. We have hours of conversation every day. some days ago I have proposed her. But she refused my proposal and told me that she is in a relationship with her cousin. But I really fall in love with her. I feels she started loving me too, But she is not expressing. some times she says bad things about her cousin. I am confused about her behavior. I don't know cousin marriage is leagal or illegal in Russia. As I was searching the internet about Russian women's nature and interests. I found an article  https://seeya.com/russian-women/ which is truly about Russian ladies. What you think guys, the author's views about Russian girls are based on fact? Is there anyone who has been in a relationship with a Russian girl or can tell me about the nature and interest Russian girls?Your advice would be greatly appreciated.

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looking for some help. Almost three months ago I met a Russian girl on Facebook. We have hours of conversation every day. some days ago I have proposed her. But she refused my proposal and told me that she is in a relationship with her cousin. But I really fall in love with her. I feels she started loving me too, But she is not expressing. some times she says bad things about her cousin. I am confused about her behavior. I don't know cousin marriage is leagal or illegal in Russia. As I was searching the internet about Russian women's nature and interests. I found an article  which is truly about Russian ladies. What you think guys, the author's views about Russian girls are based on fact? Is there anyone who has been in a relationship with a Russian girl or can tell me about the nature and interest Russian girls?Your advice would be greatly appreciated.

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You have an interesting story. If She was already in a relationship with her cousin then why you proposed her? If she didn't tell you before then you should leave her. And if she told you before and you still propose to her, then it's your fault. Russian girls are not really loyal. and if you want to study about Russian girls here is an article https://online4.love/russian-women/ that will help you more. by the way cousin marriage is legal there.

On 2/13/2020 at 10:18 AM, roger78 said:

looking for some help. Almost three months ago I met a Russian girl on Facebook. We have hours of conversation every day. some days ago I have proposed her. But she refused my proposal and told me that she is in a relationship with her cousin. But I really fall in love with her. I feels she started loving me too, But she is not expressing. some times she says bad things about her cousin. I am confused about her behavior. I don't know cousin marriage is leagal or illegal in Russia. As I was searching the internet about Russian women's nature and interests. I found an article  which is truly about Russian ladies. What you think guys, the author's views about Russian girls are based on fact? Is there anyone who has been in a relationship with a Russian girl or can tell me about the nature and interest Russian girls?Your advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Hi everybody,There are post from 2009, 2010.

Now it is 2020. Those who are from india & Bangladesh have you succeded to marry your  desired ones & how??  I m from Bangladesh & me & my first cousin are in love for 7 years. Now we are facing difficulties from our families & society.        

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On 12/26/2009 at 1:29 AM, Guest VIKAS DAS said:

hello there

i am facing same problem, i also love my first cousin [ my father's brother's daughter ] , please help me if you found any conclusion.

vikas

Hi what is your status now??

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I and my second cousin once removed are deeply in love. My family found out and they were horrified saying that she is my father's cousin sister, so my aunt. There is nothing more shameful and they are making me feel very bad and suicidal.

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