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Permanently Cutting Ties With My Cousin

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For background information, please read this thread first:

My relatives said that my second cousin and her family were interested in getting back together, but wanted me to apologize for my interest in my cousin.

Upon hearing this, I did not know whether to laugh or get angry. It has been one of the most bizarre and twisted types of logic I have ever encountered.

Is it against the bible to marry your second cousin? No. Is it against U.S. laws to marry your second cousin? No.

Upon hearing their statement, I have decided to cut all ties, communications and relations with my cousin and her family permanently. I do not want to ever have people like them associated with my family and I.

Please share your inputs, feedback and experience on this matter. Thank you for reading!

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What a bunch  of bullies!

You need to read a book:  NASTY PEOPLE, HOW TO STOP BEING HURT BY THEM WITHOUT STOOPING TO THEIR LEVEL by Dr. Jay Carter.  He teaches you how to recognize them and how to handle them in a positive manner.

They are mistreating you now and , if you continued the connection, the bullying will become much worse.  You don't need that crap!

You are absolutely right to remove them from your life and move on to a much better one.

HUGS

Nat

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I agree with you, Nattana. They are incredibly, nasty people. They make it seem that a cousin attraction is the "sin of all sins". Also, my cousin has added lies to make me look pretty bad.

On the other hand, I am glad this incident occurred, as it has exposed their "true colors". It's only in troubling, trying times that you know who your true friends are.

Moving forward, I am going to ensure that future generations from my family avoid and not acknowledge any ties or relations with them.

An important lesson to learn - just because some people are your relatives does not mean you should trust them. As Jeremiah 9:4 (NIV) states:

Jeremiah 9:4 New International Version (NIV)

“Beware of your friends;
    do not trust anyone in your clan.
For every one of them is a deceiver,[a]
    and every friend a slanderer."

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I hope you will get access to Dr. Carter's book.  I found it in a thrift store by accident (Thank you, God!  LOL) and used it to change my thinking.  It really works.  I used to have a lot of anger but no more.  I am happy and peaceful.  The bullies no longer have an impact on me and I laugh at them and confuse them.  It is FUN!!!!!!!

HUGS'

Nat

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5 hours ago, clumsilycopious256 said:

Jeremiah 9:4 New International Version (NIV)

“Beware of your friends;
    do not trust anyone in your clan.
For every one of them is a deceiver,[a]
    and every friend a slanderer."

Be careful not to proof-text like this. This isn't applicable to the situation. 

 

https://www.amazon.com/How-Read-Bible-All-Worth/dp/0310246040

Get a used one for a dollar!

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Guys i dont know how to create a new thread, thats why i write my story on this thread.

Iam 23 and my cousin is 26, we live in different countries. We broke up. She broke up, because she didnt like the thought of being cousins and that it would destroy our family. She thinks what we were doing was wrong. I really love this woman with everything i got, i was for the first time in my life happy. Now iam heartbroken, we were 6- 8 months in a relationship. Now after our relationship ended she is dating another guy for 6 months already  and they did it once... she says she loves him and that she is in love with him. Right now iam at my cousins home with her family. This whole situation is fcked i loved her for 7 years and still love her. But she says that she feels nothing for me now. And iam just so angry and heartbroken, whenever i see her and whenever we are alone in our room i just flip out and cant control myself. I hate her so much. How can she love this other fcking retard, i know its over. She said we will be never together again. I hate my life, i didnt deserve this. Why? Why does she not love me anymore? She is completely different to me now, so fcking cold.

For me this love was something special, i just wanted to make her happy. Before her i just was an unhappy piece of holy crapoly!.

its like everything is a lie. Everything i ever believed in. This other dude makes her happy and she is in love with him... 

My Cousin doesnt even care about me anymore.  My cousins sister and her mother always said that we are like brothers...i think i begin hating my cousins sister, she probably knew that there was something and she kept saying cousin this ...brothers that...

fck this. Fck this family. Fck her. Why do i still love her even tho she doesnt? Fck me.

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Dan,   Please remove the abbreviated foul language. NOT need for clarification that you are in a bad place at this time.

We have visitors of ALL ages visit and this is offensive to many.

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