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Hi Everyone,

 So my question is with regards to second cousins having children. I was wondering if there is an optimal age to be in, in which the possibility of risk is minimal. I had my first child with my husband (second cousin) when I was 24 years old and she is healthy and growing beautifully . We would like to have another child. I'm currently 28, and I was just wondering if there is less risk or cause for concern in having another baby now as opposed to when I'm in my early to mid thirties?

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LadyC    94

i believe the risk of down syndrome increase after the age of 35, and become even more risky after 40.

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Serendipity    68

Ah, honey, have the babies when you're in your 20's!  I have a lot of friends who are my age (47) and have children who are in elementary and middle school and all I can think is how nice it is that my kids are in college and I don't have to do all of that driving around and monitoring them all the time.  I loved having my kids at home and being Mom, but I sure do enjoy this stage of my life.  I.m not sure I'd have the energy to do all that now!!

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LadyC    94

my mom was in her late 30s when she had me. i always felt like a freak growing up because my mom was closer in age to my friends' grandparents. and now that i'm a grandmother, i'm SO glad i had my kids in my 20s so that i'm still young enough to enjoy the grandkids!

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Serendipity    68

Me too, LadyC!  My mom was 37 when I was born and I have a sister born 2 years after me.  I remember in high school thinking how much older my mom was compared to my friends' moms.  I also have a sister who is 18 years older than me!  

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LadyC    94

i have a brother who is 13 years older. i kinda idolized him when i was a kid. my youngest daughter got pregnant in high school, so i became a grandma early. i have four grandsons and a granddaughter.... ranging in age from 2 to 10.

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