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i'm in love with my cousin, please help me.

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i am 22 years old and am studying medicine at imperial college london. i have a cousin who is studying dentistry in london as well she is 21 and is extremely hot and kind and caring and generous and smart. we are first cousins and our fathers are brothers, however they dont have a good relationship. i first started getting these feelings when i was 17 and we were both studying our a levels in the same subjects so we grew closer as we spent a lot of time together. over time i fell in love with her and think the world of her. the only thing i wish for is to get married to this girl and have children with her. she and my mother spend a lot of time together and are really good friends who get along with each other. my father also gets on well with her, so my parents would approve of her. i dont know what to do, from what i have witnessed i think she is interested in me too and is attracted to me but im not 100% sure. we text and as we both live in london in student accomodation she texts me and asks if i want to pop over to her place and spend some time together so i visit her regularly and she loves spending time with me, i make her laugh and we talk for hours on end, sometimes we would just talk for 4 or 5 hours straight. we both get on with each other and are perfect for each other. however there is a lot of dispute going on between our families over land in pakistan. however this hasnt affected our relationship and my cousin still gets on perfectly fine with my family. i havent told anyone yet and dont know what to do. should i wait until the dispute is over and tell her and my parents? or should i persue a private relationship with her now? i dont know what to do. help me.

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Hi! Well if u are not sure about whether she like u too or not. Better make it sure first before tell ur parents. As i see, cousins relationship need a strong hood. And u need to strenghten each other before going publicly. Hope it help u.

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Oh, so she is "extremely hot and kind and caring and generous and smart." Gosh, I love that. You are hooked, my friend. Sir, where are you going to find another girl like that? She is the one alright. Quit playing around and grab her up before someone else does. Let the others worry about the land dispute. It has nothing to do with you.

If you guys ever come to the USA, please contact me. I would be very honored to meet you two. God bless, and quit playing around!

 

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