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How do i get my cousin to have sex with me?

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So in the year 2016 during the summer. I went to mexico and i would sleep over at my aunts house. So i would sleep in my cousins room, in a seprate bed, (my cousin was 15 i was 14) and everyday i would be in the living room sitting down, and my cousin would clean while her dad was at work and her mom was off doing other stuff. So when she would clean she would start in the morning or when i was there in the living room, and she would wear pajamas and i could see her booty move back and forth? and it would be the best thing ever. She would also do it on purpose for me to look, before i left i wanted to ask her if she wanted to have sex, but i never had the balls to say it becasue alot of stuff ran through my head like "what if she says no? She's probably gonan tell everyone?" I actually wish i asked her now. But i just wanted to know if i should ask her for sex next time i go to mexico!? before i left i gave her 200 pesos (mexican currency) because i wouldnt need it, and she liked me because everytime i arrived at the airport she would hug me. (I know it sounds like a something a cousin would do but it was also more than that, because everytime i would be over at her house laying down or walking around she would stare at my penis, while talking to me) (and no she does not have staring problems) so next time i go should i ask her if she wants to have sex?! [Just need and honest opinion on what i should do]

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do you really want honest opinions? because most people really don't. but here it is, i'll give it to you straight. you should  slow way, way down. you're 16 years old (or close to it) for crying out loud! all those raging hormones that you're feeling are going to drive you (or her) straight to heartbreak ridge. it's virtually impossible at your ages to have a sexual relationship without it getting all tangled up in a web of emotion. sex isn't a sport, and having sex with a cousin is nothing you should take lightly.  don't you think she deserves better than to be your playmate? 

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1 hour ago, Ku12344 said:

So in the year 2016 during the summer. I went to mexico and i would sleep over at my aunts house. So i would sleep in my cousins room, in a seprate bed, (my cousin was 15 i was 14) and everyday i would be in the living room sitting down, and my cousin would clean while her dad was at work and her mom was off doing other stuff. So when she would clean she would start in the morning or when i was there in the living room, and she would wear pajamas and i could see her booty move back and forth? and it would be the best thing ever. She would also do it on purpose for me to look, before i left i wanted to ask her if she wanted to have sex, but i never had the balls to say it becasue alot of stuff ran through my head like "what if she says no? She's probably gonan tell everyone?" I actually wish i asked her now. But i just wanted to know if i should ask her for sex next time i go to mexico!? before i left i gave her 200 pesos (mexican currency) because i wouldnt need it, and she liked me because everytime i arrived at the airport she would hug me. (I know it sounds like a something a cousin would do but it was also more than that, because everytime i would be over at her house laying down or walking around she would stare at my penis, while talking to me) (and no she does not have staring problems) so next time i go should i ask her if she wants to have sex?! [Just need and honest opinion on what i should do]

Dude, You have to slow way down. You have to listen to LadyC.

But then you know what though? Not to burst your bubble or anything, okay, but I am quite positive that she already has a boyfriend. You said that she cleans? A girl cleaning is almost 99% chance that she already like someone... if not she already has a boyfriend. So if I were you I really would put my brakes on this thing and snap out of it...

And besides 200 pesos!? Come on man... You must finish high school first and then finish college. Afterwards, check again if she has broken off already with her boyfriend...

U feel me, bro? 

Pooch

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1 hour ago, pooch said:

Dude, You have to slow way down. You have to listen to LadyC.

But then you know what though? Not to burst your bubble or anything, okay, but I am quite positive that she already has a boyfriend. You said that she cleans? A girl cleaning is almost 99% chance that she already like someone... if not she already has a boyfriend. So if I were you I really would put my brakes on this thing and snap out of it...

And besides 200 pesos!? Come on man... You must finish high school first and then finish college. Afterwards, check again if she has broken off already with her boyfriend...

U feel me, bro? 

Pooch

Im just saying that i gave her the 200 cuz i was going to go back to California, but i feel u bro, ur right. I was just wondering what other people consider me doing. But thx?

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9 hours ago, Ku12344 said:

Im just saying that i gave her the 200 cuz i was going to go back to California, but i feel u bro, ur right. I was just wondering what other people consider me doing. But thx?

No problem man.. you know what to do. *peace*

Pooch

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LadyC was so much more calm than I was when I first read this.  I'll have to give her major kudos for having much wisdom to see this through the right eyes.

Okay, Ku, here goes:  She's right.  Sex is not a sport and if you treat it like one, you'll eventually have major regrets... and the ladies who play it with you will have even bigger regrets that none of you can see right now.  Now, that aside, let's just suppose that my moral judgment on the matter didn't actually exist or have any basis in reality.  Even so, as LadyC point out, sex with your cousin, whether for casual fun or as part of a serious relationship should be entered into with a lot more consideration than anyone else. 

A girlfriend, "hookup", fling, or whatever can be here today, gone tomorrow, and if you can both pretend there is nothing left over afterward (and if no children come to remind you) - well, that's all well and good and you can just pretend you never met.  Not so with a cousin.  She'll be part of your life until one of you is dead (and then some).  There's just no way around that.  Ten years later, you're both married and have kids and it's time for the larger family to get together for a holiday, funeral, or wedding.  Guess what?  You're both going to be there (or avoiding it because the other might be there) and you'll have to look each other in the eyes and know.  Your future wife will know or may find out.  Awkward.  Trust?  Nope.  She won't have you spending a minute alone together and with good reason.  Just. Don't.

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Guy that posted originally try to abstain from doing that shes your cousin and no matter how you feel keep it in your head nothing is wrong with fantasys but dont...also if she feels the same way you do just start by playing with her(tickling,blowing kisses on her stomach etc)(flex your muscles let her touch and if she touch touch her back if shes down ittl progress very quickly don't ask just do it but i would highly advise against having sex with cousin...let me give you example I would play with my cousin phycologically(the stomach kissing)and at one point her and my other little cousin at the table asked me"can we lose our virginity to you""now there was a coupla reasons why I was like no.#1 being they were young and naive and were both 13 or so at the time I,was like 18 and i dont kissy-face children so that was big no no reason..#2 her mother was my aunt so first cousins another no no...mind you we would sleep in the same bed when i stayed there with them but never did i feel the urge...but what I told them was no y'all are gonnna be in high school soon and sex wont be a problem i said but i also said when y'all get older that may change which it has I fantasize about having sex with her(first cousin) and my other cousin(other cousin was not blood) .when im around now I masturbate to fight the urges because theyve devoloped into young women which i knew back then would happen..also she acts a whore all the time spandex and doing as your cousin does to,you..also i havw more to,tell but this a brief comment...gl

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I’m not sure what country you’re in, Guy45, but I’m gonna guess it’s not in North America or Europe. At least I hope it’s not. In my opinion and world view, those things you advised show disrespect for women. I married my first cousin and think the world of her. I did not marry her sister, obviously, but if any man did to her the things you’ve described here, I would think very little of whatever is left of him after she beat that nonsense out of him.

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Colorado guy  lol usa mann..what i advised him to do was to not kissy-face his blood cousin..also if she feels the same way he does then it wont be a matter of asking but a matter of doing.also I gave him an example my cousins were horny and ready to kissy-face but with my situation i had an advance made on me but they were underage.I DONT kissy-face KIDS.also I said what your looking for wont be hard to find(high school) and that when they get older idk how I'll respond..well now that they are older i fight the urges to kissy-face by masturbating cause thats better then us having sex as cousins..also now she is trying to kissy-face my other cousin(male) they just met again and they made out and groped each other.but i gave my male cousin(only one year older then my blodd cousin)the heads up of how she was and guess wat they didnt kissy-face but they plan to and she still wants to with me but i love my relationship with my aunt more then kissy-faceing a whore...my excuse was age and that I will not act out the fantasy as ive advised this guy except now there older.........now explain to me how that is disrespectful to women??I had the oppurtunity to the pop the cherry on a coupla virgins but I'm not a pedophile so that didnt happen with my cousins either???I'm lost dude.😂😂😂

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