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What are ways to tell if my cousin has a crush on me?

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I have been wondering recently if my cousin has a crush on me, What signs should I look for to point out if she has a crush on me or not? The reason for me asking is because it seems like shes becoming more close to me constantly as every day flies by something else comes up that starts to continue to make me wonder if she secretly has a crush on me. I mean, she has a boyfriend and what not but today she asked me "What if me and my boyfriend split up? Because everything tends to go wrong around this time of the year", because her ex split up with her last year on christmas day etc. And i told her that maybe this boyfriend she has right now will be different and not do that to you this time and she sighed and said "yeah i hope so but me and seth have been getting into arguements again lately and we havent been able to spend much time together since i have to work constantly". But she did tell me 3 months ago that when we first met when we were both 13 that she had a crush on me and she kept telling to herself no no no cant ask him out and what not when she founf out we were cousins but she liked me alot, but when me and her are together she was looking out her blinds of her window at her dog outside in its kennel because it was eating rocks and she told me to come look at how bad of a dog she is because she digs up the yard all the time and tries to bite her constantly and doesnt listen to her so i tried to peak outside from the opening in the blinds but i couldnt see because she was still in the way looking and there isnt much room there and where the window is there is just enough space for 2 people pushed together tightly up against each other because of a table and a counter on boths sides of us with a gap so as i went to look i had my groin pushed against her butt as i was looking and said she has been being bad lately and she didnt seem to care that i was pushing myself up against her butt, and we were skateboarding one time and she fell twice and we got back to her place and decided to check herself out in the bathroom and she comes out and asks me if i want to see this big arse bruise she got from skateboarding but i found it a little off of why she was asking me if i wanted to see her bruise and she slipped down her pants horizontally showing her whole left thigh of her leg of where the big bruise was while also showing her panties in the front revealong most of her vaginal area as she didnt even bother to cover herself up, she always tries and helps me out when ever she is able to afford to help me out. She was wearing a housecoat two times. Once she had no shirt on while walking around and it came undone and she let it reveal her breasts some what and she covered with her hands after that and then as she went to tie up her house coat as she was talking to me she revealed to me once more as she tied up her house coat and the second time was when i just got to her place and she hopped out of the shower exactly when i got there and she dried off quickly and threw on a house coat with nothing on underneath same as the last one letting her reveal most of her upper body and im starting to think that she has the hots for me, am I right? If she does seem like she has a crush on me still what should i do? She is nice looking and what not and if she was to have a crush on me id maybe secretly take that opportunity and if she doesnt then so be it and i wont even bother about it if thats the case lol.

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For starters please go back and edit your post with more punctuation and paragraphs. Us old folks here have a really

hard time reading. Second of all you can leave off the graphic details, we can get the drift without them.

 

You may get more and useful advice if you will do the above. I was unable to do more than scan this..

thanks

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Ozzy,

How old is she by the way?

Personally (and I am just speaking on behalf of myself..), I don't like the fact that she already has a boyfriend and she is kinda flirting with you. When she said, "What if me and my boyfriend split up? Because everything tends to go wrong around this time of the year", because her ex split up with her last year on christmas day etc. And i told her that maybe this boyfriend she has right now will be different and not do that to you this time and she sighed and said "yeah i hope so but me and seth have been getting into arguements again lately and we havent been able to spend much time together since i have to work constantly".

I'm like "Well, sort that boyfriend thing girl before doing anything with me", know what I mean? She has a boyfriend. I bolded it so you would know what I'm trying to say. Now the thing is that I think that it is YOU who is having a crush to her. Hence, my advice is that sort your feelings first bro and ask yourself what is it really insofar as you are concerned. Like, do you want her to be your wife someday? Maybe that's too much. How about a fiancée? How about a girlfriend? How about just a friend? How about a cousin? Ask the Lord God almighty for directions as to what really should be the case, and ask yourself whether you love your cousin or you are just you know....feeling attractive to her because of her being comfortable with you.

Dude, believe me, don't rush into these things... especially the fact that she has a boyfriend. I mean, if she did not have a boyfriend, actually that is already kinda difficult for me -- like I really would want to know whether I would be bold and be a man and just go for it and take action and sweep her off her feet and just kiss her. Know what I mean? But then she has a boyfriend...which is a no no.. I respect her relationship and ask her to sort that thing out first. Now if they break up, don't immediately "be there" and offer your shoulder to cry on or whatnot.. You got your own stuff dude. Studies, career, dreams, friends and relationships, your own siblings, your mom, tons of things! Lots of things to be responsible for...Let her figure out life too.

And then if you guys are really in this together, then see what happens... but that is after "she is cleared".. know what I mean? And not being like, "Uhh.. since seth and I are fighting and are about to break up, will you catch me and be my emotional handkerchief?" Duuuuudddeee.... Don't be that guy. Seriously.. :P

But then I understand. You like her. She is cute. She is comfortable with you. Perhaps even sexual. She can show you her panties and thighs and the bras, probably ask for a back massage or what.. Then on your end, you are probably like, "Dang girl!" lol. But that's because she trusts you. Don't ruin it. Respect her.. Why did I say that? Because for the fourth time in my post, she has a boyfriend. We gotta respect that boundary bro. :)

 

Hope it helps,

Pooch

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