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I'm falling in love with my first cousin but I'm not sure if he feels the same

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So my first cousin and I didn't grow up together but over the years we've built a relationship through letters he's in prison right now I've always felt like he started with me but I've never really been sure. He would ask me to send him pictures before he went to prison via cell phone, he was married then so I didn't think much of it I just figured because we hadn't seen each other in a while that he wanted to have a picture of me. I didn't feel the same way at first but I flirted with the idea because of the way that he made me feel I didn't feel like anything was wrong with it I honestly and I'm getting more comfortable with the idea of thinking of him sexually. I know for a fact that our family would not approve but lately he's been writing me letters and he always calls me gorgeous and he always tells me I'm beautiful and he wrote me in my last letter about the way my shirt showed my physique and that it was enticing. I don't want to confuse him being incarcerated with him having feeling because I know sometimes people say anything behind bars especially men who haven't seen women in a while but I can say that I felt him flirting with me before this the feelings have just seem to get deeper since we've been writing each other more. I want to express myself because it's killing me to know that someone that I have these feelings for I might not be able to be with but if I feel like he feels the same I wouldn't have a problem expressing myself I'm just not sure so I'm asking in regards to what I should do on my end with my feelings in the situation. I genuinely love him so even if he was repulsed with the idea I wouldn't just leave his side while he's going through this part of his life I genuinely was helping because I wanted to help a family member and I didn't expect to feel the way that I do. It feels impossible that I'm the only one that has these feelings and it's not perverted. I just understand him and I know he understands me please help me

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I am 28 he is 28..our birthdays are  a week apart..I was born on his due date and he was he was born on mines.. we're both aries..we actually have admitted how we feel about each other and we feel the same..it's exciting that we're on the same page! I truly love him and I feel he feels the same we have agreed to see where things go because we don't want each other to feel smothered..he said he wants to be with me but we have agreed to keep things between us while we explore our feelings towards one another! He said that he feels like I'm the one I feel like he's my twin flame! We've both felt like this for years

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First question, is he still married? I did not find a clear answer to that in your post.

How long is he incarcerated for? That can have a big influence on the future of your

being together even as just family.

Having spent 25 years working in a state prison system, I would caution you on baring all your

feeling and emotions to him.  Yes those behind the walls have a tendency to get carried away

with what they think they feel and desire as there is no face to face communication, or VERY limited 

at best. They don't have much else to do but let their imagination run.

I would suggest that you continue to develop a friendship, be there for him as family, but cool

the "romance".  Definitely don't send certain types of photos to him, they get passed around like 

wild fire. I am not trying to discourage you on a possible future relationship, but cautioning you

to the goings on where he is.

Best wishes on your journey.

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In prison? Why oh why.... 😫

Isn't it that you actually should stay away from him!? Why him?? Dont fall too fast on him, my friend. Be very careful...

 

Just saying..

 

Pooch

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