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What would you normally do to overcome attraction?

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Just when I thought it was over, out of nowhere he started appearing in my dreams again, all I know is that it is not possible in this life so none of us is going to disown our families. Its true the way I feel for him or the kind of strong attraction I have for him I have not experienced that with anyone else, but to be honest I am not going to hurt him nor my family. 

I am convinced that it has a lot do with hormones and I read it somewhere that taking birth control pills might help to control my feelings (it sounds so stupid, but if it works then why not!). I never took birth control pills, so I don't know how it will effect my mood and also considering I have other serious health issues I will have to consult with my doctor before I go on birth control pills. 

On the other hand, talking to my parents does help me to get over these feelings. I wish to have a great job ASAP so that I can divert my attention and keep myself busy at work! Also, finding another guy is completely out of question because I am in love with my single life, at this point relationship is not on the horizon.

Please share any other ways of getting over this phase.  

 

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Its not just a phase, much more than what I had thought previously. My only wish is to talk to him directly, I wonder if he knows about this site and reads my posts. Since, I cannot text him or message him any other way I hope that we can talk here so that I can disclose my feelings, its hard to keep them to myself. I was holding back for so many years and now I feel like I should tell him, before its too late. It would be nice if he messages me first, it feels good :). 

 

 

 

 

 

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your cousin may not know about website. An if he does how is he gonna know if it is you he talking to, if or when you got a reply. I think you should talk to him by any means that you have available to you.

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Thanks for your input, but he is married now and his wife is pregnant so how can I ruin someone's family? 

I am happy that it is over, also there is no point of thinking about someone who never helped you or stood up you. I wish him good luck and hope he stays with her forever :)

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